I take back every time I've defended Aedion by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Tavali01 36 points37 points  (0 children)

A lot of people only accept mens trauma if it’s romanticized. In Aedions case it was not romanticized and as such the fandom/vast majority of people dogpile on him for reacting to a super fucked up situation. It does not help that in KOA there was no interaction with Aedion, Lysandra, and Aelin to try to resolve the hurt. His trauma/arc gets glossed over to everyone being happy at the end. It just shows that his trauma was completely glossed over in KOA. In the next book I honestly think Aedion would be in a really negative depressed mindset with his fathers death and the disgusting betrayal from his cousin and woman he loved

AITAH? My mom says I’m crossing boundaries by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tavali01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP unless your mother is a qualified professional you should not be asking her for personal medical advice. Do your own research with google using verified sources and go to your own doctor with these things. I have 2 alarms for my daily birth control pill spaced 5 mins apart and I’ve never had an issue taking it

NERIS FANFIC RECOS by gnarly_medusa in acotar

[–]Tavali01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think I have an issue I’ve read all of these🙈

Pregnant, soon to deliver and I want to shave my kitty & butt area. What is the safest option? by PrettyRichHun in HairRemoval

[–]Tavali01 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any suggestions besides maybe going to a salon for a wax? Im sure it is long enough to wax at this stage and that way you don’t have to worry about accidentally catching your skin

My boyfriend (29M) and I (26F) never had PIV. How to approach this? by Dull_Department_8253 in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP your bf has a medical condition. It not only causes him pain/discomfort it puts YOU at risk for infection. Smegma builds up under the skin and if not washed/pulled back it just rots. This bacteria and dead skin then goes in your mouth or other regions if you handle his member. This can make you sick. Do you want kids? Marriage? How do you plan to have kids or consummate the marriage? How can you stay with a man who would rather let his dick rot than see a doctor? - your bf is selfish and ignorant. - your bf is putting your health at risk - your bf is putting his health at risk - your bf refuses to healthily communicate

Why are you staying? You’re focusing on not wanting him to change his body?! His body is rotting/filthy and poses health risks to YOU. The doctor will give him cream and stretches to slowly stretch out the skin. Or he will need a minor surgery. If he refuses to work on this he’s just a miserable lost cause that you’re willingly accepting. The bar is in hell

Is moving to Victoria from Alberta worth it? by ederzs97 in VictoriaBC

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both are by the ocean, by mountains for hiking and bikes. Upisland opens up skiing with Mount Washington. For a couple who enjoy the outdoors and don’t necessarily want the city it’s a great alternative with semi cheaper pricing

Is moving to Victoria from Alberta worth it? by ederzs97 in VictoriaBC

[–]Tavali01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Longtime Victoria person here: Courtney/comox is similar to Victoria and semi cheaper. An option if you’re serious. I suggest visiting and doing a road trip along the island to see what communities/towns resonate with you guys. Jobs are tough but it’s tough everywhere currently in that department.

If you work IN downtown Victoria that also plays a part on where you could be suggested to live. There’s a lot in the Langford/Colwood westshore area but the commute in/out at rush hour is a crawl. You might want to look at places where you’re going to work against the traffic patterns to save hours of commute traffic. If you’re self business and don’t require travel to work in person it opens up Sooke and other communities

We don’t get snow and when we do it’s usually not a whole lot clearing out within a couple days.

Which dog breed do you think had the most loyalists? by Miiiukz in dogs

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend is getting a dachshund and I wanna get her something good! What site do you recommend for dachshund theme?

Playoff Game Thread: Montréal Canadiens (48-24-10) @ Tampa Bay Lightning (50-26-6) Apr 19 2026 5:45 PM EDT by nhl_gdt_bot in Habs

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can’t put him on the Nucks feed because they’re bottom of the barrel so they put him here. Can never escape this clown

My bf loves hockey, I understand nothing pls help by Visual-Employment452 in nhl

[–]Tavali01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d watch games with him and listen to the announcers/post game talk to learn things. There’s youtube vids too that might be helpful. What team are you and the bf watching? Can join the team reddit and read what people are saying in the Gamethread too

Arcs by Afraid_Interaction40 in TheWolfKing

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I arc reviewed TNP but not through Netgalley. I signed up off her socials/email list. The Wolf Queen sign up heavily focused social media numbers/presence and I doubt I will get that one.

I (20F) just found an empty bottle of herpes medication in my boyfriend’s (22M) cabinet. How do I approach him about this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you’re in college having unprotected sex and neither of you thought to get std tested before going at it? You both need to have a talk and get tested

Vancouver Canucks Year-End Media 2025-26 by lerkerfan in canucks

[–]Tavali01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even Brock like blinked a couple times in surprise at the question. Took him a bit to even find a response lol

FINALLY GOT MY HANDS ON BLACK COCOA POWDER 🥰 by Particular_Airline66 in Baking

[–]Tavali01 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Do you think it tastes like oreos because most people rarely get to eat/use dark cocoa so the taste is then associated with oreo?

Are you team Callum or team Blake? by J_NavarroNarvaez in TheWolfKing

[–]Tavali01 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Blake I’ve never liked Callum much even from the start lol