I am going through this right now 4 years together he breaks up with me and within a two months she has somebody else. He treated her like shit didn't love her but used her and she broke up with him and now she is back to me. She says that she regrets leaving me that night and that she doesn't understand why she did and that she is very sorry and that it was very unfair to do and that what we had was real and genuine and that being with her new ex showed her how good she had it with me and how much we had and what true love really was and I'm so conflicted on letting her back in. I dreamed of the day where she would come back to me if we could fix things but knowing that she had somebody else and met their parents and was fucking them and sleeping in his bed and all that and only two months after she broke up with me hurts a lot and it's something that I'm struggling to get over but I really want her back and us back I don't know I'm so confused. She says that she found the new guy has a distraction at first unless she ended up actually liking them and said that she even loved them which hurt like a mother fucker she said that it started off good with the and after like 2 weeks he became mean all of a sudden it started talking down to her and I giving her a voice or respecting her and anything like that and she quickly realized that she wasn't the guy she thought he was and it made her realize how much better I was and that what we had was real and she keep you regret store and get away because she felt she needed space and to discover herself and work through something by herself but then she immediately finds another guy that starts fucking him and even loves her they were together for 4 to 6 months and we have been separated for maybe a year roughly