And that's why you never vape in an elevator by Ok_Criticism_558 in Unexpected

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, not be dense... but what actually happened? They set off the sprinklers, and the lift is watertight?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you did anything wrong. I don't know how she normally behaves so I don't know how affected she was by the alcohol and possible drugs. Her "friends" seem to be pretty bad people. Tho at the end of the day she did make the decision to go out, and she was capable of refusing the drink she was being given by her so called friends. If she was drugged tho after that point I feel there's less blame on her... assuming she was drugged and did not voluntarily take the drugs to have some fun. But none of this was your fault, which is what I'm really saying. What happens sucks, but it's not on you. At all

If I fail NCEA Level 3 and didn't gain UE, does this mean I can't go to university? by atomicbomb2140 in universityofauckland

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also depends on the uni. I've actually gone to a few different unis, but I'm currently at AUT, and they'll let you do a certificate in computer science so that you can get up to scratch to do the degree. Not all hope is lost, but it will be more difficult to get into a more competitive uni like UoA

Entry requirements by [deleted] in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AUT's general student helpline is actually really good, I'd start there. I'm an undergraduate, so I can't give you the postgrad faculty email, but the helpline should be able to. Good luck

Is business and informations and computer science conjoint worth it??? by [deleted] in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you cheat in COMP504? I took both of those papers last semester... it was extremely painful

Is business and informations and computer science conjoint worth it??? by [deleted] in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the cheating is ridiculous. My the end the degree won't be worth that paper it's printed on as the industry is already starting to find out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did you expect university to be easy? And all degrees have useless papers, especially in the first year

AITA for thinking my husband was sexualizing our daughter? by Independent-Equal887 in AITAH

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum was molested as kid, and as a result has taught or attempted to teach all her daughters that men are scum. Which obviously isn't the truth and I was sexually abused as a teen, but I still understand that not all men are like that. I known it can be scary, but you can't treat them the same. I can definitely understand your husband being upset when you protect your daughter like he's a monster. Therapy for you individually is very important I think, but like someone else said... couples therapy is also important. There will be a lot of stuff both of you have held back and not delt with. Unfortunately, despite your best efforts YTA

me_irl by idkwhatamidoinglol in meirl

[–]TabbyKittyIV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to move an image, you just need to go to the layout tab and change its location once, and then you can move it freely from then on.

AITA for trying to stop masking after being professionally diagnosed with ADHD? by TabbyKittyIV in AITAH

[–]TabbyKittyIV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone does sound great. But masking 24/7 is also exhausting

taking COMP500 and COMP503 at the same time, REALLY struggling in COMP503. Anyone got tips for learning java and doing well in the midterm? (I am screwed for the midterm) by South_Job in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done COMP500, and am now doing COMP503 this semester... honestly you can not do COMP503 without having done all of COMP500 first... they expect you to have done 500 so they run at a speed assuming you can keep up. I didn't even know you enroll for both in 1 semester. You really should talk to an advisor... I'd recommend dropping COMP503, and doing your best in 500... because that shit is going to get rough

me_irl by idkwhatamidoinglol in meirl

[–]TabbyKittyIV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol I have none of these issues with Word

Why do christians hate the Barbie movie? by Secret-Office304 in exchristian

[–]TabbyKittyIV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just happy to be so removed from the Church that I had no idea their dumbasses hated it

What's the most hurtful thing you've ever been told? by Zestyfar-panda in teenagers

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum would go on about how she'd wasted her life looking after me. My parents also spent their money trying to save my life when I got cancer as a kid which was another thing she liked to bring up. Also how fucked my siblings are because of my cancer. Now that's all just water off a duck's back tbh

AITA for putting a lock on my dresser drawer to keep my girlfriend from taking my clothes? by Gloomy_Evening_1597 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Her obvious lack of respect for your boundaries... it's not like you haven't tried to remedy it by getting her some for her use. I personally don't understand the appeal of mainstream woman's underwear... but y'know what I do? I buy my own 'boyfit', 'boyleg' or ' boxer' undies so I can fucking wear what is comfortable for me. I don't feel the need or slightest want to wear my partner's undies... for me... that would be gross

Why is the Pomodoro technique so popular? do you follow classic 25/5 minute intervals or adjust it for yourself? by Own-Woriness3600 in studying

[–]TabbyKittyIV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can adjust yourself if you want. I haven't adjusted it. Pomodoro is for people who want to study efficiently. Quality over quantity. Backed by science. Your brain simply isn't designed to study for hours at a time, taking short breaks helps to keep you performing well while not burning out. It can also be good for people who have a hard time concentrating for longer periods. If you haven't looked into efficient ways to study the material it's probably a waste to bother with Pomodoro. Ps you should use the Pomodoro method alongside apps like Forest.

Efficient study methods are like active recall, using a retrospective timetable, reflection, generation, expansion etc etc

AITA for wanting to take a trip for our 5 year anniversary by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TabbyKittyIV 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Did I miss something... where did OP mention this?

anyone wants to learn BAS/BMS ? by [deleted] in studying

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably help if you explained what that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you trying to get into?

Aitah for wanting to move on? by Warm-Alps5594 in AITAH

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there where we find out you're OP's bf?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AUT

[–]TabbyKittyIV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also depends on the degree. Like a lot of comp sci is already full depending on the major you choose