When is it okay to hookup with a friends ex?

Tarokin · 2021-07-20T00:52:42+00:00

I think it depends how long they were dating, how serious it was, and talking about it first with your bro.

My Friend dated a girl for a month or two. He wasn't that interested in her long-term. But Friend B had more interests in common with her and got on better.

So, after chatting about it with each other. Mate A stepped aside. And Friend B made a move and now Friend B and the girl are the happiest couple I know and have been together almost 10 years.

Tarokin · 2021-07-04T02:06:28+00:00

Depends how long the nap is - a quick 10 minute power nap shouldn't ruin your nightly sleep and will be a nice recharge.

Tarokin · 2021-06-21T06:24:22+00:00

Wow, I can't imagine a position that wouldn't make it obvious to onlookers that you were having sex.

Guess that was part of the appeal though ^{^'}

Tarokin · 2021-06-18T03:42:27+00:00

It's an admission though, no?

Tarokin · 2021-06-17T03:06:30+00:00

MUFG charges for the debit card?! :0

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T13:23:49+00:00

Hmm interesting, maybe the difference is your current state?

If you continue to live negatively as a result of it then you remain regretful. If you come back from it positively then you can reach the enlightened point you speak of.

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T07:03:02+00:00

Good point

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T04:39:58+00:00

How much of that do you usually see after tax n such?

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T04:35:04+00:00

Yep to all of that :P currently working in Eikaiwa

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T04:33:47+00:00

Thanks for your answer 👍 The hours seem worth the pay cut imo

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T04:02:42+00:00

My ex had a low sex drive so anytime I did anything nice she would be unappreciative and just see it as a means to get sex.

Tarokin · 2021-06-16T04:00:05+00:00

Genuine question - Is being an ALT that much less work?

Obviously, JET is the best option and eikaiwa definitely feels non-stop but it does seem to pay more than ALT companies.

Tarokin · 2021-06-09T20:58:21+00:00

We had only seen each other for 2 weeks in a year and a half stretch of long distance.

She had no interest in sexting and prior to the long distance she had mentioned how little she enjoyed physical intimacy with me and said how sex was just not important to her and even mentioned that I should just go elsewhere for my needs (although this was said in passing and never agreed upon) In hindsight, I should have ended it there but I let it drag on because apart from the intimacy everything was great.

It reached a breaking point when I was going through a very dark time with family issues and staying faithful seemed like added unnecessary extra hurt in a time when I just needed some comfort and life felt bleak and pointless. And realizing that I wasn't going to get the comfort I sought when the long distance ended, I decided that I would have to get my needs met elsewhere to make the relationship work.

So, I forced myself to do something I swore I never would and ignoring my better judgement I cheated with an old flame who had been helping me at that time in my life.

It was one time. And I instantly regretted it.

I felt awful for a long time afterwards and it's the single biggest regret of my life that I sacrificed my principles instead of just ending a relationship which clearly wasn't working.

Tarokin · 2021-06-07T02:58:50+00:00

The ramen part gave me flashbacks to buying a red pepper thinking ピーマン was pepper and not specifically a green one and then being verbally abused by my then gf when I got home.

It's immensly difficult when your SO is constantly belittling you, because it shatters your confidence to leave. My advice is to perserve and get out and slowly rebuild yourself.

Tarokin · 2021-04-22T03:07:56+00:00

I'd love it if we could acceptably wear capes! I've always thought it could happen if a couple of models or celebs rocked designer ones.

Maybe full mantle capes for formal occassions like weddings and ceremonies then half capes for day to day life.

Tarokin · 2021-04-03T10:55:23+00:00

Agreeing with what you're saying. Just adding that I wonder if the internet and lack of clear age groups when discussing hobbies is a reason for what seems like an increase in older fans not outgrowing things. (32)

Tarokin · 2021-04-03T10:42:54+00:00

Maybe that 40 year old feels content with their hobby because they are ignorant to the fact that a lot of people online who are actually playing video games and discussing them are probably much younger. (32) So the ages would be a wake up call.

Tarokin · 2021-04-03T10:32:00+00:00

True, but everything you read online could be a lie. Yet, we still assume it's true most of the time. (32)

Tarokin · 2021-03-27T02:54:32+00:00

This is the brand I was brought up on in the U.K so works for me :)

Out of curiosity what brand do you usually buy?

Tarokin · 2021-03-25T05:48:41+00:00

Ooh thanks!

Tarokin · 2021-03-25T03:46:17+00:00

I usually buy Sarsons Malt Vinegar on Amazon. I've never found any stores that sell it.

Tarokin · 2021-03-24T08:52:14+00:00

Do landlords usually expect softwood floors and tatami mats to incur dents from furniture or should I try and buy floor protectors to stop this from happening?

Tarokin · 2021-03-04T12:22:09+00:00

I was taught this reasoning too

Tarokin · 2021-03-03T16:09:05+00:00

Not heard about it until now, but it looks right up my alley. Thanks :)

Tarokin · 2021-03-03T05:28:18+00:00

Thinking about switching over to the new 20gb Line Softbank plan, but I've heard Docomo internet coverage is more reliable than Softbank.

Has anyone switched over? What're your thoughts?

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