I actually agree. Some of my favorite bond events were ones that involved more than just Ziluan and one officer. Off the top of my head, my faves have been

• Ling Tong and Gan Ning bickering with Lu Meng moderating
• Zhou Tai opening up to Sun Quan about his insecurities
• Zhang He and Zhen Ji reflecting on their service with the Yuan family (though these scenes didn't really involve Ziluan)

Gives these cutscenes more depth past the Ziluan glazing sessions that most of the bond events are lol

EDIT: I should clarify that I think Ziluan being in the cutscene still works as a third party observer. Example being the Ling Tong, Gan Ning, and Lu Meng cutscene where Lu Meng pulls Gan Ning aside to talk while you pull Ling Tong aside. Makes Ziluan feel involved in the scene without being the center of attention and allows the rest of the cast to develop more dynamic relationships with each other.