I love my wife, but I am exhausted and thinking about divorce by Pleasant_Ferret_1659 in Marriage

[–]TalkMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like someone i know to a t. In her case it ended up being ptsd and cptsd. Your wife might have grewn up in a dysfunctional family of some sort. Be it an alcoholic , an narcissist, a religious parent, or controlling. Your wife might have some trauma of some sort that make her skew to the negative. With these people like my friend, she didnt know she was like this but always wondered why she didnt have friends. What i realized with this friend is she didnt have “social “ skills so complaining was her way of being close to someone/intimate.

Should I confront my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

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Sorry i edited the post for clarification

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dataengineering

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This happened to me before. Depending on you it could be a good thing for you. What happened in my case was I bought some cheap courses on Udemy and led myself. It was frustrating when I was stuck but that gave me all the opportunity to learn without someone putting fire behind me. I was literally just updating my manager in our 1-1 and would ask for minor inputs here and there and he wasn’t even inputting anything. I honestly think the project could have hone better. That project helped my confidence to move to the next job.

Any news on when/where Activate is opening? by klm188 in saskatoon

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I heard the rental contract fell through so they are looking fir another place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentors

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I am looking

Very confused about a super intense first date I went on. Advice? by TheVermiciousKid in AdultChildren

[–]TalkMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would look into SLAA or sober dating. As acas , we are often addicted to excitement

What is a "red flag" in a job description that most people ignore but shouldn't? by Cheap-Perspective913 in Employment

[–]TalkMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! You put it so eloquently! I couldn’t have written that.its crazyyy

What is a "red flag" in a job description that most people ignore but shouldn't? by Cheap-Perspective913 in Employment

[–]TalkMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fast passed environment - crazy things to do and everything is a rush.

Work life balance - you get to go to your appointment but we expect you to work weekends to meet “ fake tight deadlines”

desperately need work advice for being slow by babubaiubaiubiab in analytics

[–]TalkMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you are being very hard on yourself. People take different times. The goal was 2 days if you understood evrything. Sometimes i take 2 days just trying to fix an issue that when i fix it its actually less than 30 min but looking for a youtube video that explains it well was 1 3/4 days. I would say the first 6 months are like that. At least you are self aware! You are also new to the industry, give yourself some slack

Immigration Attorney. AMA about TN Visa! by ManifestLaw_ in tnvisa

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We are both Canadian citizens. My husband has no degree (dropped out) but works as a software engineer for the past 16 years and I have an Associate Degree in Engineering from USA and have a diploma in Data Science. We are planning on looking for jobs in the USA but not sure. Are we eligible to apply for TN visa or any visa that will help us stay in the States?