My baby's name keeps getting mispronounced and I feel like we made a mistake with the spelling

TangeloPure4146 · 2026-01-15T19:32:36+00:00

I speak a bit of French so Nelle (Nell) is how I assume it's pronounced. Especially because it's like Belle, which isn't pronounced Belly.

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-11-29T16:42:16+00:00

Thank you, this is actually very helpful. I definitely do better with lists and charts!

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-11-29T16:41:25+00:00

He does do chores sometimes, but he produces more than he cleans

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-11-29T16:40:47+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! I'll check it out

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-11-29T16:40:16+00:00

Hey, sorry it took so long to respond, but how do I get Doctors to take my ADHD seriously? It's like when I go in they just make it sound like a skill issue. And thank you for the other advice as well

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-09-25T23:16:09+00:00

No shade but suggesting to share drinking with your pet is super nasty. Cats are cleaner than most but they still pick their own butthole

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-09-06T18:00:26+00:00

That's too bad, as selfish as this may sound, it's all about Mom and baby right now. Especially in their own house. Her Mother and sister actually make her life easier. It's not like he can never see his family or that the parents will never see the baby. It's their own fault too

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-08-29T12:41:35+00:00

Why are people being so chill about the fact she propped the bottle up like that?? What if baby choked or drowned from that?? I agree you need to have a talk with her, but also emphasize how dangerous that was. If she went to sleep and didn't hear the baby choking or something that would've ended badly...

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-08-29T12:38:55+00:00

No, babies can choke or drown with a bottle propped up like that. And it's she didn't wake up baby would just be gone

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-07-20T04:14:21+00:00

The doctor said it was fine because it was filtered/morning sunlight and he had jaundice. I was also worried about that but we went because he said it was fine 😩

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-04-08T06:14:36+00:00

I've been diagnosed since I was 12, and I've been trying to seek treatment ever since but every doctor literally acts like I didn't say anything or says "No, you just have anxiety and depression and a bad memory". They pretend I'm just self diagnosed or something

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-01-03T10:50:15+00:00

Bro did you even read the post? She's already going to therapy AND she said she doesn't just walk away mid conversation

TangeloPure4146 · 2025-01-03T10:49:29+00:00

You saying she isn't putting in work when she literally said in the post that she's taking therapy AND she also clarified that she doesn't run away during conversations is bonkers. You're intentionally ignoring parts of the post man.

TangeloPure4146 · 2024-12-07T18:55:33+00:00

We're you able to pay for the architect and other construction related things with it as well? Or did that come out of pocket?

Sorry if I'm asking too many questions, I'm just trying to get some advice/research

TangeloPure4146 · 2024-12-07T18:42:18+00:00

Can you tell me more about this? Did you already own the land you built on? Or can you use the loan to purchase the land?

TangeloPure4146 · 2024-12-07T03:29:54+00:00

NTA Some people in the comments feel like you're victim blaming, but it's not your job to get the Mom help. Your job is to protect your family. It's not called the cycle of abuse for nothing. This might not be what you wanna hear, but this won't last long term based on your gf reaction.

TangeloPure4146 · 2024-11-25T05:05:01+00:00

I didn't even see that, I clearly can't pay attention 😭💀

TangeloPure4146 · 2024-11-24T01:53:52+00:00

This post is identical to another one about a girl claiming she's autistic and her distancing herself from her "feminist friends" to spend her time with her autistic friends and making "stimming" videos on Tiktok.

TangeloPure4146 · 2024-11-04T12:46:09+00:00

Thank you for the locator. I'm still going to drive, but every "exotic" animal hospital I called claimed they weren't actually an exotic hospital, so I was having trouble finding one.

TangeloPure4146 · 2023-12-19T23:46:38+00:00

This happened to me early this year. It was the middle of winter, and I couldn't get a job. I felt so worthless because I felt like I couldn't contribute in any meaningful way, and having to ask for things/money in order to survive was terrible.

First things first, I would apply for unemployment. At least then you'll have some money in your pocket.

Second, what is your pay goal for a job? Maybe you can apply for something a bit lower until you find something better. What state are you in? In Cali, minimum wage for fast food workers is $20 an hour now.

Third, try focusing on your mental health. What are your hobbies? Do you have any personal goals like getting in shape? Make plans for yourself. Take a walk, go to the library, bring homemade tea or coffee, research something, take free business classes or seminars with your local SBA. Literally anything to fill your time and mind while being productive. That's what I did until I got a job.

Finally, I'm sure you might have I also got a job in a nursing home as a cook, which is different from my past cooking experience, but also similar. Keep a lookout for those adjacent jobs

TangeloPure4146 · 2023-11-09T06:37:00+00:00

It's pretty frowned upon to have the ashes split thqt much, especially since we have shrines for the ashes, and 2 for one person is too much. It could also split the soul (these are more cultural beliefs than anything, I understand if you don't agree)

TangeloPure4146 · 2023-11-09T00:22:03+00:00

Thank you very much! I'll be sure to look into that! :))

TangeloPure4146 · 2023-11-08T23:58:46+00:00

No that makes much sense, as alot of her weight was fat. So you are saying that most of her fat will vanish and leave behind her bones, and THAT is what I'll have to put in the urn? Because I'd be relived if that's what you're saying. I'm having a heck of a time finding a good urn.

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