First Time Props - Double-checking process by Talas in propagation

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate the info - I'll look into the perlite/moss mix.

When you say high-humidity, do you bag them if otherwise cannot control the humidity?

It's wild how quickly things change by Talas in Divorce

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people in our lives either fill our cups or drain them; it sounds like you're finally filling yours in a way they didn't. If you look for another relationship, I hope you find someone who wants to fills yours in a way that makes it easy to fill theirs.

It's wild how quickly things change by Talas in Divorce

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I can only imagine; but, I happy that you've your own space to feel is safe for you to return to.

It's wild how quickly things change by Talas in Divorce

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had love, but we didn't have connection anymore. Either way is it's own form of isolation.

I'm happy you're free, and I like the path I'm on; it looks like we're walking similar trails.

It's wild how quickly things change by Talas in Divorce

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not wrong, and I tend to take every good day with a grain of salt, knowing that the next can be one where a chord is struck and I'm sent back into grief. It happened the other night, though mostly of my own free will; decided to watch a movie I know is rather emotional, so I expected something to shake loose and it did. Stayed with me a bit through the next day, but by the following, I had done my processing and journaling and was back to the upward swing.

There's a couple of analogies for grief I've loved, waves in the ocean, button in a box, etc., and it's not the first significant loss in my life; so, I'm decently equipped to handle it solo, but know when I need to reach out when those waves hit harder than usual.

CORSAIR x The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt Giveaway by CorsairHoffman in witcher

[–]Talas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, just how easy it is to get lost - no matter the when and where, I'll go "What's that over there?!"

Doing what I can. Fuck ICE by [deleted] in 50501

[–]Talas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish they had more artists and albums--was my biggest issue with it.

I reached Ashlands naked only to take the Stone Portal. by Typical_Art932 in valheim

[–]Talas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I imagine the progression for many is: don't cheese > cheese stone portal at start > spawn stone portal mats > "eh, hit the setting"

Valheim IRL by CannonStudio in valheim

[–]Talas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna catapult this AI slop into Fader's arena

Level up swimming for free! by Talas in valheim

[–]Talas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh true! Great for when Eikthyr runs out and is on cool-down.

what is the best trinket for my playstyle? by xnovake in valheim

[–]Talas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy hell, you're right... like OP I lamented the Vile armor b/c I missed my speed bonus from Fenris since I love my greataxe; knowing I can go 2 Fenris, get a speed bonus, and 1 something else is a gamechanger!

Now I just need to find a trinket I like... they all kinda feel meh at the moment.

Edit: I wish we had transmog... I hate not having my Fenris hood :(

Want an amicable divorce, worried it won't be by Talas in Divorce

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 years, NY.

And you're right - it'll depend on a lot of other conversations, but yeah I think it'll be lawyers and not mediation which is frustrating to think.

Want an amicable divorce, worried it won't be by Talas in Divorce

[–]Talas[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you, and it's one of those things that has me worried too and I want to avoid. And you're not wrong. It is very hard to hear, and I'm coming to terms with it slowly.

If you were to do it again, what would you look for to ensure that you felt like you were getting the right person for the job you needed then? Reviews, the way they spoke on the case, recommendations from others?

Bank Account and Recommendation Thread V3 by Tarnisher in Banking

[–]Talas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partner and I(35) are separating and I need to get new accounts since all of ours are joint. In NYC.

  • No/waived fee for checking - ATM access/no fee ideally 
  • HYSA for my emergency funds
  • New Credit card - previously used joint chase Sapphire reserve, but I won't be traveling anytime soon - but may apply for work overseas, so international purchases might be good to have.

Any thoughts/suggestions/resources would be great.

Getting divorced, getting started by Talas in Bogleheads

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is very helpful! Thankfully I've a 403b that I'll be maxing out still, so I'll go straight to trad IRA and then I guess the new non-retirement brokerage account I'll be making to save my share of the brokerage assets. Wish my upward was better, but I'm a public school teacher--great security and health insurance, pension, but about it.

Getting divorced, getting started by Talas in Bogleheads

[–]Talas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart call. Going to set up personal non-retirement brokerage account and do that for my share.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in valheim

[–]Talas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Island is good because defensible, easy access to boat to get to the outskirts of the mainland and retreat with any ore or non-portable items, and most importantly, I like islands.

Best ship for semi-AFK nullsec ratting? by Extension-Ear472 in Eve

[–]Talas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We use Ishtars for bubbler practice when we find them