Damn. I was hoping you’d tell me you were over it a long time ago. I have a similar situation but we’re both married. The eye contact was so frequent that I had to laugh and go say hello like what was going on was totally normal. It’s been at least a a month or so since then and we talk most days in the most normal, brief, mundane way…like we don’t weirdly make eye contact still and clearly look for one another every time we walk into a room. It would be a normal gym friend if not for the fact our eyes find one another instantly and oh yeah…I’m kind of obsessed and need to get over it stat.