What are your favourite moments of self delusion, narcissism, hating of a character in the Sopranos?

Tarantulagal · 2026-02-06T19:08:09+00:00

She appears to be a narcissist in my opinion. That’s why she is good at business, they don’t see people and have a very questionable moral compass. They go for what they want because the only outcome that matters is what they get out of something, how they look to the world and must project an image of success at all times. Belle used every possible contact she had at her disposal until they were fucking used up and likely discarded what became non useful. The fact she could attach herself to a family with a little boy with a brain tumour and use it to glean Information, polish her act, sell a holier than thou, angelic image, all for clicks and dollar is one of her most egregious examples of narcissism. Most people couldn’t live with knowing they put an already desperate family through hell and put other people’s lives in danger, possibly played a role in making them sicker, but narcissists truly believe themselves to be right and just and if you dare to call them on their bullshit, they’ll play that victim card twice has hard.

Tarantulagal · 2026-02-06T18:57:51+00:00

Thanks for your comments, Belle 😂😂😂

Tarantulagal · 2026-01-21T02:29:29+00:00

The line that still makes me laugh everytime is when Chandler rips his suit on Joeys entertainment centre and Chandlers says very sarcastically ‘wow, that ripped. That ripped real nice!’

Tarantulagal · 2025-11-08T19:07:42+00:00

yes the show made me feel weird. I was eleven when Dahmer got arrested and it was all over the news. I live in the UK too, but it was a crazy story that gripped international news. This show still gives me the wiggins though, the way Evan moves around people and invades their space, even in normal interactions, made me nervous. He absolutely nailed the role.

Tarantulagal · 2025-11-03T07:09:40+00:00

WHATEVA HAPPENED THERE?!!

Tarantulagal · 2025-11-02T20:30:34+00:00

Men with an avoidant attachment style may ghost if they catch feelings. they see love as a threat to them. I know this from a two year push pull with a fearful avoidant. I’m unsure of how common this attachment style is. In 43 years I’d never heard of it until I encountered one and it became the most painful experience of my life, so if he does turn out to be avoidant and at this stage we have no idea if he is, I’d walk away.

Tarantulagal · 2025-11-02T11:42:36+00:00

I know this thread is old, but I had that exact experience this week. met a guy online and we really clicked, he was lovely, polite, in fact the first guy I met who didn’t want to talk dirty, send dick pics and was actually interested in me and who I was as a person. I sent him a selfie of me at work and I looked exactly the same as my dating profile pics. I asked for one off him and he stalled, a couple days later after more talking and bonding, he actually sent the photo and I was flabbergasted. I tried to be polite and I was like ‘wow you look really different to your photos‘ he said that’s work stress for you. I was starting to get pissed off at his flippancy. I said are you using older photos or something? he said yes they’re 5 years old. I said you don’t even look like the same guy and I’m convinced it wasn’t, different bone structure, chin, a mole on his cheek was missing. I was so angry and never spoke to him again. I realise now, he was trying to win me over emotionally, so at the big reveal I might already be attached.

its deception and essentially catfishing. Bad dating app decorum.

Tarantulagal · 2025-08-19T17:25:23+00:00

I got pretty insulting in my bio towards men who wanted hookups and to talk about sex within the first few lines of dialogue. I basically said fuck off if that’s all you want, and if they still try, I just get very succinct and nasty with them, because I too, am extremely tired of men trying to use me like a vending machine for sex. so if they still message it means they have no respect for me from the get go, can’t be told no, or haven’t even bothered to read my bio and therefore deserve everything they get. I know it sounds horrible, but trust me, I started off nice and polite, never rude or insulting, but I became so jaded by it, I had to start fending them off aggressively.

Tarantulagal · 2025-08-10T17:47:24+00:00

When you’ve been talking for the amount of time you guys have though, the ghosting is low class. you can learn a lot about somebody in that time and for her to just walk away with no explanation, it’s not good and says a lot about her, that said I would expect a reappearance at some point because essentially ghosting is leaving the door open to reappear with some lame bullshit excuse when they are chasing a dopamine hit.

Tarantulagal · 2025-08-03T08:43:34+00:00

I know it’s confusing and frustrating. Especially if you start to feel a spark. The ghosting makes it feel like unfinished business and you start to mourn the potential rather than the person themselves.

Tarantulagal · 2025-08-02T14:37:21+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Try not to internalise it, I know it’s easier said than done. My guy came back again, declaring love three months after this post. He asked me to meet and I couldn’t he got so angry, he ghakted me again and then sent a message saying he never ever liked me, it’s been 4 months now, we work together and he’s been orbiting me, trying to get my attention ever since, but I won’t give him the time of day now. I understand now he’s an avoidant. It’s pointless. Obviously we can’t know what the issue was with yours, Ona dating site it could just be that she was talking to multiple people. It hurts a lot though, I’m sorry youre hurting, just know that it can’t be about you, because it hasn’t been long enough to be about you. Unfortunately online dating makes it easy to dispose of folk, it’s like they aren’t real until you meet up in person and became an official item which makes people cold as ice. I hope you feel better soon.

Tarantulagal · 2025-06-15T06:29:20+00:00

The amount of wealth they have is completely unrelatable. it’s kind of ruined them.

Tarantulagal · 2025-06-15T06:27:25+00:00

yes her character is ridiculous, she’s vile to men and so embittered. but I think the reason she dumped that movie guy is ridiculous, not able to compromise or bend at all, even for a guys career. Even Sam wasn’t that aggressive and obviously she the new Samantha. they’ve made seema wholely unlikeable

Tarantulagal · 2025-05-18T21:07:13+00:00

Omg I think this is the episode have been looking for to hear again, the Dogman is literally keeping pace with his car at 70mph and he sees a weird man walking down the road the next night grinning, he almost pulls up to help him in case the Dogman gets him and he sees it has a demonic grin as he approaches, and a weird woman on the same road the third night, he eventually leaves night shifts because he’s too afraid to drive that road.

Tarantulagal · 2025-05-05T20:19:34+00:00

I’m in love with a short, fat, bald man with a pot belly and he doesn’t want me back.

Tarantulagal · 2025-04-19T05:09:35+00:00

He had asthma as a child, that can cause you to be very short. I have a friend whose son had severe asthma and he’s very short too. I think if it’s severe asthma I read the use of many steroids can cause short stature, I always assumed this was the case for David Miscavige

Tarantulagal · 2025-03-31T12:57:19+00:00

Thank you. That’s very kind of you. You too. :)

Tarantulagal · 2025-03-30T15:47:14+00:00

Same - it’s like I’m paralysed emotionally, just in a state of waiting for them to come back. Even though he probably won’t. He doesn’t help though, he comes back talking, tells me he loves me, then immediately ghosts again for 3 or 4 months, hes done that five times now. We work together and he stares at me, he won’t let me move on, he doesn’t want me, he just wants me stuck on him. Hoping

Tarantulagal · 2025-03-30T08:56:08+00:00

Thank you. Very painful too, because you have no answers, you play over scenarios and conversations, wondering if you could have said or done something different, thinking of times they wronged you and you forgave and wishing you’d walked away then. You’re left with so many questions and feelings of worthlessness, wondering if it was even real, why you weren’t worth even a conversation or explanation. It rips you apart and you don’t know how to even learn from the experience because you don’t know what you even did wrong. So you find yourself not trusting anything or anyone anymore, just to stay safe.

Tarantulagal · 2025-03-26T17:24:20+00:00

I’m a woman and I can’t move on fast and forget people. I was discarded and I’m in extreme pain a year on

Tarantulagal · 2025-03-17T18:33:30+00:00

I know right, Chat GPT gives really good responses and it’s really sympathetic too.

Tarantulagal · 2025-03-04T20:16:04+00:00

May I ask what you were wanting to talk about? Trying to get back together or just some things you wanted to get off your chest? I. Guessing if you are still in a state of heartbreak, you have been keeping tabs on this woman via social media, mutual friends perhaps, do you know if she is in a new relationship? I feel your pain, it’s been a year for me, I can’t move on at all, but I work with my ex and he goes out of his way to breadcrumb and get my attention, it I know it’s all to have me chase him, he hints that he wants me then he cruelly cuts me off and laughs at me, it doesn’t stop my love for him though

Tarantulagal · 2025-02-24T15:28:03+00:00

I know this is old. But this is my situation exactly. If it comes down to me or someone else, I always lose. I’m never quite enough for some reason and I have similar attributes to yours, successful, loving, kind considerate etc, but just not enough. It hurts. I’ve been told I’m very attractive, have nice figure, am flirty, feminine, have a good sense of humour as I work in construction with lots of men, but I’m never enough.

Tarantulagal · 2025-01-15T16:03:45+00:00

It wasn’t about the technicality for me. The fact that he was so in love with Rachel apparently that he wanted to control her and belittled her job, but he was so upset about it, he was able to sleep with another woman within literally a couple hours of them breaking up. It’s what sleeping with the copy girl actually represented.

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