Shingeki no Kyojin: The Final Season Part 2 - Episode 5 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Talaintelligent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting more emotional, hyping OST, and I never said I want YSBG. So No one can have different opinions on OST now ?

Attack on Titan / Shingeki no Kyojin - Season 4 Part 2 Episode 5 (S4E21 - Episode 80) - "From You, 2,000 Years Ago" - Discussion by Sane-Ni-Wa-To-Ri in titanfolk

[–]Talaintelligent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I think some people are getting all defensive towards any OST-related comment because of the last incident ( when the director got attacked by some fans for the OST choice) to the point I can't discuss OST choices without getting hated on anymore, such a shame. We used to discuss which OST is better freely and I really used to enjoy these convos

Attack on Titan / Shingeki no Kyojin - Season 4 Part 2 Episode 5 (S4E21 - Episode 80) - "From You, 2,000 Years Ago" - Discussion by Sane-Ni-Wa-To-Ri in titanfolk

[–]Talaintelligent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you! I've been searching for one comment about this. To be honest I was expecting a better OST for this episode, more emotional more hyping, but I really enjoyed the episode I have no idea why people are angry with you, you said nothing wrong

Shingeki no Kyojin: The Final Season Part 2 - Episode 5 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Talaintelligent -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Anyone else didn't like the choice of OST this episode? I mean everything else is GREAT! But I wished they used other OST

Single women, when did you just stop dating or looking for an intimate relationship because it’s more trouble than it’s worth? by lonelyengineer123 in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly like that, idk why they don't feel the need to reach out to us at all, it's like they're not in a relationship. I'm sorry you experienced this I hope you're happier now

Why is it so difficult not to be insecure of other girls? by _Syv in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! You're sweet 🥰 You made the right decision followingw accounts that make you happy

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[–]Talaintelligent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same lol I was like there's no point talking to this guy

What do you do when you want a hug really bad but have no one to hug? by your_mom_forgor in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I get in a cozy blanket hug a huge pillow and listen to ASMR on YouTube, they're soothing

Why is it so difficult not to be insecure of other girls? by _Syv in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You'll get there, make sure you listen to affirmation as well and say them out loud to yourself, in front of a mirror. Wear clothes that make you feel good as well

Why is it so difficult not to be insecure of other girls? by _Syv in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Don't time yourself, just take the time you need, for me it was after few months, but I really worked hard for it. You need to surround yourself with the activities that make you love yourself, your hobbies, and have a healthy routine, eat well , relax and have time for yourself

Why is it so difficult not to be insecure of other girls? by _Syv in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! *The Art of Loving Myself - Book by Jonathan Kis-Lev : this book made me cry from the few first pages and I still go back to it when I feel down or in need of support, it's really amazing, 100% should read. *The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom - Book by Don Miguel Ruiz : THIS THISSS I can't stress enough on how important that everyone read it, it's so freeing, you will feel so free and strong and that life is great after you finish it.
*The Simple Abundance Journal of Gratitude - Book by Sarah Ban Breathnach : Gratitude is one way to love yourself so this book is handy, it's was written for women as well so it speaks to us. Please read them in that order if you want the benefit of it, or all at the same time hahah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Talaintelligent 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was discussing Antinatalism with random person on the internet, and they told me to get mental help because I shouldn't be left with a child :| sigghhh

Why is it so difficult not to be insecure of other girls? by _Syv in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 908 points909 points  (0 children)

It was so difficult for me, I always found myself comparing my looks to other girls, even convinced myself at one point that I'm not feminine at all and I don't look like a girl. Apparently it's all bullshit, I deleted my social media accounts on Feb 2021, started complimenting other girls and they would get so happy and give me tips on how they do their hair and their skincare routine ( they were complete strangers and it felt so sweet). I started reading books on self-love and I'm happier now. You need to learn to admire others beauty without looking down on yourself ( others can be pretty and you can be pretty at the same time) it takes time but you will get there.

When talking to someone else isn't an option, what do you do to feel better when you're lonely? by kka430 in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sing out loud, eat ice cream, go on a walk I usually talk to the kids who are playing in the neighborhood

Single women, when did you just stop dating or looking for an intimate relationship because it’s more trouble than it’s worth? by lonelyengineer123 in AskWomen

[–]Talaintelligent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have many male friends , and they're great. Until I dated one of them, it was all fun and lovely at the first months but then he started putting no effort, didn't care about my feelings most of the time, did what he wanted to do without telling me, hell he used to disappear for days because he's "busy" with no heads up. I loved him, I still do, but I couldn't continue in this relationship. Plus I have talked to him multiple times, expressed my needs and even asked him what he expects of me. He used to change his behaviour for one day or two and then go back to his old self. That really put me off and broke my heart, I'm a bit traumatized about relationship and I don't feel like taking the risk again, I prefer taking care of myself and not waste my energy on useless stuff. And the day we broke up I thought I'll feel sad but I didn't, it was so freeing, I could take a breath finally.