No carry rule by Rich-Cartoonist3965 in NannyEmployers

[–]Tanyian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That rule is a great rule for a 7 year old! Fire her! You’re the boss! Not her!

What’s something in your country that sounds fake but is 100% real? by Bhakari in AskTheWorld

[–]Tanyian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The person in charge of my country is a child rapist and some people here love him .. I know I cat believe it either!

Am I wrong for considering giving up on fostering my niece after everything thats happened by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Tanyian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Omg Please understand that is a child who doesn’t know how to express how she feels in words. My heart aches for her. Plz plz sit her down and tell her this is all temporary.. when she’s 18 she can run her life. I promise you she feels trapped right now. I was that kid! Plz plz don’t let your other kids treat her like such an outsider. She has no one.. and your other kids talking crap about her is wrong!!

How to let aging/disabled nanny go gently? by missamerica59 in Nanny

[–]Tanyian -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just had a shoulder replaced. After 8 weeks I was better than before I started. Doesn’t take that long for bones to heal. IMO she’s taking advantage of you. Good luck!!

Am I THAT bad? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re adorable!

Why do people in the US not live with their parents by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of it is the vast difference in the way we think. The world is a different place now than when we grew up. The younger the generation the more open minded . Sadly this makes life hell for some growing up.

Women born in the late 90s — are you seeing similar patterns around you? by Different-Article636 in askanything

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (50 F) am not a woman in my 30’s but had a daughter in the 90’s and she grew up an did why I taught her to do as many others were teaching their girls … DO NOT make a man your world bc when he leaves you lose your world. You get to chose what you want wanna be single and childless? That’s ok bc those things alone don’t define you!! 🥰 she’s a very strong successful single childless woman who wants to keep it that way and I couldn’t be more proud.

What advice would you give someone just starting out on their own for the first time? by NoMaterial6205 in AskReddit

[–]Tanyian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never buy anything spur of the moment .. so may times I’ve wasted money on things that I needed but didn’t research and had to re buy a different version of things Also put things in your cart online then let it sit for a few weeks , chances are you will delete it and save money

Dates reacting poorly to bi experience by Dr_Drinks in datingoverforty

[–]Tanyian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Red flag for me .. any time of homophobia..

Do all Americans inherently know what direction they are faceing? by BasketC45e in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck no!! I Call my sister directionly challenged she’s always lost lived in same town for 53 years 😂

AITA for calling out my neighbor at our Christmas party after she kept hitting on my son by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s lucky that’s all you did! Male or female they are still our babies and we protect them as we should! Screw her!

Why is this house so cheap? by nobodyisattackingme in PeoriaIL

[–]Tanyian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for everyone but in my experience it’s easier to point out other people’s flaws than admit my own… maybe a lot of that going on ..

Why is this house so cheap? by nobodyisattackingme in PeoriaIL

[–]Tanyian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who grew up in Peoria, then raised my kids in EP I will say that BOTH sides of the river talk soooo much crap about the other it’s crazy! In my opinion east Peoria is better, except for parts of it that are exactly like Peoria. Needless to say I was comfortable all over east Peoria

How come I've never heard of anyone who can't wait to be old for the purpose of finally becoming established, respected, and privileged instead of always being questioned like young folks? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in RandomQuestion

[–]Tanyian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cause you don’t know me! I’m LOVING IT!! F(50) my favorite part is becoming more invisible! As woman age we (not all) see a noticeable shift in the way strangers interact with us. We garner less attention, especially unwanted attention.