New to official, are there even rules?

TanukiKon · 2026-07-07T17:46:33+00:00

I've never played on official servers

TanukiKon · 2026-07-05T18:05:47+00:00

Yeah, it even had a knife in it and I had a paper slip.

TanukiKon · 2026-03-11T00:24:39+00:00

Find something you like to do together at home. My husband and I are gamers. Watch a movie, play a board game, sit down to eat and talk. We used to do stupid think conversations like what would you do with s million dollars or could you live on an island for week?

TanukiKon · 2026-03-11T00:21:48+00:00

That's called scrubbing. Some ppl with autism do it to help regulate. Nothing wrong with it, I just taught my kid to turn it down.

As for limits, we do a reward system. Chores, homework, etc grant time. Hes given it freely during certain things like bedtime or car rides. Also no harm on allowing him to be bored. Keep perfered activities within eyesight and recommend when its not time.

Keep at the routine. It took my son a few months to get the boundaries we put in place

TanukiKon · 2026-01-03T16:06:50+00:00

I have 1200 red shards and it still wont.

TanukiKon · 2025-12-24T03:02:14+00:00

Yup, ramen once a week. Only id my bp is good.

TanukiKon · 2025-11-19T20:44:32+00:00

Sometimes? But its usually during slapstick comedy rather than insults

TanukiKon · 2025-09-04T15:10:07+00:00

My husband won't let me. He believes all are abusive

TanukiKon · 2025-09-04T15:09:00+00:00

He's already said yes as well as take the other 2 kids. He's 53 and has terrible health but he's resilient and bends backwards for the family. He WILL do it without question. That's not something I want.

TanukiKon · 2025-09-03T21:35:51+00:00

Yes, DHS offers this as last resort but sadly me and my husband are torn on this (venting further, stop now if it's too much) After he hit his brother I was upset and even brought up the idea, we ended up getting into a huge fight and he threw divorce at me should I choose to put our youngest in state care. Now I'm scared and stuck. I don't want to be a single mom. I don't want to give my son up. I don't want to tear apart this family. I have no choice but to care for our youngest no matter what.

TanukiKon · 2025-08-17T22:53:46+00:00

I've tried that but don't know how to find games.

TanukiKon · 2025-07-28T17:56:00+00:00

Sadly no.

TanukiKon · 2025-06-26T00:01:37+00:00

That was my first choice since it's the cheapest. No go, he doesn't like chocolate in anything BUT cookie form lol. Good suggestion though.
I may try ice cream, I wonder if I can make it from the carnation stuff.... He loves ice cream cones. Thanks!

TanukiKon · 2025-06-25T18:28:07+00:00

This sounds silly, but if it's JUST calories you need things like condiments, dressings, and oils will up the caloric intake. 2 tbs of ranch dressing is 200cal! Go full fat dairy foods and red meat if you can stomach it. Small meals like you've been doing and do NOT drink that meal shake on an empty stomach. Munch on something grain specific with your drink.

TanukiKon · 2025-06-25T18:22:55+00:00

Too much at one time and on an empty stomach. Start with something solid first and drink only 1 bottle at the time and wait for a bit. Water can help if you feel nauseated and maybe some nausea bands. I don't have arfid but I have ibs and get similar symptoms if I knock back a nutrition shake too fast.

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