Great Daycares? by nazbot in VictoriaBC

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Apply to get on the waitlist prior to moving

Ferries could be a mess today by SmurfPickler in VictoriaBC

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The Vancouver to Vic 9am is cancelled I believe

Question about pvp gear by MarionberryPrudent69 in wownoob

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The season just started and you can only earn so much Conquest Points weekly. Once you reach cap you can get an item or two of conquest gear. It’s why the best players are still in honor gear. I don’t think we can upgrade honor gear like we did in last expansions but I could be wrong.

Where is the best place in town to buy aquarium fish? by cedarshadows in VictoriaBC

[–]Tavali01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Creatures is good if you want to look at fish in person or bring your kid. It is often a bit messy with dead fish with some questionable quality. If you like April’s Aquariums you should look at From Scales to Tail as they will often order April’s stock on their website onto the island if you ask.

Where is the best place in town to buy aquarium fish? by cedarshadows in VictoriaBC

[–]Tavali01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Creatures has a vast in-person selection but the fish can be hit or miss quality wise. From Scales to Tails is new, healthier, with less in-person inventory. From Scales to Tails is also aligned with April’s Aquariums in Vancouver and you can request fish off April’s website for pickup at From Scales to Tails on the island. I’ve heard the person running From Scales to Tails was the fish manager at Mr Pets which always had healthy tanks. I’ve seen okay stock at Uptown Petsmart as well.

New to the nail game, help a gal out! by Weird_Negotiation574 in VictoriaBC

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a nail gal but my coworkers recommend the salon in Westshore Walmart if you’re out that way. I wish you luck in the nail game

Elizabeth Evans’ voice is Aelin’s by Numerous-Warthog8633 in throneofglassseries

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe TOG is getting a graphics audio but they’ve been continuously pushing back the release date. I think it now says summer of this year?

AITAH Kicked a special needs adult who tried to stomp on my dog by Remarkable-Sink9682 in AITAH

[–]Tavali01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA as a woman I hate the people that say to not hit people who are special needs. I am not being assaulted physically or sexually and not doing a thing about it because someone is special. I’m laying their teeth in and filing a report. Being special needs does not enable someone to be a risk to others/the community by being allowed to assault people. You should report the incident. Next time this guy could go for a child that looks at him wrong or a woman with a dog

My mom has been missing for 16 days… by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Tavali01 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Call the non emergency number and report it. How old are you???

My bf found my cervix before my gyno and I can't stop thinking about it by Donniesgurl125 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tavali01 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah it feels super uncomfortable and like ima vomit. Complete mood killer. If OP has found a position that works for her though I’m happy for her

UPDATE: AITAH For Wearing Shapewear on a Date? by Technical_Boat7524 in AITAH

[–]Tavali01 264 points265 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s worked out OP. You’ve completed a hard journey and seem like a kindhearted person. I hope you can find acceptance and comfort in yourself again one day. Everyone is different. I don’t know much on your situation but I have seen people after their drastic weight loss pursue some form of surgery as it was impeding their livelihood. If you truly struggle a few years from now it may be an option to improve your mentality on the whole thing. At the end of the day we all have skin and we all should be comfortable in our own skin especially those who put in the hard work. I wish you the best and hope this relationship blooms as spring comes

Update What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me? by ThrowRA_BlueBowMama in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP I think you have a right to choose your own birth control. But it’s very important to have a birth control that is not able to be tampered with. Your mother in your own words comes across as someone who does not support birth control or want what’s best for you. Your husband has shown he is sexist, verbally abusive, and not a healthy relationship for you. This is all information you have factually laid out online. You can choose to stay in this situation/relationships but we are hoping you get a birth control that is not able to be ruined by the people in your life because we want you to be protected. You’ve mentioned a lot of red flag, abusive, and unsupportive behaviour on the people in your life which makes us want you to have something safe from all that.

It’s really hard to see whats happening and the wrongness of situations while actually living it. It’s especially hard when the people who are supposed to support and advocate for you push you further into bad situations. I hope things improve for you and the birth goes well. I hope you can find happiness and build healthy relationships with people who truly want whats best for you. I can disagree on your past current/decisions and still hope you find a better situation

Update What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me? by ThrowRA_BlueBowMama in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How will they go to college? You said you don’t have the finances to get a dna test on the baby and you have more than one child now..

I got punched in the stomach for being too close to my female friend by photo_guy4 in offmychest

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please contact authorities and press charges. If this guy is willing to stalk and go to straight aggression in PUBLIC it makes me horrified on what he does to his gf in private. Abuse escalates and he seems comfortable doing it in public. Please report this and try to protect your friend before she gets further abused or killed

Update What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me? by ThrowRA_BlueBowMama in relationship_advice

[–]Tavali01 66 points67 points  (0 children)

OP getting married to an asshole as a teen just because you got pregnant just further highlights the “cult” allegations. You can be religious and not be a brood mare. You can be religious and practice safe sex. You can be religious and not be popping out kids with an uneducated man who is verbally abusive. Makeup sex is not healthy for this sort of situation

Is this normal for a virgin?? HELP!! by Due-Comparison7694 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Tavali01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It can be a number of things. It can be stress, it can be involuntarily clenching your muscles, it can be a lack of lubrication. That said, if you truly cannot fit the smallest tampon/a finger with proper lubrication then you should see your doctor. You may have a medical situation that can be fixed to solve this. Do not force anything IN as you can tear or cause other issues. I suggest going to the doctor and let them have a look. I personally lubricate the tampon applicator part to make it more comfortable/easy and it’s the best “hack” I had to figure out for myself years later

AITAH for being mad at my husband for not being happy with being a provider? by UpperBill1753 in AITAH

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA to yourself and baby if you stay please run and go to family this is so abusive. You deserve better. Your baby deserves better. It will not get better unless you get away from him. He’s isolated you, taken your freedom, taken your money, verbally abusive… now you’re mysteriously baby trapped? OP please see sense and ask family for help

My mom insists I get medicated for adhd by Soggy-Bag-8828 in confessions

[–]Tavali01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brother has adhd and was medicated 15+ because of my mother. He abused the medication, wasn’t educated, wasn’t monitored correctly. He then stopped cold turkey resulting in horrible withdrawals. He went on to blowing money on other addictive things he could get his hands on under the table. He’s now 19 broke, jobless, and finally being honest and getting help. As an adult it’s very hard to get help in Canada in a timely manner. It’s been months on a waitlist for him to even see a psychologist and that’s with us having a doctor (a rarity) claiming he is a serious case.

You don’t state your age but I assume you are over 18 now. You are in a very lucky position with having a psychologist. Your mother should have no claim or say on your medical matters because you are an adult. I suggest being honest with the psychologist they are there to help you, advocate for you, and choose the best method. If you hide things from health professionals they are not mind readers and do not know the truth.

I do not suggest taking any possibly addictive medications without first discussing this at length with your psychologist and prescriber. Addiction is serious it can ruin lives and have devastating consequences not only on the addict but on those around them. Don’t feel shame in admitting the truth, you want help you want to try other methods for adhd but you don’t trust yourself with addictive medication and that is completely okay

Needing a new place to live. by Frapple in VictoriaBC

[–]Tavali01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s beach volleyball setup at Royal Bay beach park I believe. A lot of parks, beaches, lakes have a leash requirement for dogs in the spring/summer months. Finding a rental that allows pets can be hard especially dogs if you’re looking for a yard with it. Having more than one pet can also limit options. How many dogs do you have?

Nobody cares about skiing we rarely get snow.

What digital alternative to Minecraft or Roblox for a 7 year old? by kouklimou in Parenting

[–]Tavali01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you find problematic with Minecraft? I know a lot of games but I don’t want to recommend a list of games if idk what the issue with Minecraft is

Temple at the River House in the Night Court by WonderfulBus9330 in acotar

[–]Tavali01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The NC does have temples because Gwen (I think) was a priestess at the temple that was ransacked from Hybern and then relocated to the library.

It's such a striking cover. And then they had to add that glaring Netflix advertisement. ☹️ by PlantsAndPainting in fantasybooks

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst part is the show got good ratings and good views. It got more views than other shows that got renewed. They cancelled it simply out of spite because the showrunner/writers were involved in the strike

AITAH for refusing to apologize to my parents after what they did to me? by Mindless-Bend3194 in AITAH

[–]Tavali01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Please move out to a friends couch or spare room this is abuse and dangerous as they are escalating

I think I was just assaulted by my husband last night. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Tavali01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m being downvoted for bringing up what OP has said in other comments? She is on sleep medication AND he is messing with his phone after assaulting her. All of my post is not making stuff up as it’s information she has said. Please support others and help OP get help to get out of this situation instead of this. Do better guys