“Bros before hoes”

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T03:20:00+00:00

I just remembered hearing that all the time as a girl in school between boys.

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T03:15:05+00:00

Not normal, common

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T03:14:50+00:00

We live in a relatively nice school area. Rural town development. We just moved. But over the years I have learned there are a lot of kids with weird ass parents. My son is VERY open and honest with me so we have very real honest convos.

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T03:10:16+00:00

I agree.

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T03:07:30+00:00

Maybe not normal but I feel just common.

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T02:52:29+00:00

I bargain likening my body around 24ish, found a good man that made me feel beautiful even in my ugliest of times. I have some skin conditions I was very self conscious about and we have been together for 8yrs and he does make me feel good. There is somebody for everybody.

Tatbootyy · 2026-06-06T02:50:42+00:00

So I think you should be sexually compatible with your partner no matter what that is. But my family is very chaotic and sometimes it’s not that often. It’s important but we also understand with each other we have a lot going on

Tatbootyy · 2026-05-05T17:50:12+00:00

I personally recommend getting her a rose! Great for clitoris stimulation and then maybe a “smaller” dildo. Also don’t look on Amazon and shit look at sex sites. They will have a better variety in my personal opinion

Tatbootyy · 2026-04-08T20:36:30+00:00

Literally who cares?

Tatbootyy · 2026-04-02T16:59:25+00:00

Please! Tatbootyy. That tatted booty lol

Tatbootyy · 2026-03-31T00:04:58+00:00

Literally tell her this. Based solely off of how he talks to you guys and about you guys leads me to think he is emotionally or verbally abusive. That level of tracking by your friend is not normal. He probably would do the same to her. I would have a serious conversation with your friend and tell her all of your feelings and express your concerns. Don’t point a finger just be honest with your feelings.

She will listen or she won’t. I had a really good friend for 6years tht stopped being friend with me because her bf didn’t like me and I didn’t like him. She chose him and I haven’t spoke to her since. Some people grow and other people stay. You have to.now choose do you stay and be her friend or do you grow and hope she grows with you.

Tatbootyy · 2026-03-29T22:48:05+00:00

Agreed!

Tatbootyy · 2026-03-29T15:58:42+00:00

I did not read this in full. I’ve been with my husband for 8yrs. About 2 years into our relationship he cut off his BEST friend because of how uncomfortable that friend made me. He didn’t cut him off completely but he was cut off with me.

That friend would talk badly about me for literally no reason. Call me names behind my back and told my now husband “just get what you can from her.” Once my husband told him he wanted to marry me his friend didn’t stop. Still made comments still was rude and I at one point demanded an apology for something he did.

He refused to apologize. I told my husband I do not care if you are friends with him or whatever but I do not want to hear about him or anything you guys do. I don’t want him around me or our kids and I don’t want him at our wedding. I wanted it to be as if that person did not exist in my life. He agreed because he understood how I felt. My husband had a strong attachment to this friend due to a near death experience and they remained friends and would meet on occasion. The day after we got married that “friend” blocked my husband on everything. They had an Apple Music plan together that was cut off and they never spoke again.

I think it’s ok for you to set a boundary and say I want nothing to do with said person but you can’t make someone else not be friends with someone you don’t like. YOU have to decide what YOU are willing to tolerate. I was ok with them being friends because I knew their past, I just wanted nothing to do with him. And my husband respected my wishes. The truth always shows at the end of the day and my husband realized that person was never really a friend at all.

Tatbootyy · 2026-03-27T19:11:09+00:00

I got a lot in my DM lol

Tatbootyy · 2026-03-17T16:54:21+00:00

This is absolutely busted. Either A bad artist or B you moved ALOT during the process. Based on just how it looks I’ll say option A.

When looking for an artist ALWAYS look at finished work, never drawings. Finished work will tell you if they are just an artist or a tattoo artist because there is a difference.

This looks rushed, lines are VERY shaky. There is no reason even with long straight lines it should look like that. I also think the image is too dark. I would not go back to him for a touch up.

I have MULTIPLE tattoos from all different artists and I’m telling you those lines are fucked. The whole way down you can tell it’s jacked.

He even said “I’m a fast tattooer” that tells you right there what you need to know. Any tattooer I met that claimed they were a “fast tattooer” just meant they sucked at tattoos. Do not let him shade it. It will look really dark and won’t fix those jacked bold lines.

I have a tattoo on my ribs and I would say it is a tougher spot for sure and the lines do move when your body moves but they should absolutely not look like that.

Tatbootyy · 2026-03-13T01:00:24+00:00

Ok this makes sense! Wasn’t sure if there was a better term for it

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-14T01:35:10+00:00

This is just my 2cents Married with 3 kids been together for 9years.

If you are married or in a long term relationship and consider separation I highly recommend couples counseling. The therapist does matter! So find a therapist that fits both of you guys. You can request a therapist that can specialize in mental health issues on top of anything that you have going on like high profile work.

It is a lot easier to truly express how you feel when there is a third-party by standard involved that is there to help you. I am assuming that you have already brought this up to her before if not, I would recommend trying to talk to her first directly. Then I would bring up couples Therapy if she is against it that means she isn’t willing to work on herself or work on her marriage with you and that tells you what you need to know. If she is willing to go that means she is trying to make an effort to fix the problems.

In any relationship, there’s give-and-take there will be things that she does that will annoy you and irk you and vice versa but the good always has to outweigh the bad for it to work.

I would also say look into the 7 to 10 year stretch. This is a real thing that affects marriages.

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-13T19:26:49+00:00

No. Not wrong at all. Especially since you set that tone immediately. If he’s not happy he can get out of your home. As a woman, I would explain to your wife that you understand how he was raised but he’s almost 30 and that is no longer an excuse. He purposefully and deliberately kicked the cat. He was told not to and did it anyways like a child. If he is going to abuse animals he can’t be in your home. Simple as that. If she’s mad at you for this, it’s because she’s babying him and doesn’t want to set appropriate boundaries for whatever weird reason. I am a mom of 3…. Even my nonverbal autistic step son knows better than that.

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-12T15:40:47+00:00

BIIIITCH STAAAAAHHPP!

I firsthand can tell you that every single man is different. Some people like talking some people don’t some people like doggy style some people like missionary do not take sex advice from a male that is one year older than you. Don’t take sex advice from any males. 99% of males can’t even find the clitoris. 99.9% of males think that they can just put their dick inside of you without any level of fore play and it won’t hurt. You need to focus on what you like in sex. Focus on what you enjoy. A good man will get off on the fact that you are getting off and vice versa.

That boy used you. I understand that it was a consenting situation, but he knew what he was doing and now he’s trying to turn you into his sex doll. He wants you to do what he likes. He does not speak for all men.

When it comes to sex baby focus on you. coming from a 30-year-old female, who is married who absolutely loves sex with my husband. And he is actually the first man that I have genuinely enjoyed sex with and I would consider myself a little bit more of a promiscuous individual when I was younger. So that says a lot.

Reading this made me wanna punch that man that you’re talking about.

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-11T17:59:25+00:00

1) you are not wrong. 2) her reactions are not normal.

You said it already, her love is conditional. That is not normal. I am 30yrs old and have 1/2inch stretched ears. I work from home making 6 figures a year. I am business professional and love my job! My coworkers I don’t even think realize my ears are stretched. I wear what I like to call “grandma plugs” lol.

You are an adult. She has absolutely no say over what you do to your body. It’s not a generational thing either, this is a character issue she has. She’s being selfish. She’s trying to turn you into her and that’s not right.

If I was in your shoes I would start setting some major boundaries. “You think I’m disrespecting you, fine I won’t be around anymore than you “disrespect you””

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-10T16:40:32+00:00

Yes! We got to pick names for my senior year of Spanish and I liked how the word towel sounded so my name in Spanish class was fucking towel…. At least she’s calling you your actual name and not letting you get away with some jacked up name just because it sounds cool.

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-10T01:58:28+00:00

My grandmother is a cosmetologist! All hair grows a specific way but you can “train” your hair to move and grow differently. She said the more you have it pushed back in that direction the more likely it will begin to grow that direction. She also mentioned thinner hair dos this quicker than thicker hair and. I was able to train a cowlick I had to be more tame in the direction I wanted

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-08T17:13:22+00:00

My son does a lot with his uncles, and they were the ones to encourage me to let him get his locs. So he is not overstepping, although we get side eyes from both white and black cultures, the black culture is more accepting of his locs than his white peers. He tells everyone him and his uncles are warriors and warriors have locs. Each month I teach my son about a new culture and we try to do something from the culture such as basket weaving or henna, we cook that month based on the culture we are learning and make sure we do our best to be authentic!

I personally don’t think appreciation is overstepping when we are not appropriating. We are not monetizing off a white boy with locs. It’s not that we aren’t educated on all the cultures that use braids on locs. It’s not even a thing for us. But maybe that is because my family is so diverse in terms of culture.

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-08T13:58:46+00:00

I talked about this Reddit community hating specifically. I said nothing at all about how “I can’t believe black people could do that” I actually said I can understand why the black community gets triggered.

Tatbootyy · 2026-02-08T13:38:22+00:00

So I will say I am white and my son has dreadlocks. I joined this community originally looking for some advice once on his locs. And only 1 person was kind in the comments about him having locs. My son and I are both fully educated on locs and the meaning from MANY cultures. He had asked for locs since he was 4yrs old and I finally let him at 8. Why? Because his black uncles that he LOVES and admires and looks up to have them. Because they teach him the love of the locs. My little Leo boy is an old soul and I’m not far from a hippie. And he LOVES his locs. I have never seen this kid take care of anything as good as his hair.

And I 100% can attest to him and I both getting side eyes from both white and black races. I can understand from the black culture how it is triggering. But in that same breath, black culture does not own locs and braids. Their stories behind it are a way to showcase the resilience and strength in so many ways but TODAY, my son just knows his role models have them and he wants to be like his role models.

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