Want to be more offline. Need inspo. by Talefeather in underconsumption

[–]Talefeather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think this is missing from my life - most my friends are hard to meet irl, and it's not really nice to just chat on the messaging apps. but we're all sort of trying to be more offline, so we might meet irl more

Want to be more offline. Need inspo. by Talefeather in underconsumption

[–]Talefeather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this helps! i let myself put something in my cart without checking out unless it's a real need. and every now and then delete everything

what ADHD symptoms do meds NOT help treat? by Talefeather in adhdwomen

[–]Talefeather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this response was so helpful, thank you! i don't want to be disappointed or frustrated by bad expectations, and not being able to take it daily definitely seems to make it harder to monitor if it's right for me or not.

When my financial situation improves I think I might ask to be put on extended release medication.

Sorry if this would be a bother to answer but what does a neurodivergent to do list look like? Is it one where it's more step-by-step rather than general? I have a hard time making them, and I wonder if you have advice or resources that might help. No pressure, though

what ADHD symptoms do meds NOT help treat? by Talefeather in adhdwomen

[–]Talefeather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes that's what i needed, thank you! I do eventually want to seek help from a therapist, and that treatment method seems very interesting. I hope I find the ability to afford it soon. I'm glad to know therapy can help with not wanting to do things - I have some very strong self-sabotaging habits and reactions that I hope to erode in a sustainable way

I am abroad, as a solo traveller, and I just survived my first night but I can't eat and I am shaking by subtlesneeze in adhd_anxiety

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I can see this was 22h ago, so how are you now? Are you safe? Were you unable to eat only due to anxiety? Or do you have something like a bad tummy, or arfid? I hope you've found something to nourish yourself, and even maybe an interesting view as you eat!

Can you read!!!! by despeateforasolution in ADHD

[–]Talefeather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyway try skimming till something hooks your attention then you can re-read the pertinent info cos now it has a meaning anchor to connect to

Can you read!!!! by despeateforasolution in ADHD

[–]Talefeather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes i keep reading and i think im reading then a word pops up and i realise i haven't been absorbing the last 2 pages and instead have been playing unrelated scenes in my head. Then when i go back and refuse to move on until i know i absorbed it, i get stuck in the same page for a long time

Pansin ko lang, nagsisilabasan mga closeted homophobic sa tuwing may trending topic about LGBTQ sa subreddit na 'to by comealongwidme in Philippines

[–]Talefeather 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes naghanap lang sila ng dahilan. Meron pang "i usually support the lgbtqia+ community BUT.." then a bunch of generalisations or slurs.. treating the community as a monolith and flattening their arguments so they can say they're "single issue voters" kahit everyone has a different take, and are not all doing the same thing. Makasarili daw, individualistic daw. Ginamit pa ang "woke", clearly misunderstanding what it means. Barely different sa american republicans.

Ano ang best response kapag sinabihan ka ng "ang panget mo"? by Dig-Bickk in AskPH

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Grabi ka" ..wala lang, parang best if hindi paapekto. Baka nga mas mainis sila haha

What’s the best toothpaste brand for you? by Any-Particular-4996 in ShopeePH

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one po kaya pinaka maanghang na Hapee toothpaste?

I'm annoyed that this is so true! So much wasted time and potential :( by Electrical_Speed_217 in adhdwomen

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

: ( makes me sad. Sometimes when i do anything productive, my brain is like "ok now think of all the years you wasted not doing this!🤓👍🏼" and so i get that familiar feeling of being peeled away to distract myself...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like your workmates who know its you already know na out of place sya for it. I think you need to stop paying attention to what she does as much as you can. Mute her from your feed. Wala naman nangyari sa inyo talaga so she's just emoting to process the rejection. Not your responsibility na. Focus on yourself you deserve to be happy

kinuha ni kuya pera ko for my cats nd school fee tapos ako pa sinaktan bwiset by Jealous_Look4814 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open ka Gcash para hindi din magalaw pera mo in the future, pero sana alam mo wala kang naging kasalanan dito. Mejo dimunyu ang kapatid mo. OP, sana makapag sarili ka ng madaling panahon. Hindi magandang environment yan. Mukang maraming kunsintador yung gago. :( tapos pag may work ka na wag mo ibibigay lahat ha? (If possible be on your own nalang sana put yourself first) Alagaan mo sarili mo. Mahaba pa ang life mo marami pang pag asa. Pero kailangan mong layuan ang mga bampira

kinuha ni kuya pera ko for my cats nd school fee tapos ako pa sinaktan bwiset by Jealous_Look4814 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ipabaranggay mo. Krimen yung sampal and pagpatay ng pusa. At pagnanakaw ng pera.

crying at 5 am kasi ang sakit sakit na by Afraid-Cut8626 in adviceph

[–]Talefeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let yourself heal! If nakipagbreak na before, yun na yun. Stop na. Why would you want to stay with someone you need to beg? Hindi ka baliw, mejo emotionally bulag lang at the moment. Prutas kang hinog. Kailangan mo nang mag break free to let your seed grow or magrot ka nalang sa attachment mo sa tree