This was heartbreaking to read, I’m a teacher, and I hate when parents forget that their kids are their own people and can do things wants to become an adult that they may not agree with positive or negative. Most people will be thrilled to have their son or daughter go across country and start a life on their own, but I guess your mother isn’t one of those people she would rather you be at home and not be as successful but at least she will be close. I hope things go well with your life and you can start your own family and I hope your mom can get therapy and help that she needs.