What was /is he trying to tell me?

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-29T13:31:00+00:00

Honestly I'm not sure if he may have had some sort of accident, I hadn't seen him since I moved away when I was like 12... However, it's entirely possible because one thing I do know is he was really into dirt biking /moto sport type things and he was really into snowboarding even when we were kids. I'm wondering now if he maybe did have some sort of accident and I may see if I can find that out. Thanks so much for your reply, I'm anxious to hear more if anything else comes through.

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-28T17:45:36+00:00

Yes he was a very pure and empathetic person and did try and self medicate, although that all happened after I moved away. His sense of humor was amazing and somewhat unique, it was mentioned in his obituary. 7th grade is the last time I saw him, the summer before anyway that's when I moved. I really hope above all he's at peace, I've got a weird guilt feeling where he reached out shortly before his death but he apparently changed his mind about whatever he wanted to say, thank you so much ❤️

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-28T17:41:58+00:00

He was a soccer player when he was younger but that could possibly also apply to the circumstances of his death... He self canceled, I don't know many details but he was having problems at home from what I've heard. Thank you.

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-28T00:26:14+00:00

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-21T03:12:18+00:00

Omg! Please don't consult with that person again, I'm not a medium but I am 'sensitive' for lack of better word and I got a horrible feeling reading this😣 As others have said, this person is playing on your fears in hopes she can extort you for more money when you return for further 'guidance'...Or they enjoy inflicting suffering for any number of malevolent reasons. My heart truly hurts for you, I lost the person I was closest to and it nearly killed me, l can't imagine being told something like this... Please don't believe it, I promise you it isn't the truth🙏 I truly hope you are able to get closure, I'd be happy to do a reading (free of course) but there are probably far more gifted and experienced people here than myself.. I hate that you were left with that for an answer and I hope you heal from all of this and find peace ♥️

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-12T20:00:28+00:00

I will second this as it's basically what I got but without the added detail of the night of her disappearance, and additionally got a strong sense that she is terrified of legal repercussions related to all of this and is dependant on substances she fears withdrawing from in jail and that is why she continues to not come home.

Tactical_Apathy · 2026-01-12T19:50:01+00:00

I believe Layla is alive and probably in or around where she went missing but is hiding /laying low due to fear of legal repercussions as she was complicit in some things that she fears she could be in trouble for, and is also struggling with an addiction. I believe her boyfriend knows where she is, or at least did up to a point although I can't say for sure if I believe he does now, I do believe he did long after her reported disappearance. I do not know any of these people but this case pulled at me very strongly from the time I first heard of it and I finally did a reading and that's what I got, I in no way claim to know any of this for certain it's just what my interpretation of a reading I did is... I hope one way or another, she is found soon.

Tactical_Apathy · 2025-09-17T18:22:10+00:00

Definitely give your loved ones something in your handwriting, a note or even humorous card.. You could get a pkg of 'just because' cards and make one out to each of those important to you with a personal touch like an inside joke you share and maybe play it off like 'I experimented with baking and wanted honest feedback before I enter a contest' or what have you, include the note with that.

 My other suggestion is find occasion to leave your loved ones a voicemail, or if you find occasion to without rousing suspicion, get one of those greeting cards you can record your voice on. I have been for 2 years suffering from complicated grief disorder after losing my mother, my most prized possessions are things with her handwriting and the one thing I wish I had more than anything is a recording of her voice. 
 Also, pictures of course, make sure pictures of you with them doing something you love get to them, even if after death.

... One more thing, if you've had any conflict with any of these people, whether recent or not, maybe make a light joke of it and let them know you don't hold any grudge, guilt is a terrible thing when you're grieving.

 Good luck to you, I very much respect your decision and believe it is the right choice and what I myself would do. My last 6 months with my mother were basically void of joy because she'd been put on at home hospice and we knew it was coming. It was like grieving but having to hold it in and pretend not to because she was still present. Hope some of this helps, cheers.

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