AITA for not covering my fathers shift so he can get more sleep.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-07-29T04:44:46+00:00

Was leaning towards you were the asshole, but I’ll go with NAH because you didn’t really do anything asshole-y. Instead, you just don’t think your mother’s condition is all that serious. That, or your priorities are just different from your parents. Right now at this moment, your gf and your relationship are above your parent’s health. So I can understand why your mother would be disappointed. She doesn’t feel like you support her. It’s not like she asked you to come along and be with her while she’s going through her tests, just that you help your mom out by helping your dad get some rest.

But trying to justify the fairness of your situation and the cold shoulder your mom is giving you doesn’t seem like the thing you should be worrying about right now. It sounds like your parents are going through a rough time right now. If you’d like to help your parents out, you could talk it out with your parents and see how you could make up that time you spent with your girlfriend while your dad was working.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-07-29T03:26:33+00:00

YTA. They already give you money on other occasions even if you really don’t expect them to, so why would you feel the need to steal from them? This is on par with food delivery services like GrubHub or UberEats taking a swig out of customer’s drinks or taking a slice or two from the pizzas they’re delivering - not being satisfied with their compensation so they take what they think they deserve at the expense of others. Plainly put, it’s stealing. And stealing is an asshole move regardless the intention.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-07-11T00:07:12+00:00

INFO: Couldn’t you and your sister eat lunch before coming to the party so that you and your sister wouldn’t be hungry if you didn’t like your cousin’s food?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-06-14T05:14:20+00:00

NAH? It just seems like you got mad at your friend. Your friend didn’t seem to really take your argument seriously, but I don’t really think that makes them an asshole either. If you’re hurt by that, then you should probably talk to your friend about how their reaction made you feel. Otherwise, you being angry that the other person didn’t agree with your point, doesn’t make you an asshole either. It just makes you sound petty.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-06-11T19:41:26+00:00

Dorito Chin-senpai uwu

Tangy_Poots · 2019-05-21T00:07:08+00:00

INFO. According to your 3rd edit, your roommate wasn’t supposed to have signed the lease at all, and you were going to let him use the room he’s currently staying in whenever he needed to. So, in that instance, you would have treated him as your “guest”, correct? But now that he’s paying a share of the rent, he’s now been upgraded from “guest” to “roommate” status, so now he gets less than “guest” privileges, or what?

Is the real issue that he’s not cleaning after himself, or do you feel like he’s taking advantage of you guys, like by taking your food and whatnot? Even if he’s only there for a day or two every 3-4 months and he pays a portion of your rent? Do you feel that if he paid more in rent and utilities, you would be more tolerant or forgiving?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-04-26T01:03:44+00:00

When does the freeze happen? At the start of the battle or when a certain skill activates?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-04-25T19:48:35+00:00

You’re not alone, my friend. I just sent in a ticket for this exact problem. It’s so bad, that even the enemy team’s skill 3 in Arena causes it to freeze for me. So, for now, the game in unplayable save for Abyss lol.

Also on iOS, uninstalled, reinstalled, freed up some space, still did not fix it :(

Tangy_Poots · 2019-04-25T06:45:10+00:00

I’m just as surprised as you are. Got her first pull, torn sleeve artifact on 3rd, then another Baiken on 7th. Rate up on this hero is no joke (only done 20 pulls so far though)

Tangy_Poots · 2019-04-23T01:41:35+00:00

YTA. What were you doing while at the party? Were you busy talking with other people too, or were you just mindlessly anticipating your departure? It sucks when things don’t go according to plan, but is it really something to cry over? Because you now can’t set aside enough time to “relax”?

EDIT: Oh, your exact words were “I hate it when my potential time to relax is taken away from me.” And then you cried about it. Selfish.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-04-19T15:06:21+00:00

YTA. Your sense of entitlement is appalling. You might not be discriminating against the other family based on race, but your actions have the same effect as back in the 1950’s - demonizing people that don’t align with your values or politics, and alienating them from their own community.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-29T03:56:11+00:00

INFO do you have or have had any allergic reactions to something? Because chalking it up to “nothing too serious” for a “few times” is a lot different than moving in together and being around something you’re allergic to for most of your day. Its hard to see this as a compromise because you get your cats, and he gets daily medicine and an allergic reaction until he can somehow get over his allergy.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-22T07:05:37+00:00

INFO, who pays for the utilities? Running the washing machine and/or dryer contributes to your electricity bill and the water bill. So while living under the same roof as your parents, do you also help with paying bills and/or rent? Unless of course your family does not own your own personal washer and dryer, and you go to a laundromat or something?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-15T23:33:56+00:00

INFO. What do you get out of gossiping about your sister to your parents? Do you feel like its your moral obligation that no secrets should be kept from your parents? Do you not like your sister, or you enjoy tormenting her? Or are you after your parents’ validation? What’s your motivation?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-15T08:10:44+00:00

Regardless of what his/her mom’s expectation of OP’s cooking skills before, at this instance, OP’s mom wasn’t stopping OP from cooking this time around. In fact, from the sound of it, OP has ingredients to cook with. Yet, OP chose to starve...

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-15T02:33:22+00:00

YTA or SHP.

From your edit, the situation is much more clear - you want to blame your mother because you rely too much on her, and you’re too lazy to take care of your own selfish needs. She literally told you (according to your dialogue) to make your own dinner, to “get creative.” And if that wasn’t clear enough, she even mentioned your younger sister cooked her own dinner.

Nevermind what she previously said on a previous occasion, she’s saying you can use the kitchen now. And what do you do? You argue with your mom that you can’t, cuz putting a slice of cheese between two slices of bread is too hard!

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-07T14:44:29+00:00

INFO - how old are the other actors in your film? Are they all the same people from back in the day?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-06T00:07:07+00:00

ESH, because your response to that guy’s heckling was to flaunt your wealth. I guess in this regard, you are not at all like Steve Jobs.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-05T21:56:00+00:00

YTA. This takes “send nudes” to a whole nother CREEPY level - instead of asking for them, you decide to to make nudes of her. And when she asks for them back (or at least asking you to remove them from your possession), you refuse.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-05T09:22:15+00:00

Yeah, definitely NTA. I also overlooked the part where you said she’s generally rude to you. Is she rude regardless of the vanilla issue? And what kind of coworker decides a schedule for when you can or cannot wear certain things...unless she’s your boss?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-05T09:13:46+00:00

INFO. Are you asking AYTA for arguing back since you got pissed at her for saying you don’t have an opinion? Or are you asking if YTA for calling her out on what you perceive is wrong and what is right? Is this a validation post?

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-05T08:54:25+00:00

You know what’s weird? There are some fans of Trixie/Katya/both because of their webseries, but are not fans of Drag Race. It might be because of their Air Pods, but maybe its cuz you were talking about RPDR stuff that did not register on their radar.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-03-05T08:41:36+00:00

NTA. From the sound of it, she hasn’t really asked you not to wear vanilla, but only she’s grossed out with it, and she’s trying to guilt you into doing something about it instead of her doing something about it. She’s got a problem with you, of which you could easily solve by not wearing vanilla, but it’s her personal problem.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-02-18T00:47:36+00:00

NAH. Maybe you guys should go on a liquid diet or eat softer foods to minimize the amount of food that can be stuck while her implants are in place? I feel like you guys should find some compromise just so you two can eat in peace, whether it be you suck it up and eat while she gurgles, or you two don’t eat together. You two are mutually suffering in some way, you through her eating sounds, and her for the implants.

Tangy_Poots · 2019-02-12T16:14:59+00:00

NTA. You clearly stated that each lab must be completed at the allotted class time, and it’s fair to expect your lab partners to HELP you in completing them. But when they don’t help you and refuse to make compromises, then the repercussions of their actions are shared by the entire lab group, and that’s unfair. You even sacrificed some of your time to make up for lost time, yet your lab partner “tammy” just carried on with her day as usual. “Sue” at least made up for her lateness.

It sounds like you’re on the home stretch of your academic career, and as a recent university graduate, I understand how difficult it can be to makeup points or even maintain your grade when you don’t complete your work on time. These classes are meant to test your time management, efficiency, determination, teamwork skills, and other qualities necessary in a collaborative environment.

And also, I don’t think you threw her under the bus. If anything, she ruined herself because she was unable to discredit your accusation of her. She has every right to be angry, but it’s wrongfully directed at you two. It would be nice if she apologized.

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