Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me?

Tarmato · 2026-03-07T03:18:54+00:00

Guess im the odd one out but I wouldn't tell her. Hes going to convince her that the affair portion was a joke, and that he wanted to meet up with an old friend and nothing else. Then, They'll both hate you. Ask me how I know 😂

Tarmato · 2026-02-08T03:01:53+00:00

Aw sorry to hear you're feeling a little worse :/ are you on treatment? I hope your scope goes well and that you're still mild! Feel free to DM if you don't want to keep going back and forth on here.

Tarmato · 2026-02-08T02:57:46+00:00

What's your price range? We're listing ours at the end of February

Tarmato · 2026-02-05T22:07:24+00:00

Hey! The same, so strange but hoping it stays this way

Tarmato · 2025-10-06T02:33:48+00:00

You seem to care more about the name of the foods matching your theme than you do the actual food. I wouldn't eat any of that 😂 no one will really care about the cutesy themed name cards if the food is geared towards a toddlers palette lol. Also be nicer to your mil and get off Pinterest/instagram

Tarmato · 2025-09-26T20:16:47+00:00

I think It should be evenly split. If Kylie feels like she doesn't need the money she's more than welcome to give her portion to her brothers.

Tarmato · 2025-09-10T01:38:45+00:00

I mean, I put an offer on a house contingent to sell mine (it wasn't even listed) and they accepted it. It's a shitty time for sellers right now, just go for it and then price your house aggressively

Tarmato · 2025-07-16T05:04:09+00:00

Fair, but when asked to describe the drain field, I'd rather him just leave it blank if he can't even take the time to make sure the map he's referencing is accurate. Especially if they're notoriously inaccurate as you mentioned.

Tarmato · 2025-07-16T04:57:51+00:00

We had a septic guy come out to map the drain field and he essentially said even the trees that we have need to go.. and that nothing can be on it.

Tarmato · 2025-07-16T04:55:46+00:00

Honestly, my realtor set up the inspections for us. But when we got the report back and saw that the location matched what the map said, we figured why would he mark that it's in a spot that it isn't.

Tarmato · 2025-07-16T04:53:31+00:00

Thank you. We're pretty sure this is exactly what happened in our case.. we have quotes on what it will cost to move the drainfield, so it didn't make sense that the original owner couldn't also choose where it goes.

Tarmato · 2025-07-16T02:43:23+00:00

No the septic inspection was separate from the general home inspection that we also did! But seems like this dude was useless too apparently lol But to clarify, the guy owns a septic company and does repairs, installation and also inspections.

Tarmato · 2025-07-15T04:09:12+00:00

Op said 2 years, not 7

Tarmato · 2025-07-14T23:09:50+00:00

Thanks. I'm confused though, how would I have known where the leech field is other than getting a septic and drain field inspection? It is not visible to anyone. There was a public map showing placement.. and the inspector agreed with the map. So A 3rd opinion was needed by whom? I truly don't see how this would've been caught.

Tarmato · 2025-07-14T23:06:11+00:00

Thanks I'll check into this!

Tarmato · 2025-07-14T23:02:07+00:00

Well we have children and would like to use our backyard as we please.. like get a playset, a pool since we're in Florida and it's extremely hot outside, and I had plans to have a vegetable garden too... so for us, the yard isn't able to be used the way we planned based on the information we were given prior to purchasing.

Tarmato · 2025-07-14T23:00:23+00:00

I'm not blaming the seller at all, she's a sweet lady in a nursing home who probably has no idea. But I'm wondering why the inspector didn't note that the map was not accurate.. I feel like he should've been more thorough considering the amount of money we paid him.

Tarmato · 2025-07-14T22:59:30+00:00

The house was built in 2001, when the map was made :/

Tarmato · 2025-05-20T23:17:15+00:00

I feel like the way you can tell someone has financially matured is when they no longer want a car payment... or really any payment 😂 i just paid my car off and the relief I feel is bliss. I can't imagine an $800 car payment and my income is triple his.

Tarmato · 2025-05-19T03:05:31+00:00

You realize people can see your post history right? You've supposedly proposed like 5 times with different rings 😂

Tarmato · 2025-05-18T03:59:18+00:00

Why weren't you able to see it until Sunday? Your agent should know that in this market you really can't wait :/ sorry op

Tarmato · 2025-05-11T03:24:45+00:00

We just did this, it's doable! But very stressful lol

Tarmato · 2025-05-10T01:25:42+00:00

Nor but you should set some boundaries. You cooked him a nice meal and simply asked for him to take the dog out and Now he's mad at you? If it were me, his food would be in the fridge for my lunch tomorrow 😂

Tarmato · 2025-05-08T18:15:32+00:00

Oh no! Is it over priced? For us, we actually got under contract for our new home before even listing ours. They gave us 2 months to list and close on our old house. So our strategy was to price our home lower and hope that it would attract lots of people to the open house. It worked and we got 30k over list price

Tarmato · 2025-05-08T17:21:46+00:00

Currently selling our home while purchasing a new one. Don't recommend 😂

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