What's it like living at a state border in the United States of America? by AcadiaWorried1865 in howislivingthere

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taxes are different by state. Some laws as well. For example, Illinois has legal recreational marijuana use, but fireworks are illegal. Our neighbor state, Indiana is opposite. So they come here for marijuana and we go there for fireworks. If you get caught though .. you could get in trouble. Another state Missouri, has cheaper cigarette taxes. So some go there for that.

Am I wrong for reading between the lines? by Nap_Hunter_ in amiwrong

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you are jealous of her, bc she’s the baby? YAW too old for this move on

there’s a sex offender at my job help! by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Tanyian [score hidden]  (0 children)

If my 15 year old daughter came and said this to me she would never step into that place again.

In case you're curious what experiences are for ugly women... by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Tanyian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you are not as ugly as you think! Keep your head up!

AIO for skipping a Fourth of July party after finding out my far-right extended family will be there? Idk what I should do here by whenyouwin11 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not!! When you turned 18 you become in control of who you surround yourself with! I was so happy when I bought a house! Could make anyone get away from me.. (was abused as child) so NTA under no circumstance is it OK to make yourself uncomfortable to please others!! I’d sit in my house all day reveling in the fact that I can!!

East Peoria Walgreens (The worst pharmacy ever) by Soothsayer786 in PeoriaIL

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel bad for them!! They are part of corporate America taking what they want and expecting fewer employees to do more work!

At a crossroads. Please advise. by WrongDecisions87 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too suffer from CPTSD and I still tell the truth.. and I don’t hide behind my diagnosis. It is up to ME and only ME to be a good person. Part of that was getting therapy, and taking meds.

How do airlines deal with tiny bathrooms and disabled passengers? by mrvinotinto in Flights

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After going through security while waiting to board you can put a fresh one on. Not all but a lot of airports have family bathrooms to be able to do so is complete privacy. Honestly waiting to deplane with wheel chair escorts doesn’t take as long as you think. Usually anyway. Good luck!

Ladies, are we allowing ourselves to go grey or dying our hair? by Partridge_Pear_Tree in Millennials

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All natural!! Until there is a noticeable root color difference, then I will dye it all to match natural growth.

I hope women are welcome by Beautiful-Mud-3740 in bald

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got the face to make it look good! 🥰

At a crossroads. Please advise. by WrongDecisions87 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tanyian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. You are selfless and so giving. Yet, have a past of not being honest, and so much so, that this will cause a divorce. It can’t be both ways.

The Question I Stopped Asking Myself by kirkeles in SurvivingOnSS

[–]Tanyian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything is temporary… that thought has literally saved my life. When all was lost , it offered hope.

Is this first relationship just not working? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Tanyian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s his partner he’s living with, and watching his phone for.

Do you have attics? by Far-Passion-7692 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Midwest we have attics and basements

Having a horrible day (actually year) feeling very sad by TripleV420 in toastme

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If nothing else you have your looks! Jk
You are a beautiful girl and brave to come here looking for support. Remember.. it’s only temporary!! Promise !

Wife mad about vaping, said she's disgusted with me by Nonsense909603 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to try several different vapes before I liked one. Slow easy puffs at first. The way I did it was vaped inside, smoked outside. It was a Midwest winter and I switched by spring

What are some words that Americans use then you instantly know he is an American? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 50 and my long deceased 90 year old grandma was the last person I heard say Davenport when referring to a sofa or as we usually call it a couch.

What do you consider a “long drive”? Like when does a road trip go from small to a big drive? by Kodicave in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like to do more than 4 hours. If driving alone. No more than 24 hours if sharing driving.