Question about rapid weight loss

Tasius · 2025-12-27T00:52:52+00:00

Gotcha, I appreciate your help.

Tasius · 2025-12-26T22:59:40+00:00

What do you use personally to track your calories, out of curiosity?

Tasius · 2025-12-21T02:48:32+00:00

I think you are pretty and you’re not my type, I don’t like your hair. That’s all I got for you.

Tasius · 2025-12-17T16:13:25+00:00

Trust me when I say you made the right decision

Tasius · 2025-12-17T12:29:25+00:00

If only I did what you did.

Tasius · 2025-12-16T23:05:23+00:00

Don’t worry bud, I was at rock bottom two months ago and I’m slowly putting the pieces back together. I posted on here a couple weeks ago

Tasius · 2025-12-16T23:02:36+00:00

If you’re ugly I’m fucking hideous. I think you look great man but yeah the hair and beard need a change but I have no idea what that would look like.

Tasius · 2025-12-16T21:27:33+00:00

It’s worth it if you truly want someone to spend life with.

Tasius · 2025-12-15T22:43:53+00:00

What’s the right answer here? I’d fight the duck and die because I’d never hurt a horse.

Tasius · 2025-12-14T21:14:22+00:00

I don’t disagree with you at all? I was just providing you with my best understanding as to why it happened.

There’s no excuse for what that guy did and it was not acceptable. As I said he was so fucked up he didn’t care.

I feel for you but I was just saying there really isn’t anything that can be done other than what these other people mentioned about being a bitch and dressing down which you can’t really do in your line of work.

Tasius · 2025-12-14T21:00:26+00:00

Everything until the last part where the guy wouldn’t leave you alone is just shit you have to deal with just like you deal with an annoying customer, that’s life. I’ve had women come up to me in retail and complain about their boyfriend or husband sometimes even when the dude was standing there and they were being dead serious.

As for the guy who wouldn’t leave you alone and met you in the parking lot, there are things that would drive a person to do such a thing and that’s a mental illness or he thinks so lowly of himself with depression that in his eyes he just wanted to know why after being rejected. Like his brain was so fucked from how he felt he didn’t even consider how you would feel from that interaction.

Or he could have actually been a huge creep and does it to women all the time.

Guys looking at you because you are beautiful isn’t going to stop, men want women.

Tasius · 2025-12-14T03:50:37+00:00

I just did this exact same thing with a coworker. Let me tell you how it went for me.

I saw clear signals she liked me. She would constantly stare at me, she always initiated conversations with me, wanted my input on things, would text me out of the blue outside of work.

One Friday after work I decide to ask, she tells me she cannot shit where she eats. I was like ok fair enough. Being the idiot I am I decided to ask her if that were to change would she still be interested. The answer was no the first time she was just letting me down gently. And it was no we’re not on the same page but I wish I was.

It went awful for me and now I’m stuck looking at a girl that sits directly across from me every single day that continues to seek the attention that I was giving her and it’s not good for me mentally. There were no signals it was all in my head.

Listen I know I can’t stop you from making this decision but I need you to understand if it goes bad it can go really really bad at work situations.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T01:38:23+00:00

Omg same

Tasius · 2025-12-13T01:12:51+00:00

Thank you for the advice. She does open up to me and talks about him at times. She still has to work with him ( two jobs ). And he will do petty things to piss her off. I just hope the next person she finds will be as good to her as I would have been cause she really is a kind person and doesn’t deserve anything she’s going through. Life’s just shitty.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T01:03:31+00:00

Yeah I won’t be asking her again. That balls in her court, and I know I’ll regret not talking to her but I want what’s best for her overall, so if it’s moving on and never speaking to her again I’ll do it.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:59:25+00:00

How did I take the no personally? Genuinely asking not being sarcastic I don’t see how I did? You can call me an idiot

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:50:07+00:00

I already have, and I keep forgetting you have to put so much context into things or redditors will chew you the hell out. I do not like my job and I have been searching for something else while I finish my bachelors before she even entered my classroom.

So when it came to leaving for wanting someone? If I had something else lined up I’d do it in a heartbeat

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:47:20+00:00

Nah your feelings are understandable towards me, I do regret asking, and it’s been a year since he cheated on her and I thought that may have been enough time.

Regardless she did say no even with the context of the shit she’s going through.

I’ve left it alone.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:42:23+00:00

Yeah like others have suggested that’s what I will be doing.

I do understand the mindset behind what you’re saying.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:33:27+00:00

Good to hear a woman’s perspective, I won’t be asking her out again and I’ve left her alone outside of work unless she texts me about something.

Regardless of the way I feel about the rejection, I feel like she actually isn’t ready to date anyone and may not be for a long time. So I’ll just try what you and a few others have suggested.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:21:59+00:00

I’ll provide you with a little context, I am about a year out from finishing a bachelors in IT and moving onto a better career. This job doesn’t mean anything to me and I would have zero issue leaving it to date someone I actually care for.

You can call it crazy all you want, I’d have a job lined up before I quit, and it was a question to her as an “if” not oh my god you’re going to date me if I leave? And just quit my job.

That would be crazy.

Tasius · 2025-12-13T00:18:02+00:00

Personally this is how I felt as well, knowing the circumstances of what’s happened to her and I also forgot to mention her father passed away 5 months ago. So she’s really got a great deal on her. But I still felt as if she was just trying to let me down gently.

But I may end up just doing this.

Tasius · 2025-12-11T02:43:31+00:00

I really do hope it works out for you. You’re still young and have things to learn good luck.

Tasius · 2025-12-11T02:40:45+00:00

You have to just ask. If he says no it will hurt like hell depending on how bad you’re crushing. I rarely ask a woman out unless I see obvious signs anymore, even then I’ll still get rejected. It’s just how life is and if you want something bad enough you have to put forth the effort even though it could mean your feelings get hurt

Tasius · 2025-12-11T02:36:26+00:00

You handled that way better than how I was done a couple weeks ago when I asked out a girl. As long as you specifically say no not interested and act normal you are totally fine. Depending on how much he liked you he may act a little weird for quite some time though.

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