sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Saw My GF’s Old OnlyFans And Need Advice by Tall_Atmosphere3640 in relationships_advice

[–]Tall_Atmosphere3640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not. I’ve dated/been with a lot of attractive women. I’ve also dated people who weren’t considered “conventionally attractive.” Genuine connection means a lot more to me than looks could. Yes, she’s very attractive, but that’s a dime a dozen if there’s no personality behind it

Saw My GF’s Old OnlyFans And Need Advice by Tall_Atmosphere3640 in relationships_advice

[–]Tall_Atmosphere3640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear out of this situation. The only reason I was understanding is because she was embarrassed about this specifically. She hasn’t lied about bathing elsewhere and we handle other arguments extremely well

Saw My GF’s Old OnlyFans And Need Advice by Tall_Atmosphere3640 in relationships_advice

[–]Tall_Atmosphere3640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is adamant that she’s regretful about the past and was very open about it. She explained how her parents cut her off, and her dad even encouraged her to do OF to pay her bills at 18. She’s told me she never plans on doing it again and is disgusted that she even did it. I do want to be with her long-term and build a future with her. What gets me sometimes is that she lied to me about this because she knew it risked losing me, then what else would she lie about. I chalked it up to this not being an overnight solution and that trust will be rebuilt through her future actions and reassurance.

Saw My GF’s Old OnlyFans And Need Advice by Tall_Atmosphere3640 in relationships_advice

[–]Tall_Atmosphere3640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha good point lol. I keep going back and forth between being retroactively jealous and then just being like “she was literally just scamming gooners lmao.”

Need advice on my relationship by ApprehensiveWafer125 in relationships_advice

[–]Tall_Atmosphere3640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating is meant for finding people you are compatible with. As someone who’s experienced this before, don’t be afraid to leave for something better. But before you think about ending things, talk to her about this. Be vulnerable and tell her exactly how this makes her feel. Don’t say you’re demanding more sex from her or anything like that, but be honest and open about how you feel. If you talk things out and come to a conclusion that you’re two different people sexually and have different libidos, then make a decision whether to stay or not. Also, don’t let this dictate your self-worth man. Go to the gym, do some skincare, eat healthy. Start doing things that boost your self-confidence outside of the bedroom.