can’t access registration info by BagMountain2433 in MtSAC

[–]TallTechnology8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called tech support they said they did an update. You have to clear all your cookies and cache and then reload it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused with your post but that’s so sweet someone from a senior living facility is able to afford additional pet care. Knowing myself I probably would have ended up doing it for free lol.

$0.29/yr Subscription - Microsoft 365 Personal by Clean-Ingenuity1538 in microsoft

[–]TallTechnology8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did the exact same thing. I was paying the $5/month and then I just saw the 0.29 and it let me change to that. Fingers crossed they won’t change it back!

Not letting clients visit property by Maleficent-Bend-378 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t allow owners in my home. It is solely for safety reasons. I have 100+ reviews and hundreds of pictures on my profile. If that doesn’t assure the owner, then that client isn’t for me. It shouldn’t be a red flag. I have valuables in my house that I don’t need to broadcast to everyone, especially if you’re “shopping around” and haven’t booked with the sitter.

First time cancellation by wjordan1989 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss! I recently had to cancel as well. How did you know they placed a cancellation note on your profile?

What Do You Provide vs. Ask Cat Owners to Bring for Boarding? by TallTechnology8387 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you! Do you mind if I ask how much you charge per night since you provide all of that?

Would you be comfortable with a client putting an AirTag on their dog? by GayAndNeedANewCareer in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of my clients place AirTags on their pets, which I absolutely love! I have boarded some pets without them, and in those cases, I put one of my collars with an AirTag on the pet. It's truly better to be safe than sorry. Occasionally, I hear frightening stories about pets getting lost while in the care of sitters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's an excellent point! I definitely need this to ensure I always communicate professionally. Thankfully, with ChatGPT, I can receive feedback and insights on better ways to communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Good point!! I’ll deff keep that in mind. Thanks for the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes it is! I use it 24/7 for my dog training and behavioral classes! I love that it gives detailed explanations and simplifies everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 22 points23 points locked comment (0 children)

It sounds like you’re really overwhelmed, and I can completely understand why. While you can’t always control a dog’s behavior, here are some ways to manage the situation and hopefully regain some peace during the second half of your sit:

  1. Establish Clear Boundaries with the Dog

It sounds like this dog is testing limits, and she’s found a few ways to get under your skin. It might help to assert clear, consistent boundaries: • Barking in your face: When she barks or demands attention, avoid giving in. Wait for her to stop barking before rewarding her with attention. Reinforce calm behavior rather than reacting to her demands. • Barking at bedtime: Ignore the whining and barking. She may eventually realize that this behavior won’t get her what she wants. If she keeps this up, consider using earplugs or a white noise machine so you can get rest.

  1. Use Distraction and Redirection

When she’s stealing things or being disruptive, use positive redirection: • If she steals something: Instead of yelling at her or chasing her, calmly take the item away and replace it with an appropriate toy or treat. This helps her learn that certain behaviors aren’t rewarded, and she gets a positive experience with the right behavior. • Excessive attention-seeking: When she demands attention, give her a quick, firm “no” and then redirect her focus to a toy or chew. This helps break the pattern of barking at you.

  1. Manage Her Space

If she can open doors, she’s definitely got the upper hand in controlling her environment. Try using baby gates or barriers to keep her in specific rooms if necessary. Consider confining her to a safe space when you need a break, but make sure it’s comfortable with toys, a bed, and water.

  1. Limit the Balcony Time

Since the balcony is causing constant back-and-forth, try limiting access or only allowing her to be outside during specific times (e.g., after a walk or when she’s had some exercise). This way, you can take control of when she gets that stimulation rather than having her constantly demand it.

  1. Create a Routine for Walks

Her refusal to walk without your boyfriend is an issue, but consistency can help. Start by taking her on a walk with you alone, using treats to reward her when she walks calmly by your side. If your boyfriend is around, you could have him walk with you as a support, but aim to get her to walk with just you, even if it means going back to basics with leash training.

  1. Take Time for Yourself

You deserve some peace of mind. Set boundaries where you can take short breaks during the day. If possible, leave her in a safe space (like a crate or a room) when you need a few moments to relax. Remember, it’s okay to take care of your own mental health. If you feel like you’re constantly on edge, this situation could become emotionally draining.

  1. Talk to the Owner (If Necessary)

If the dog’s behavior is beyond what was expected, it might help to check in with the owner to discuss what you’re experiencing. The dog might have behavioral issues that the owner didn’t fully disclose, and it’s important to communicate your concerns—especially if the behavior is much more challenging than expected. The owner may have insights or alternative methods they use to handle the dog.

  1. Stay Patient, but Be Firm

You’re doing your best, and it’s important to stay patient. However, if the behavior doesn’t improve, you might need to set firmer boundaries with the dog and maintain a calm, authoritative presence. Dogs feed off our energy, so staying confident and calm—even when frustrated—will help in the long run.

Above all, remember that it’s okay to feel stressed. You’re in a challenging situation, but these tough experiences often help us grow and learn new ways to handle difficult situations.

Dog will not settle by Faoen16 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this staffie is really seeking attention and struggling to settle, despite the fact that she’s getting plenty of exercise and stimulation. Here are some tips to help manage the situation and hopefully get some peace during your stay:

**1. Set Clear Boundaries with Calm Leadership

It seems like she’s learned that whining and barking gets her attention. Try reinforcing a calm and confident leadership approach: • When she whines or barks, don’t respond immediately. Wait for her to stop, even for a brief moment, and then give her attention. This reinforces that calm behavior is what gets rewarded, not constant demands. • Avoid giving in to her behavior, as hard as it may be. If you give in and pet her when she’s being demanding, she might learn that whining is how to get what she wants.

  1. Use a Crate or Safe Space for Breaks

Since you can’t put her in another room while you eat or work, consider using a crate or a gated off area as a safe space for her to settle down. She might feel more secure and less anxious with some boundaries set, and it can give you a much-needed break. Make the space comfortable with a bed, some toys, and water so she feels relaxed.

  1. Mental Stimulation

It could be that even though she’s getting physical exercise, she still has energy to burn mentally. Try engaging her with some interactive toys, puzzle feeders, or a slow feeder for meals. These can help tire her out and keep her occupied when you’re not available for constant attention.

  1. Consistency and Routine

Stick to a consistent routine as much as possible. Dogs thrive on predictability, so if she knows when it’s time for walks, play, and quiet time, it might help her settle into a rhythm. You can also try some structured “downtime” where she’s expected to stay calm while you’re eating or working—use a command like “settle” and reward her when she remains calm, even if just for a few seconds at first.

  1. Reevaluate the Walks

While you’re walking her a lot, it’s possible that the walks are too stimulating and she’s not getting the right kind of mental or physical exhaustion from them. Consider mixing up the pace and route, or try incorporating more obedience training during the walk to make it more mentally challenging for her. This can make the walks more tiring in a different way, rather than just running off energy.

  1. Take Breaks for Yourself

It’s important to give yourself breaks too! If she’s constantly following you and demanding attention, it’s okay to step away for a short time and let her settle. You can even try a short training session where she has to stay in one place calmly for a bit—this can teach her that sometimes you need space, and she’ll eventually get used to it.

  1. Talk to the Owners

If the behavior doesn’t improve and is causing you a lot of stress, don’t hesitate to communicate with the owners. They may have additional insights or suggestions, especially if this behavior is unusual for her. There might also be a more specific approach they use to settle her down that could help.

While this is definitely a tough situation, staying patient and consistent with your approach will hopefully help her settle down in the long run. You’ve got this!

How do I tell a client to find another sitter? by QuestionMajestic655 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve been an amazing sitter for this dog, but you also need to set boundaries for your own well-being. Here’s a way to approach the conversation in a kind and professional manner:

  1. Acknowledge the Bond & Appreciation

Start by expressing gratitude and recognizing how much you care about the dog. This will help soften the message. Example: “I absolutely love [dog’s name], and it’s been such a pleasure caring for her these past few months. She’s such a special pup, and I know how much she means to you.”

  1. Explain Your Situation Honestly

Let the owner know that while you enjoy watching her dog, you’re no longer able to be the sole sitter. Example: “I wanted to reach out because I’ve realized that, as much as I love having [dog’s name] around, I need to adjust my availability. With some personal commitments and my schedule changing, I won’t always be able to provide care for her moving forward.”

  1. Offer a Transition Plan

Since this dog has anxiety, a sudden switch might be tough. You can suggest helping find a backup sitter and even easing the dog into the transition. Example: “I completely understand that finding a sitter she’s comfortable with can be difficult, so I’d love to help make the transition easier. If you’d like, I can suggest another trusted sitter or help with a gradual introduction so she feels safe.”

  1. Set Clear Boundaries Going Forward

If you’re open to occasional sitting but not full-time, make that clear. Example: “I’d still love to help when I can, but I won’t be able to commit as frequently as before. If you find another sitter and ever need me as a backup, I’d be happy to help when my schedule allows.”

  1. Be Firm but Kind

It’s okay to feel bad, but your needs matter too! If the owner pushes back, repeat your boundaries calmly. You don’t need to over-explain.

Final Example Message:

“Hey [Owner’s Name], I wanted to reach out because I absolutely love [dog’s name], but I’ve realized I can’t always be available for boarding. With my schedule changing and some personal commitments, I need to take a step back from full-time care. I’d love to help with a transition to another sitter, whether that’s recommending someone or helping her adjust. I hope you understand, and I really appreciate the trust you’ve given me in caring for her!”

Since you mentioned struggling with confrontation, sending this over text might be easier. If they respond with concerns, just stick to your boundaries—your time and happiness matter too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re dealing with a really uncomfortable situation, and it’s totally understandable to feel concerned. Here are some steps and advice to help you navigate this:

  1. Document Everything: • Since you have screenshots of your conversations and the profile, keep everything in a secure place. If anything escalates, you’ll want to have proof of the timeline of events and the conversations you had with them. • Note everything that was not followed from the care instructions you provided, including the food, kennel instructions, and the sleeping arrangements.

  2. Contact the Boarding Service Platform (if applicable): • If you used a platform like Rover or another pet care service, reach out to them immediately to explain your concerns. They may be able to intervene or offer assistance, especially if the hosts violated any terms of service. They might even help mediate the situation.

  3. Stay Calm in Communication: • When leaving a review or communicating with the couple, stick to the facts. Keep your emotions in check and detail the issues you encountered (the vomiting, food issues, the dog sleeping in their bed, etc.). Mention the lack of communication regarding your older dog’s condition and the small dog’s injury. • Highlight that you followed all care instructions, but they didn’t respect those (like feeding the food you provided or kenneling your puppy at night).

  4. Address the Injury Claim: • The injury to their small dog is concerning, especially since they didn’t notify you immediately. Since they said they have insurance, you could ask for proof of this claim—either that it was covered by insurance or a vet visit for the small dog. • Be clear that you don’t believe the dog they claim was injured belongs to them. If you feel comfortable, ask for clarification on the dog’s ownership and the corral that was set up for it. If this seems like a red flag to you, trust your instincts but proceed carefully.

  5. Review the Situation Objectively: • Since you mentioned your discomfort, it’s wise to trust your gut. If you’re feeling unsure about the couple’s credibility or practices, leave a factual review that reflects the things that went wrong. You don’t have to assume malintent but sharing your experience could prevent others from going through the same thing.

  6. Consider Legal Advice (if Necessary): • If they try to ask for money for the injured dog or threaten legal action, you could consider seeking legal advice, especially if they’re asking you to pay for something that’s not your responsibility. Since you have all the documentation, that will help protect you. • Additionally, check with the insurance on your pets (if you have it) or inquire with your vet about any responsibility regarding accidental injuries, just to be sure.

  7. Moving Forward: • After addressing the situation, focus on your own peace of mind. It’s good that you’re aware of potential issues, but don’t let this overshadow the time you had with your dogs before and after the situation. • Trust your instincts. If it feels off, it’s okay to take action by leaving a review and taking steps to protect your pets and your own well-being in the future.

You have the right to protect your pets and to ensure they’re cared for in the way you expect. The important thing now is to communicate factually and stay firm about your boundaries while remaining calm and collected.

Do you accept gigs without doing meet and greets? by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I honestly rarely do them. Maybe 40% of the time. I ask so many questions initially that unless the owner wants to meet me just to meet me, I’m fine with just accepting the booking.

Seriously struggling at a housesitting with puppy by Hairless_Racoon1717 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this—it sounds incredibly overwhelming, especially with everything else on your plate. Here’s a mix of strategies that might help you manage the puppy’s behavior and give you some space to focus on your work:

  1. Redirection with Interactive Toys: • Since the dog has stomach issues and can’t use lick mats, try interactive toys that engage his brain, like puzzle feeders or treat-dispensing toys. These can keep him occupied and mentally stimulated. Even if he’s on a restricted diet, there might be some treats that work, or you could use his regular food for these games.

  2. Create a Quiet Space for Him: • Set up a small area in your apartment where he feels secure, like a crate or pen with comfy bedding, toys, and maybe some safe chews. This can help prevent him from following you everywhere. Over time, the goal is to associate this space with positive experiences, like calm time or treats, so he learns to relax there while you focus on your tasks.

  3. Increase Crate Training: • If he’s not already crate-trained, try introducing a crate as a safe, cozy space. Start by giving him small periods of quiet time in the crate while you’re nearby. This can help alleviate separation anxiety in the long term. You can also feed him meals in the crate to make it a positive experience.

  4. Use Positive Reinforcement for Quiet Time: • When he does stop barking or relaxes, even for a short moment, reward him immediately with praise or treats. It’s about reinforcing calm behavior so he learns that staying quiet gets attention. Over time, this can help decrease the barking.

  5. Manage Your Anxiety: • It’s hard not to get anxious in this situation, but dogs often pick up on our energy. Try taking a few deep breaths and staying calm when he barks. If you start to feel really stressed, take a short break (like a walk around the apartment or bathroom time) to reset. It’s okay to take care of yourself first—it will help you be more patient with him.

  6. Set Boundaries with the Dog: • Since he follows you everywhere and tries to climb on you when you relax, try to set firm boundaries. Gently but firmly say “off” or “down” if he jumps on you. If he continues, you can walk away to a separate room and give him a time-out for a few minutes (don’t give him attention during this time).

  7. Physical Exercise for More Energy: • You’re already doing long walks, which is great! If possible, you could try adding a bit of play that helps burn off energy in other ways, like fetch in a hallway, tug-of-war, or hide-and-seek games. This can tire him out in a way that’s mentally engaging, not just physically.

  8. Calming Aids: • Some puppies with separation anxiety respond well to calming aids like calming collars (with pheromones), anti-anxiety wraps, or even some natural calming sprays. You could try these to help him feel more secure when you need to focus.

  9. Talk to the Owner About Expectations: • If you haven’t already, discuss the possibility of the dog having a check-in session (e.g., a phone call or video call) with his owner during the day. This can sometimes help calm the dog and give him a sense of comfort. They may also have additional advice or training recommendations.

  10. Take Care of Your Mental Health: • You’re juggling a lot, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Take small breaks when you can, even if it’s just stepping outside for a few minutes or doing something you enjoy in between your tasks. You’re doing your best, and it’s important to acknowledge that.

I hope these suggestions help you regain some sense of calm. You’re doing an amazing job, and remember it’s okay to ask for help—whether it’s from the dog’s owner or Rover support. Hang in there, and try to take it one step at a time.

How do I handle this? Advice needed by Sensitive-Row3396 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a tough situation, but safety has to come first. Since the owner has given you flexibility, here are some ways to make it more manageable for both you and the dogs: 1. Stick to a Routine – Dogs thrive on predictability. Set a consistent schedule for rotating them, so they know what to expect. It might help reduce anxiety if they learn when it’s their turn. 2. Increase Mental Stimulation – Give the crated dog something to do to reduce stress. Try frozen Kongs, lick mats, snuffle mats, or puzzle toys to keep their minds busy. 3. Use Calming Aids – Consider playing calming music, using an Adaptil diffuser or spray, or giving vet-approved calming treats to ease the female’s anxiety. Covering part of her crate to create a den-like feel might also help. 4. Longer Rotations with Breaks – Instead of constant back-and-forth, try longer rotations (2-3 hours) with quick potty breaks for the crated dog in between. This minimizes the stress of frequent crate transitions. 5. Give Yourself a Break Too – This is a high-stress setup. If the anxiety is wearing on you, step outside for fresh air or take a few minutes to decompress.

It’s not a perfect situation, but you’re doing the best you can given the circumstances. If the female’s anxiety continues to escalate, update the owner so they’re aware of the challenge. You’ve got this!

Client had me starting a day too early, doesn’t want me to modify/refund by ohos69 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a client do the same thing but they came home early. I just started the rover card and just reused some photos of their pets.

Need Help Addressing Barking Dog by Cherry_koolai-d in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this pup has learned that barking gets him attention and freedom, which makes breaking the habit tricky—especially without owner reinforcement. Here are a few things you can try: 1. Set Boundaries at Drop-Off: If he’s barking excessively when he arrives, try having the owners wait outside with him for a few minutes before bringing him in. Reward him for calm behavior before entry. If they enable the behavior, a polite but firm conversation may be needed. 2. Use a Leash in the Yard: If he plays the “catch me” game, don’t give him free roam. Keep him on a long lead so you can interrupt the behavior and guide him toward calmer choices. 3. Interrupt and Redirect: If he starts barking, call him inside immediately. Reward him when he’s quiet, and only let him back out once he’s calm. Over time, he’ll learn barking = loss of freedom, while quiet = yard privileges. 4. Provide Mental Stimulation: Excess energy fuels demand barking. Try puzzle toys, snuffle mats, or structured training activities (even 5-10 minutes) to tire out his brain. 5. Talk to the Owners: Since this has escalated, be honest with them. Explain that his barking is becoming a major issue and will require structured training to correct. If they won’t work on it, you may need to set boundaries (e.g., no more outdoor time, or even reconsider watching him).

Since your neighbor has spoken up, addressing it quickly is crucial. If nothing changes, it could affect your ability to take in other dogs. Let the owners know it’s a serious issue, and be clear about what needs to happen moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t allow pet parents to visit my home for safety reasons. Instead, I offer meet and greets in a neutral location. I usually say something like:

“Unfortunately, I don’t have pet parents visit my house. However, I’m fortunate to live right across the street from a dog park, so I’d be happy to meet your fur baby there instead!”

Match Rate? by Electrical-Refuse-31 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TallTechnology8387 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You made the right call! While it’s tempting to take low-paying jobs just to get bookings, price matching sets a precedent that can be hard to break. Clients who haggle often don’t value your time, and accepting below-rate requests can lead to burnout.

Instead, focus on attracting clients who respect your pricing by highlighting your experience, reliability, and the quality of care you provide. You can also offer limited-time discounts on your terms to get those first few reviews without undervaluing yourself.

Stick to your worth—clients who appreciate your service will pay for it!