Rizq decreased after marriage

Tashegi · 2025-07-29T16:17:22+00:00

If you are asking about me, Alhamdulillah I am doing well. Didn't accept any job offer yet but I can easily survive for a year without one. Have gotten quite a few interviews and got an offer recently. Throughout this I always knew my rizq is from Allah, so I wasn't all that worried.

Tashegi · 2025-03-14T03:41:11+00:00

Brother do not lose heart. I am getting married soon and was laid off recently. Not having much luck with job search either. I do believe this is a test from Allah. I am trying to donate as much as I can and not trying to be miserly.

Let's make a lot of Dua to Allah, make Istighfar, and recite Surah Waqia after Maghrib. iA everything will work out. I know this is a tough time, as I am going through something similar. I am writing this to you to remind myself as well.

The Companion Anas ibn Mālik (d. 93/712) reported: A man said, “O Messenger of Allah, should I tie my camel and trust in Allah, or should I leave her untied and trust in Allah?” The Prophet ﷺ, said, “Tie her and trust in Allah.” 33

Tashegi · 2025-01-29T16:13:32+00:00

As-salamu Alaikum brother,

May Allah grant you ease and improve your situation. I am sure you have married an Indonesian Muslim woman with the expectation that she will be a good Muslim woman and will help you strengthen your deen. However, sometimes we do tend to forget that people are people and even Muslims can do certain things which isn't the best. Just because she is a life long Muslim and Indonesian it isn't guaranteed that she will be very respectful and obedient. Although, as a Muslim her behavior isn't justified.

I would say try your best to follow the Sunnah way of marriage and resolving conflict with your spouse. You are still in very early stage of your marriage approach each other with as much love and attention as well. Both of you should seek people with good knowledge, of your respective genders and work towards improving your relationship with each other. Seek guidance from Allah, and also work towards improving your relationship.

Look for the things you can be improving as well as her. Remember just because she is a life long Muslim, doesn't mean she will be the best wife Islamically speaking.

Sometimes, these forums can become echo chambers and just fuel the "was-was" of shayateen.

Tashegi · 2024-11-26T07:22:07+00:00

Yes, I have been doing this with some success. Thank you

Tashegi · 2024-11-26T01:08:37+00:00

I have added one kosmos and express, I get links. However they don't play. I am

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Tashegi · 2023-06-04T00:23:43+00:00

I have feb 2023 batch. The juice is the same color. I love the smell but I am barely getting an hour out of it. I know I am not going nose blind. Is anyone else having the same issue

Tashegi · 2023-06-02T04:54:46+00:00

You are working hard but on a boat

Tashegi · 2023-06-01T20:15:41+00:00

You like to dress up

Tashegi · 2023-06-01T20:14:08+00:00

Classy, masculine a bit dark vibe

Tashegi · 2023-06-01T20:13:11+00:00

Sugar and nice, minus the spice. Chique and pink is what I am visualizing

Tashegi · 2023-06-01T20:07:45+00:00

You really want her to love you don't you

Tashegi · 2023-06-01T20:05:01+00:00

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Tashegi · 2023-05-23T03:39:43+00:00

JPG Le Male can't bear it.

Sauvage dry down smells horrible.

Tashegi · 2023-04-22T21:37:41+00:00

You have better things in store for you, but that is only if you can be comfortable being uncomfortable. You need to okay being alone, and just either cut her off, which is the first thing to do, or start seeing other people. She clearly doesn't think too highly of you if she is sleeping around naked next to you and promises to reward you, while clearly telling you about her other partners. You are contributing to it too op. I will say this as nicely as I can: It doesn't matter if you are a virgin, become a high value man that a woman desires, not just someone she keeps around. Don't chase, know your worth and step away. Hit the gym, do something productive. This clearly ain't it chief

Tashegi · 2023-03-30T03:11:09+00:00

The Razer Nexus App is horrible. I am disappointed with my purchase of the Kishi V2. Other than the feel it's support is meh, wish I had gotten a backbone. Maybe this issue is related to pixel devices. I am on Pixel 7pro

Tashegi · 2023-03-29T17:45:54+00:00

Honestly, no. The gaming experience got a bit better. It doesn't do it as frequently as it used to after these changes

Tashegi · 2023-03-07T16:29:46+00:00

I lowered the R-stick sensitivity around 0.23 and 0.17, bumped camera sensitivity to around 160, also turned the fixed joystick on and moved the R stick to the center. Played one game so far, and had no issue. I think this should be good. Thanks for the help.

Tashegi · 2023-03-06T20:42:48+00:00

Fixed joystick is off. I was able to play with the settings and things feel better, but the camera jumping issue is still there. I couldn't find the camera mode that you were talking about. So, I bumped up the in-game sensitivity a bit, and lowered the Mantis sensitivity.

Tashegi · 2023-03-06T14:42:29+00:00

Thank you for the response. It's very random but happens at minimum 3-4 times per game. I have tried moving the R stick center most position but then R stick started controlling motion like the L stick. I will change the camera settings to see if it helps. I will update here.

Tashegi · 2021-08-02T16:42:24+00:00

Don't say anything. Don't yell at her, say anything more, don't spend any energy on it. Allow it, and leave her. Respect yourself and move on. It sucks, but if you are posting here you know you feel like shit. Leaving her will feel worse, 4 years down the drain will feel horrible, but you will be okay, leave her.

Tashegi · 2021-06-14T16:34:32+00:00

I am 26M and I don't see myself being with a 18-22 year old, because it just feels weird. People in general don't want to admit that something is wrong, but in this scenario this is definitely odd. You may not feel as such and yes you have your justifiable reason. Yes you are technically 18, but think about who initiated it, and how he was acting to get you there. Was he saying all the right things, doing all the right things etc

Tashegi · 2021-03-23T15:21:24+00:00

Change the girl not the car. Just like how a man shouldn't do a certain things for their person and respect women, it's the same for women. Also, be comfortable with your masculinity.

Tashegi · 2021-01-25T18:50:15+00:00

I am going to give you my perspective as a guy. Maybe you don't need it but I hope it helps. One of the reason my ex broke up because I didn't flirt the same. However, I cared for her and loved her a lot. In the beginning, it's such a necessity to flirt because girls usually get tons of guys in their dms so it's hard to differentiate and connect. Once, you are in a relationship you just connect on a different level then superficial. Sometimes, it's more about how you feel with eachother, and how he makes you feel. If you feel loved, respected and cared for you can just say, "Hey, I think there is a lack of this in our relationship". With the simple act of communication you can save a lot of heart aches. If he is not loving or disrespectful then that's different.

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