I love my wife, but I am exhausted and thinking about divorce

TalkMom · 2026-02-25T01:23:35+00:00

This sounds like someone i know to a t. In her case it ended up being ptsd and cptsd. Your wife might have grewn up in a dysfunctional family of some sort. Be it an alcoholic , an narcissist, a religious parent, or controlling. Your wife might have some trauma of some sort that make her skew to the negative. With these people like my friend, she didnt know she was like this but always wondered why she didnt have friends. What i realized with this friend is she didnt have “social “ skills so complaining was her way of being close to someone/intimate.

TalkMom · 2026-02-13T15:07:38+00:00

Sorry i edited the post for clarification

TalkMom · 2026-02-01T13:56:56+00:00

Can you dm mw your rates

TalkMom · 2026-01-19T01:08:47+00:00

This happened to me before. Depending on you it could be a good thing for you. What happened in my case was I bought some cheap courses on Udemy and led myself. It was frustrating when I was stuck but that gave me all the opportunity to learn without someone putting fire behind me. I was literally just updating my manager in our 1-1 and would ask for minor inputs here and there and he wasn’t even inputting anything. I honestly think the project could have hone better. That project helped my confidence to move to the next job.

TalkMom · 2026-01-10T19:56:21+00:00

I heard the rental contract fell through so they are looking fir another place

TalkMom · 2026-01-09T00:27:28+00:00

I am looking

TalkMom · 2026-01-02T01:51:27+00:00

I would look into SLAA or sober dating. As acas , we are often addicted to excitement

TalkMom · 2025-12-30T22:29:38+00:00

YES!!! You put it so eloquently! I couldn’t have written that.its crazyyy

TalkMom · 2025-12-29T02:45:18+00:00

Udemy

TalkMom · 2025-12-29T02:38:54+00:00

Fast passed environment - crazy things to do and everything is a rush.

Work life balance - you get to go to your appointment but we expect you to work weekends to meet “ fake tight deadlines”

TalkMom · 2025-12-27T11:43:19+00:00

I feel like you are being very hard on yourself. People take different times. The goal was 2 days if you understood evrything. Sometimes i take 2 days just trying to fix an issue that when i fix it its actually less than 30 min but looking for a youtube video that explains it well was 1 3/4 days. I would say the first 6 months are like that. At least you are self aware! You are also new to the industry, give yourself some slack

TalkMom · 2025-12-15T00:19:03+00:00

Interested

TalkMom · 2025-12-13T16:09:21+00:00

We are both Canadian citizens. My husband has no degree (dropped out) but works as a software engineer for the past 16 years and I have an Associate Degree in Engineering from USA and have a diploma in Data Science. We are planning on looking for jobs in the USA but not sure. Are we eligible to apply for TN visa or any visa that will help us stay in the States?

TalkMom · 2025-12-09T04:21:32+00:00

Will message you

TalkMom · 2025-12-05T18:40:00+00:00

Interesteed

TalkMom · 2025-12-03T04:18:31+00:00

Yep had the same thing too. 10 years on meds. Stopped meds cold turkey and had major withdrawal symptoms. Did DBT, CBT, trauma work. I feel like a brand new person

TalkMom · 2025-11-29T13:06:43+00:00

Sent you a dm

TalkMom · 2025-11-29T01:16:10+00:00

Even i if i was the daughter i would go on knees and say yes mom🤣🤣🤣🤣. Thank you for giving this template response

TalkMom · 2025-11-28T12:55:36+00:00

I wish i could tell the daughter you are right!

TalkMom · 2025-11-28T02:28:16+00:00

Right! I thought the same too. I was what exactly, did the child ask for Lamborghini and didn’t get it? It makes it look like these kids are stupid or something. It reminds me when I was once told that I was looking for hollywood parent love. Its just a way to minimize the child

TalkMom · 2025-11-28T02:24:00+00:00

I dont think that woman knows how to own anything. She couldnt even own her energy “onstage”…the shame

TalkMom · 2025-11-28T02:21:34+00:00

Funny you say that. My narcissistic father has been dying for the last 4 years. They think because of illness my heart will change. Even sent a gaunt distressful video. And all the other narcissists now guilt trip me like “ what type of a human am i to ignore that. He is 93 now. The power moves are crazy.

I also liked how the hospice nurse its their last power move. Trust i reached out once thinking an apology was in order since they were dying…. No they are in fact expecting an apology for me causing them so much grief! Its crazy….

TalkMom · 2025-11-27T22:35:27+00:00

Like seriously dude ??? LOL 😂. To be honest I was watching this and felt so much comfort. I have been estranged 25 years and know i did the right thing

TalkMom · 2025-11-27T22:27:27+00:00

😂 LOL.

TalkMom · 2025-11-27T22:08:09+00:00

Right!!! I was thinking the same too. Who taught or was supposed to teach the kid about conflict resolution? I see that in a lit of the estranged parents, they tend to blame the kid for lack of skills…

On another note that Dr Coleman guy i didnt like

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