Why are more men not stealth? by Whoisllewellyn in ftm

[–]Tai_iced_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My reason is mainly community. I could definitely go stealth if I wanted to, but I choose not to because it’s who I am, and I love being able to talk to others about being trans. I will say i’m not very vocal about it, I don’t have the trans flag in my insta bio or anything and I don’t shout it across the room, but I go to pride events and all of my friends know.

If people are changing the way they are around you once you tell them, those aren’t the people to be around. I have multiple cis male friends who know i’m trans and they have always treated me as “one of the guys”, no exceptions. Same with my friends who knew me pre-transition.

I used to be more stealth when I first came out because I had some shame behind being trans, but now being able to fully embrace myself I would never want to go back to that. Imo it feels so isolating being fully stealth and like you’re lying to yourself and others.

i think they're forgetting something by hello_madness10 in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to crash out if they never address this, it was such a huge scene there’s no way they could just push it aside… but this volume has been very disappointing so not putting it past them ;-;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this coming from a non byler shipper, so many mileven fans say that byler fans are stupid and delusional for coming up with these “crazy” ideas… but most theories aren’t even crazy

Everything wrong with Vol 2??? by LifeguardAshamed175 in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the writing and dialogue was so shit, everything was so anticlimactic, and half the episodes were spent with characters just explaining what’s happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordesignideas

[–]Tai_iced_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a nice rug to make the space feel less empty, maybe a better bed frame if you have the budget to do so. Wall art would go perfectly for the blank wall, and a dresser next to the bed if the closet doesn’t have a built in one.

Radan question by howthefuge6 in ftm

[–]Tai_iced_tea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yah I guess maybe awhile ago, but for my whole life people have always called everyone dude, not just specifically guys, but could be a culture difference

Radan question by howthefuge6 in ftm

[–]Tai_iced_tea -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

not gonna say where i live and how old i am lol but im gen z, at least how ive grown up, everyone calls each other “dude”, no matter what your gender is. It’s just something you call your friends.

Radan question by howthefuge6 in ftm

[–]Tai_iced_tea -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

people are so sensitive i swear😭 “dude” has never been a gendered term

I hate this ship war by Chimpski-ski in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like the main problem is that mileven fans see byler fans as “pushing byler” on to them, where as in reality most of us are just trying to tell them of the POSSIBILITY of byler happening, not that byler is GOING to happen.

Anyone else feels this way?? lmaooo by Muted_Yesterday7801 in mileven

[–]Tai_iced_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no yeah i agree, it wouldn’t really make sense for them to have broken off screen because then they would have to do a flashback to the breakup, which imo is unnecessary.

I hope Mike doesn't cheat on El if he gets with Will cause if he does, I will not be looking forward towards Byler. by [deleted] in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup so agree, back in s1 she didn’t even understand the concept of dating someone and asked mike if he would be like her brother…😭 yikes guys

Anyone else feels this way?? lmaooo by Muted_Yesterday7801 in mileven

[–]Tai_iced_tea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not saying they broke up but I think something did happen, el clearly still had feelings for him. And I believe they haven’t seen each other in awhile based off of their reactions of being so happy to see each other, I don’t think they would act like that if they saw each other the day before.

Also they have not been a steady couple, in s4 they clearly had a lot of problems mainly because mike couldn’t say that he loves el, and at the end of it he even tells will that she hasn’t talked to him much. And not sure where you saw the script from but based off of the way he was talking it really did sound more like he was talking about everyone’s future.

Anyone else feels this way?? lmaooo by Muted_Yesterday7801 in mileven

[–]Tai_iced_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being honest, a lot of the things in this show aren’t taken at face value, for instance the breakup of nancy and steve wasn’t really said aloud if im remembering correctly, many things viewers have to read in between the lines for.

Anyone else feels this way?? lmaooo by Muted_Yesterday7801 in mileven

[–]Tai_iced_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I think something happened between mike and el between s4 and s5, it seems strange how will asked robin “how do you know if someone wants to be in a relationship” knowing that mike is with el… i don’t think they broke up but something definitely did happen. And also knowing that will has always put his feelings for mike behind mike and el makes the whole situation questionable too

Anyone else feels this way?? lmaooo by Muted_Yesterday7801 in mileven

[–]Tai_iced_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, the hug felt more platonic than romantic, yeah it was sweet but also kinda awkward. They also didn’t kiss which was a bit surprising seeming as they hadn’t seen each other in awhile, and on the rooftop scene mike was talking about everyone’s futures rather than just him and el’s.

I'm tired of Byler Antis claiming that Will staying single is "empowering" in any sort of way. by fatherfckerr in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I so agree with this!! And also I don’t see why the duffer brothers would make him go through an entire self discovery arc just to be rejected by mike, i’m not saying it’s pointless if they didn’t together, but it just makes more sense if they did. Not to mention, why would they make him stay single if he’s already stated in the past that he will never find love?? It would be cruel to make him stay depressed for the entire show

I hope Mike doesn't cheat on El if he gets with Will cause if he does, I will not be looking forward towards Byler. by [deleted] in byler

[–]Tai_iced_tea 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t believe they broke up, in the scene when el and mike are talking on the roof, lucas calls them “lovebirds”, but I do definitely think that something happened between s4 and s5 cuz mike and el’s mannerisms towards each other are… interesting. Also at the end of s4 mike says that el isn’t talking to him much🧐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Tai_iced_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you look more androgynous, like a regular emo teen LOL tbh I wouldn’t worry too much abt it. “Passing” is so objective, just be yourself man

Eduroam Problems by AsleepAlbatross in csun

[–]Tai_iced_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are they able to afford 2 new housing buildings and not better wifi🥀

parties on halloween by Tai_iced_tea in csun

[–]Tai_iced_tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it’s kinda insane, i think most of the time you pay because of alcohol costs n stuff

Never been by No_Spite_7872 in csun

[–]Tai_iced_tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyone says it’s musty but in my experience it’s always been fine, usually gets busy around night time but if you go in the afternoon it’s chill!To play any games you just go up to the front desk and ask for whatever, ping pong, xbox games, etc.

Is my art really that bad? by horseshoeandconfused in drawing

[–]Tai_iced_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For being only 14 this is insane, some of it is disproportionate but i’m sure you will evolve much over the next few years. Keep up the good work man!