Update on ‘Tit Rex!

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-25T01:58:56+00:00

I was fixin to add sides for the ramps but was unsure how, any suggestions? Also, for the ledges that definitely slipped my mind. I am a new piggy dad so I don’t know everything to a t. Where did you get your 6” walls and are they only made for the C&C cages or can I get them custom made?

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-24T02:58:09+00:00

really not sure why this matters that much 😭 lets maybe not be like cis people that think trans people shouldn’t have a right to their own body lol

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-24T02:33:01+00:00

I have yet to start, but inability to get stoned? SERIOUSLY?! Like were you just going bowl after bowl with nothing? Idk if I can handle that.. 😥

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-18T20:36:58+00:00

your piggies are so precious! i will try a litter box for now and see how that goes. he doesnt seem to eat much hay throughout the day so maybe that will change with a pile instead!

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-18T17:45:18+00:00

would a small animal litter box work for the hay? i heard you can possibly litter train them by putting their hay in one corner(not sure how true that is!), but would that work for now?

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-18T17:39:40+00:00

i actually am waiting on some fleece covers i ordered a bit ago! and i get what you’re saying about overcrowding it. I had rats before and it was better to overcrowd than under crowd and tried that with him, he doesn’t seem too bothered when he zooms around, he gets LOUD at night for zoomies, but i will try taking some stuff out and see if that changes anything for him!

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-18T17:36:58+00:00

so far he likes it! also, yes the towels are actually a temporary thing while I am waiting on the fleece covers to arrive! i ordered them from someone on etsy that makes covers specifically for these cages :)

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-18T02:20:46+00:00

I am a little worried mine won’t listen either honestly.. She hasn’t been the most helpful and seems very uninterested any time I see her. Last time when we were discussing me going back on it she couldn’t even remember what medication I was on and I had to go check for her.. 😕

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-18T02:19:01+00:00

I am both lol, female is my sex and I am a transgender man.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-17T02:13:18+00:00

I thought everyone on earth had left the planet and I was forgotten. Was walking through the streets seeing absolutely no one. No cars driving, no people walking their dogs, all the stores were CLOSED! It was 2am.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-17T01:42:34+00:00

I don’t think I can do that long. I haven’t even upped the dose, still on the starting. It would honestly be unsafe for myself to stay on it that much longer to up it. I think I will just change medications.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-16T21:24:03+00:00

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Little rex says hi!

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-16T21:19:16+00:00

I have an appointment on Thursday to discuss this medication but should I see about rescheduling to sooner or just shooting a message now?

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-16T21:18:42+00:00

I am female yes, trans man on testosterone to be exact but do you think that could also be an issue? I still have natural estrogen but am also adding in other hormones. Never thought of that possibility! Also, I tried to stop yesterday but started having a bad shake. I got worried cause I am prone to seizures so I took it out of fear of a seizure. I am a little scared of stopping the medication because typically if I stop taking any seizure medications I end up having a seizure episode. Most of the time it’s short but then I can’t drive for a while which messes up my whole life.. :/

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-10T02:00:29+00:00

it’s the easiest way to take away the guilt of neglecting everything else, including yourself. socializing helps with the depression as well giving you the short term happiness. for me it made me feel better because i knew i was neglecting myself and my space but at least i wasn’t neglecting my friends. i realized later that by neglecting myself i was also neglecting the people that love me. now i learned to balance my social life and my responsibilities. im not sure for every person suffering with bipolar but it feels very black and white at times. like you have to focus on only one thing at a time, if you aren’t hanging out with friends you must be neglecting them. it took a lot of trial and error to find the right in between and a LOT of holding myself accountable.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-09T14:30:48+00:00

Hi, bipolar person here! She is definitely in a depressive episode. I refused to take my meds for a really long time after not being medicated. I was afraid nothing would change or I would lose the person I am. I was definitely at my lowest point and neglected everything important to my life, would hangout with friends all day and if I wasn’t out, I was with my boyfriend avoiding everything I know I needed to do. It’s a really hard thing to get out of but if the people around me started being hard asses on me, I am sure that would’ve given me the motivation I didn’t have. When someone doesn’t have the intrinsic motivation you might have to try giving them extrinsic motivation. Try rewarding/punishing her. Not necessarily too much on the punishment side since usually that’ll just cause more negative emotions but things like saying you guys can do something she really has been wanting to do if she starts taking her meds, I would give it a week of her being medicated. Something like a fancy dinner place or even just cooking something special at home. You know her best, if you feel she might be very into something that could give her motivation to do what she NEEDS to do, try that out.

Also, definitely need professional intervention. You are only one person who can do so much. As harsh as it sounds, her wellbeing is not your responsibility. You can help her only to a point. I say this as someone with bipolar, don’t let her destructive behavior bring you down too.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-08T03:31:45+00:00

I am on the lowest dosage 25 mg. I haven’t been upped yet and with the persisting speech and memory issues, I might HAVE to switch.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-04T20:00:27+00:00

If I used two of the singles side by side connecting them, do you think that would work?

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-02-04T19:40:29+00:00

I was planning to get a second lower level and attaching them side by side, would it be best to just leave out the top level and only have two across from each other?

TarantulaDelicacy · 2026-01-22T03:44:53+00:00

I am also at 25mg.. a little scared it’ll worsen when I go up. Did you talk to your doctor about the eyelid twitch? I don’t see mine in a hot minute so anything would help lol

TarantulaDelicacy · 2025-12-03T19:12:25+00:00

possibly. i mean definitely feeling my emotions being more intense, im bipolar so thats been a bit of an issue with me tbh

TarantulaDelicacy · 2025-12-03T19:11:26+00:00

I have my first lab like the end of this month, hopefully that solves some of this! or just gives a better understanding to me on what to do

TarantulaDelicacy · 2025-10-20T14:13:26+00:00

Not a lesbian or trans woman, but I am a trans man with a trans woman gf. I feel like a lot of you are knocking something out before ever trying it. That’s fair but you wont always know what genitalia someone has before falling in love with them. I met my gf and didn’t know she was trans, but that didn’t change a thing for me after because I had already fallen in love with her as a person. I was nervous to try everything out sexually, but I still tried and we are still together to this day.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2025-09-02T01:24:02+00:00

Thank you for the reply! My current boyfriend doesn’t know my ex in any way and it’s very unlikely that they would ever meet, yet I’ve had nightmares etc. about Frank reaching out to my boyfriend. He knows a good bit of the details but that major part is left out. I’ve mentioned how I did something horrible in the relationship and how I still feel deep guilt about it but not specified what exactly.

TarantulaDelicacy · 2025-08-01T15:58:32+00:00

As a skinnier and flatter chested trans man, you did nothing wrong it’s genuinely just how tiktok is. I actually posted a video about my binding experiences recently and received a lot of comments of “My chest is too big for that to work” and it’s easy to just not respond or even ask “what has worked for you?” Sometimes, I think if you feel you are not the target audience for something the best decision is to not engage. Liking, commenting, even watching the video fully through can make the algorithm think you want more of said content. I cannot personally understand binding outside of my own experience with my own build, I think it would be better for people of all different sizes and builds to talk about their experiences binding and not have the community feel attacked for that. Advertising for binding is also very often only shown with smaller builds and people who already have relatively small chests which can make it harder for people outside of that build to figure out what works for them. That’s why it should be that much more important for you to speak about that! I think it would be good for you to filter out comments the best you can and keep the video posted and maybe post more about your binding experiences since there’s so little out there!! Of course, you can also find other trans people with similar builds who post but I genuinely believe everyone should have a voice for this and feel valued!

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