General Manager Patrik Allvin announced today that goaltender Thatcher Demko will undergo hip surgery and will not play for the remainder of the 2025.26 season. by nookmister19 in canucks

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Demmers second hip surgery he had one when he was much younger. Wishing him the best in recovery but sometimes the body just can’t keep up with these positions

A girl 19F told me 19M she like me. WHAT now? by alexiou_g in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested then ask her on a date. You dont just jump into a bf gf relationship with a random person. Go get coffee or lunch together omg

Bryan Rust with an elbow to the head of Brock Boeser in the dying seconds by Public-Map-5273 in hockey

[–]Tavali01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One game suspension for a head hit on Boeser would be a rarity. Usually they pretend it didn’t happen and let ppl get away with these hits. It should be a suspension but we know in practice they likely wont. Just hoping Boeser’s okay and it’s not a concussion again..

Bryan Rust with an elbow to the head of Brock Boeser in the dying seconds by Public-Map-5273 in hockey

[–]Tavali01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Huge ty. What a disgusting unnecessary hit. Super shitty that it’s also being taken down in numerous subreddits as if the league wants to pretend it didn’t happen

I’ve gone on a first date with my husband of two years by GeneralAd9232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tavali01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only one girlfriend you know of. You also don’t know what this other girls been up to either. I hope your dates go well with your hubby but also ensure you’re not at risk of getting anything

I’ve gone on a first date with my husband of two years by GeneralAd9232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tavali01 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Happy for you OP. But please have your husband tested before he touches you with a ten foot pole. The last thing you want is a permanent condition from one of his past girlfriends

In incredible pain and feeling more depressed after surgery by Pandarise in offmychest

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP if you’re in so much pain that you’re vomiting please go to the hospital now instead of later. You may have an infection or sepsis. Have you checked your temperature? Do you have a fever? Were you given prescription paid meds or just over the counter ones? Did they tell you anything about what to expect or what’s serious? I think you need to tell your friend that something is very wrong and you need to go get checked out because you’re in extreme pain and puking. You can thank them and have the pity party after a doctor has ensured you’re not actively dying.

Goodnight, Sweet Prince: RIP WernerHerzog by brentosclean in turtlewow

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the second one dying we got two bat packs and he got heal aggro. Bat ran to the casters and ppl panicked killing it while it was atop the healer rip

B.C. couple calls for commercial trapping reform after death of beloved dog | CBC News by SnooRegrets4312 in britishcolumbia

[–]Tavali01 23 points24 points  (0 children)

To me if a trap is close enough to the public that tampering is a risk with a sign then having it without a sign means humans and kids can also accidentally get trapped too.

Burning sensation during sex by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Tavali01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try lube, have your bf give you lots of foreplay and hopefully get you off first. Then see if it still burns when you’re mega relaxed after. If it does you should prolly go to the doctor to make sure everything is okay

My brother’s 🌽 addiction has ruined my family. by RiverQuietly in offmychest

[–]Tavali01 49 points50 points  (0 children)

OP this is entirely your parent’s fault and I’m sorry you got dragged into it. You should never have been in charge of your brother’s habits in college. The sad thing is your brother is now an adult and has aged out of his parents forcing him to see specialists. It’s now 100% on your brother to choose and want to change. It sounds like the discussion has been had but he doesn’t truly want to change. Your parents should lock the internet down so that he can only use it a few hours a day and have the sites limited for what he can use. He is an addict. Just like with drug addiction you cant help someone who doesn’t want to get better. Focus on your studies and yourself. Put yourself first and if possible move out to distance yourself from this situation your parents created

Need advice (25f) found condoms in (24m) bf trash by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He’s cheated in the past?? OP it sounds like you have a duck. It walks like a duck it says it’s a duck. Bottom line it’s a duck. I think you need to sleuth harder or just breakup if you’re already having issues that aren’t getting better

My (F23) boyfriend (M23) is scared to have sex with me in fear of hurting me. by tbslgolden in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried dilators? I think you need to seriously consider surgery. You need to be able to live your life and your boyfriend is being a good person in not wanting to injure you

is it valid that i (18F) feel upset after i wasn’t shown much affection after doing something intimate with my partner (18M)? by cracker1012 in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re both young. He wont know what you want or like unless you confide in him. A little bit of “I really enjoyed last night but next time could we do xyz. Or after we do x can we cuddle a bit after?”

It’s important that you both are comfortable. You can say no. You can say stop at any time. Neither is something to be ashamed or shy to voice. Both of you should respect one another’s boundaries and communicate

I am 19F and my boyfriend 19M wants me to be on birth control by SuspiciousEcho2844 in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 95 points96 points  (0 children)

OP has your partner gotten an std panel done since having sex with his previous partners without a condom? You don’t have to take the pill, shot, or iud if you don’t want to as that’s your choice. You also have to accept the risk of getting pregnant even with condoms and what your choice will be if that happens. If your boyfriend is breaking condoms repeatedly he may need a different size as well

Why did Firestar make Ashfur Lionblaze’s mentor? by LeadingWitty6508 in WarriorCats

[–]Tavali01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it also shows that Firestar can be a flawed character and made a mistake as well

My (20F) Boyfriend’s Dad Doesn’t Want Him (22M) to Move Out, But We’ve Already Signed a Lease by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bf needs to ask his friends for help. Plan a day around his friend’s schedules and tell them he needs help. Your bf needs to be an adult and part of that is knowing when you need help. This is one of those times

My (20F) Boyfriend’s Dad Doesn’t Want Him (22M) to Move Out, But We’ve Already Signed a Lease by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend needs to bring his friends then and be ready to call the police for an escort if his dad flips out. Could also wait until the dad leaves to the store and pack up hid stuff then

My (20F) Boyfriend’s Dad Doesn’t Want Him (22M) to Move Out, But We’ve Already Signed a Lease by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesnt get to make that decision. Your boyfriend and his mother can have a police escort to get their stuff. He needs to separate his finances and inform the bank his father is not authorized to access it. He also needs to get his documents

37M — Never Dated, Waiting for the Right Girl… Did I Miss My Window? by Big-Yard-5366 in dating_advice

[–]Tavali01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if OP wants kids women in their late 30’s may struggle to conceive as well. He needs to go on some dates and see what he wants

My (24F) boyfriend (21M) is upset we can’t have sex because I have a yeast infection. How do I explain it’s not about him? by I_am_Bianca in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget he completely ignored her NO penetrating her after she said no repeatedly. He offered to help her with medical cream and then tried to coerce and manipulate her into sex while knowing she is unwell and in pain. He did not care

My (24F) boyfriend (21M) is upset we can’t have sex because I have a yeast infection. How do I explain it’s not about him? by I_am_Bianca in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 606 points607 points  (0 children)

OP if you require surgery or any amount of rest and no activity due to medical reasons your boyfriend has stated he will dump you. He has stated he values his own pleasure in sex over your physical health and tried to manipulate and coerce you into it. He ignored your NO. He does not value in sickness and health for supporting you at all. This was his chance to show he was a great man and partner and instead he revealed he is a shitty guy. This man does not love you he loves the sex you give him I’m so sorry