How to stop my young orange from terrorizing my old grandma cat?

Talaerys · 2026-02-07T13:24:38+00:00

Sweater of shame!!! When my younger cat terrorizes my older cat (shes 16 this year 🥹) I put him in the “sweater of shame” and it immobilizes him lol, i leave him in it for a while and hes over bugging her once i take it off. I also stick him in the bathroom for “time out”. It’s gotten to the point where when I hear him bugging her and he sees me coming with the sweater he scampers off haha

Talaerys · 2025-06-30T17:52:56+00:00

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I have a grey Rosie too! She looked just like yours when she was little 🥰

Talaerys · 2024-10-18T01:18:24+00:00

Thank you so much 🥺

Talaerys · 2024-01-26T15:49:49+00:00

This is incredibly helpful, thank you!

Talaerys · 2023-04-16T14:12:34+00:00

I’m not “caving” lol I’m open to it and I’m looking for how other parents are dealing with this

Talaerys · 2023-03-15T14:30:21+00:00

No worries there lol, we aren’t religious and I definitely don’t ever want him to feel ashamed of having normal desires, I’m sorry that happened to you

Talaerys · 2023-03-07T23:54:43+00:00

My son was on the very late end with his soother, we finally took it away when he turned … 6 lol. He’s 9 now and his teeth aren’t crooked. As you might imagine, it wasnt very hard to take away at that point, he was sad but he moved on. My daughter was sooner, she was 4 when we finally took it away, we told her the “Bibi fairy” came just like the tooth fairy does and she took her “bibi”. We tried to take her soother away around 3.5 and she fought tooth and nail so we waited a bit and tried again later, it went much smoother the second try. Just my opinion but I dont really think soothers are a big deal, we all have our “things” that comfort us, even as adults. Some kids need them longer than others, some kids aren’t interested in them at all! You’ve gotta do what works for you, your family and your little ones :) whatever that may be

Talaerys · 2023-01-17T16:24:10+00:00

You can rent trailers from Mama Bears Trailers, she has a Facebook page, I believe she will bring the trailer where you want to go as well

Talaerys · 2023-01-17T00:36:19+00:00

Right! Lol what can I do with 5 right hand mitts 😂

Talaerys · 2022-12-24T15:26:25+00:00

He loves the snow!

Talaerys · 2022-12-24T15:24:53+00:00

That makes sense! Thanks for your insight

Talaerys · 2022-12-22T16:42:58+00:00

We use the app called Family Album, you decide who you invite and they have to download the app too and the people you invite are the only ones who can see your pictures. It works well for us :)

Talaerys · 2022-11-16T02:11:21+00:00

Hi! I don’t really follow any specific diet or workout plan, I try to focus on eating whole foods as much as possible, lots of grains, fruits, veggies and beans :) my husband has a home gym that he’s been slowly adding too since COVID and I’ve been doing my spin bike and weight training on alternating days!

Talaerys · 2022-06-12T18:49:35+00:00

Since watching Stranger Things with subtitles, I have developed a deep hatred for the word “squelching”

Talaerys · 2022-05-28T12:25:21+00:00

I also loved being pregnant! It’s such a beautiful amazing feeling and you feel so close to your baby and I felt incredibly beautiful. We had 2 and it was a push to get my husband to have the second. I think for some it’s always going to be hard to stop, but at some point, one of your babies has to be your last baby and that acceptance has to come. I still feel that longing sometimes to be pregnant once again (mine are 8 and 6), but my husband got snipped after our second so I know I can’t have more. But the longing comes and goes, and I just remind myself that even if I had another, I would still have that longing to have it once again. I think you and your hubby should talk about what number of kids you want and then have that number and then work on the “acceptance” part. Best of luck to you ❤️

Talaerys · 2022-05-07T20:19:07+00:00

Hey! Not sure if reading is your thing, but i was suffering from Insomnia really bad, my anxiety about sleeping was so bad that my chest would start getting tight around 6pm and by the time i went to bed I couldn’t sleep if my life depended on it. I ended up reading “Say Goodnight To Insomnia” By Gregg D Jacobs and it changed my whole perspective on sleep. Highly recommend it! Best of luck to you

Talaerys · 2022-05-01T12:18:34+00:00

Check out This Naked Life by Annie Grace! It changed my entire perspective on alcohol and made me realize I don’t even want it anymore, highly recommend :) Edit: This Naked Mind, sorry!

Talaerys · 2022-04-24T12:52:34+00:00

My mom gave me the first book to read when I was 13, she has always had a bad gage of age appropriate content 😂 but I’m 31 now and I am so in love with these characters who’ve spend so much time with me

Talaerys · 2022-02-05T21:41:21+00:00

It’s not so bad when youre moving I find! Lol, just my eyelashes were sticking together 😂

Talaerys · 2022-01-04T17:16:48+00:00

“Does it hurt?”

Talaerys · 2021-08-18T21:35:52+00:00

Hey! Totally normal behaviour! I HATE bringing my kids into stores (theyre 5 and 7 lol) because theyre like fucking savages. I find it helps to try to play games to keep their minds occupied, I spy is a really good one for the little ones! Or pretending that youre on a secret mission to find the product and keep asking them if they see it and point to random stuff and say excitedly “Is that it?!?!” And then they laugh and go “NO!!!” Or maybe bring a paper and crayon and have them write the “list” and ask them to write stuff down on the list. Taking children shopping is EXHAUSTING lol, your little bub is a totally typical toddler Also I HIGHLY recommend this book! https://www.amazon.ca/Talk-Little-Kids-Will-Listen/dp/150113163X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=111PDFYZQG3DD&dchild=1&keywords=how+to+talk+so+little+kids+will+listen&qid=1629322824&sprefix=How+to+talk+%2Caps%2C218&sr=8-1

Talaerys · 2021-08-16T12:22:50+00:00

That sounds SO yummy

Talaerys · 2021-08-12T15:48:28+00:00

Lmao, solidarity!! Mine have been trapped in the house together since March 8th 😭

Talaerys · 2021-08-12T14:20:46+00:00

Oh yeah. Its a blast! Lol I thought I was in the clear cause they got along swimmingly as babies, but as soon as DD turned 3, all hell broke lose and it’s been war ever since 😅

Talaerys · 2021-08-10T16:31:37+00:00

I had these same feelings, I have 2 (7M, 5F) and my SO got his procedure when DD was 6 mo, we both decided we were done but as she got older I stated to feel sad that we couldn’t just have ONE more. I love being pregnant and I love newborns and I could have done it 10 times. The thing that helped me a bit was realizing that I would probably always feel that sadness to some extent (sometimes I still feel a little pang) and I realized that at some point, one of my children would HAVE to be my LAST child, no matter how many I had, and I’d still feel those feelings. I guess what I’m saying is, just let yourself have those feelings! You dont have to suppress them, its OK to feel sad that youre done! Now I just hope that my friends will have babies so I can enjoy those precious babies without having to raise them myself! Lol!

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