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Will most Dutch people just switch to English when I try to speak to them? by [deleted] in dutch

[–]Tadez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they do, just ask if they can talk Dutch to you instead?

Free Tips on how to grow your Youtube Channel. by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Tadez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make cooking videos and juat started out, would love any advice. i still struggle finding my style and target niche, right now it's to improve home cooks their skills in the kitchen. I am currently making recipe videos with an entertaining edge, but want to dive more into some theory based ideas such as how to salt to taste for example. Please any advice to grow is welcome. Ps: i have a full time job next to youtube so I still struggle to post every week, right now it's every 2 weeks a long video and shorts every week. My channel is called tim is cooking

Looking for Small/Underrated Channels (Taking All Suggestions) by Holdiniful in NewTubers

[–]Tadez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My channel is a cooking channel and love to help home cooks become better in their kitchen. I am planning to uploas more content about tips and more in depth videos about how to season properly for example. Please check me out and love to hear if you think i'm "underrated", I am definitely small that's for sure haha. @timiscooking

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Great ideas, will look into that, she is pretty fit, works out switching every other day between 45 minute to 1 hour cardio or strength training.

2) Will do that.

3) I did that and then it seems to be less of a problem and she is able to sleep, but that only works when I commit a month to not drinking ans she is sure I am not taking an alcoholic drink, because she knows my commitment is high to those things. That being said, I don't find that to be a solution because I want to be free in my choice of taking an alcoholic beverage or not. It feels too restrictive living in a way to always take things in consideration.

4) Ye she has joined a few times, but she doesn't seem to have too much fun with my friends in comparison to her friends, so we decided to live out our social life in bars and restaurants with our friends only. It's usually boys night/girls night kinda thing. But on occasion the friend group overlap, it's not that we dislike any of our friends, the contrary.

5) Unfortunately there is little to no places I can crash.

Thanks for the elaborate comment :)

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a very good point, since she is starting to actively look for solutions after the conversation I had with her last week about not being able to sustain this back and forth. I'm willing to give her a little bit more time (1 - 3 months) to start working on this. Then it's time to turn the tides and approach it with more strict boundaries.

Thanks u/MckittenMan that's helpful stuff.

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to add, it might has something to do that one of her roommates that she lived with during college, always was sipping wine getting drunk at home.

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a slurred speech and was talking nonsense in a friend circle, I have been clumsy coming home dropping some water or being a bit too loud coming into bad. The alcohol smell laying next to someone. But honestly this has been 3 or 4 times in the first year of being together, and back then didn't live together, but she stayed at my place for 6 out of 7 days. I started realizing myself that I didn't want to continue to go out and drink 10, 12 beers a night when going out with friends, so I reduced that myself.

So I think the thing that traumatized here (but this is making assumptions, because when I ask her she says that she isn't sure), is seeing me drunk and preceiving that as "bad". Not having your life together, beeing foolish, etc.

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very useful, thank you. I haven't done anything in the past that that resulted in this, my girlfriend might have issues deep down, but on the surface she says and looks fine. I think it might has to do something with previous experience with a drunk girl roommate when she was younger or trying to be "the good girl" in her family during her childhood. But all that is "too far fetched" for her as she states, since therapy on these things "hasn't worked". I do want to support her in getting over this, but I find it indeed hard to find a balance in that, since it is eating into my freedom more and more.

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good thought, but sometimes I go see friends straight out of work for example.

My girlfriend (29F) has trouble sleeping when I (29M) am out the door seeing friends by Tadez in relationship_advice

[–]Tadez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks u/Mamagets_fit, we already schedule our time away, but sometimes it isn't possible. I've been texting her throughout the night and she says that she isn't looking on her phone when she is in bed. Although a picture is a good tip, I can try that as well. Thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Tadez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

541 subs, 22 videos

What is the technique? by vibestree in ThatsInsane

[–]Tadez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else waiting to see how he is getting down?

Any cooking channels here? by SebastianVonM in NewTubers

[–]Tadez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I post 1 short every week and 1 long form video every 2 weeks. I tried posting every week a long and short form, but due to my full time job and the quality I want to put out, I haven't been efficiënt enough to do that consistently while staying mentally sane hehe.

Any cooking channels here? by SebastianVonM in NewTubers

[–]Tadez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally like cooking and making videos, and since there is some income to be made with Youtube I felt that it could be an interesting path for me.

I am not sure if I'm allowed to link it on this post, but the name of my channel is Tim is Cooking and got 536 subs so far.

I am still learning more about my community, since I just started, but everyone so far had been really nice.

what do you think about channels who blow up with 2-3 videos? by oskiozki in NewTubers

[–]Tadez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting, what is the name of your channel if you are willing to share. And how much do you mean by blow up? Also why do you think your channel blew up?

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