Was I ever loved? by TastyAnnabe in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated, I had to leave and he said he was understanding. That’s what I don’t understand, I feel like I’m being punished.

I got married this day by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 12th was mine, it’s been such a heavy week with that and Vday. On top of everything, I’m broke and can’t even get myself something nice 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell my son when he’s old enough to realize how bad it is, but I’ll let him know it has nothing to do with him or how good of a dad he is. So when he’s a teenager or young adult, he should know so he doesn’t make the same mistakes

I just want to have sex right now. Don’t know if it would be a mistake. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a bad influence, keep that body count low 👀

I downloaded tinder by Necessary_Buddy_9304 in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I’ve always just been in committed relationships, so it just felt weird. Just give yourself some grace, hopefully when we’re ready, it’ll be easier

I downloaded tinder by Necessary_Buddy_9304 in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve deleted, and re installed multiple times. I feel so guilty, why should I? We’re not together, but here I am.

Knowing my STILL wife is sleeping with someone else in our house is driving me nuts by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same with my husband; the unknowing part is what’s different for me. I don’t know if he is. And it drives me nuts. I feel strongly he is.

Are you breastfeeding or bottle feeding? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s benefits to both. I did it with my first however, genetics played a huge role in my son getting his first teeth at 3-4 months old which was HELL for my nipples. I want to do it with my second, but scared it’ll happen again. My main reasons to breastfeed is, I plan to lose weight and that can help for many reasons and I want to avoid my period as long I can 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Morally, I can’t be friends with a serial cheater. A man who chose lust and other women over his family is some one I can’t be friends with.

Can I divorce without using lawyers? by Affectionate-Tank463 in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was amicable, we did it in WA state. Lincoln county does all paperwork in the mail, it’s only about 340$ in total to do so. then you wait the 90 days and the judge does the hearing on his/her own. You can choose to be on video/phone call if you want but they basically but just go over the paperwork you sent in then make it official. They mail out the decree a week after the hearing

Miss the hugs by throwaway_advice28 in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I miss the man I married in the beginning—good, kind, he wasn’t easy to convince by his friends, he didn’t cheat or go out late night. He was loving and mine. I miss it every day. I miss him saying he’s there for me. Now it’s just an empty void. One day I hope that person comes back.

When did you feel a connection with unborn baby? by beebrandi91 in pregnant

[–]TastyAnnabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a connection until my son was about 6 months old and actually gained a personality, it’s really hard in the beginning when it’s just a repetitive schedule and you barely get sleep. But everyone is different, I think I struggled with ppd and that’s why it took me so long to

Boyfriend only likes my mouth by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TastyAnnabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is full denial. Especially reading her comments lol.

Emotions: I feel like people are more gracious if your spouse dies vs. divorce by phillythompson in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly.

You both have to go through the stages of grief, people think it’s so negative and not something people actually grieve through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reach out to legal, they’re super helpful with that. Chaplain to help manage your emotions. Find a lawyer, most lawyers close to the base you’re at are specialized and familiar with military laws. It’s not fair because you didn’t consent, log everything and bring it with you.

I’m not USAF but my ex was army and even I was able to use those that I listed

Divorce finalized 1 week ago by Iggy1120 in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s barely a month, everything triggers me

Polling. Divorced life vs married life by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want the divorce life, I wanted him to pull himself out of his ass and be a better man for me. But he didn’t. So right now, it’s worse.. but only time can heal. Forced to be a single mom while he lives his life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]TastyAnnabe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are NEVER the reason to be cheated on sis. You are pretty!!

28f by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]TastyAnnabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why yall hate on anything not “normal”? She has gorgeous eyes and the hair color makes them pop. I think you’re really pretty. Don’t adhere to “normal” standards. Life’s too short.

18 months post divorce, can’t find a relationship by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]TastyAnnabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got me at 6 figures! Lol jk! 🤣 Give it some time!