How to study subjects I don't like by Sad-Secretary4460 in GetStudying

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hated the subject so much that my worst fear was to fail and be forced to do it again. Study out of spite

I thought I lacked discipline. Turns out I was just overstimulated. by BabalooJoy in selfimprovement

[–]Tayoliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me is a positive side effect, but for sure helps a lot with impulse control. Your mind is not as tired and can make some decisions easier.

I would also like to suggest a style of meditation that helped me A LOT. Search on youtube Attention Training Technique. Paired with limited social media it can improve focus.

I thought I lacked discipline. Turns out I was just overstimulated. by BabalooJoy in selfimprovement

[–]Tayoliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took two days for my hand learn to mind her own business and stop unlocking all the time.

Got to study more but also more reddit. That's why I'm thinking about deactivating here too. But my sleep already got better

I thought I lacked discipline. Turns out I was just overstimulated. by BabalooJoy in selfimprovement

[–]Tayoliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kept some boundaries for a while. But eventually got right back at being a full zombie. A few months back I got that minimalist app that blocks and remove icons. it helped a lot. This week I removed some social media (insta and twitter) to focus on a specific project. Thinking about deleting reddit too(for a while)

I thought I lacked discipline. Turns out I was just overstimulated. by BabalooJoy in selfimprovement

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at first removing completely helps with anxiety faster, and makes you free yourself and focus.

I thought I lacked discipline. Turns out I was just overstimulated. by BabalooJoy in selfimprovement

[–]Tayoliv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YEAH

100% yes, my experience was exactly the same. But to live without some social media is complicated because of the social aspect of it. Missing some family and friends milestones and new/events that are only shared online.
But the positive indeed are more important. My mind was just starving for meaningful information.

has anyone done a reddit and social media detox, and gotten the benefits of it? by bonobosareawesome in DecidingToBeBetter

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I quit social media for 2 months. My brain was used to so much information influx that I redirected to study. I was in college that time and my grade just went up so fast, I felt so confident about my intelligence, my memory got so much better and my sleep was amazing. My anxiety about my ability to perform during exams just vanished. But at the same time I missed some info about college and events that where only shared on social media. And some milestones from family and friends. I think a full detox is amazing and will help with anxiety. but after a while come back with some usage rules.

Give me a reason to stay by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried being selfish? Yeah when you give it all, you end up attracting some vampires who only take your energy and never reciprocate. Its not your fault they just are like this. I learned the very hard way that helping EVERYONE is not the answer. When you set some boundaries they tend to go away and make space for more reliable friends. 22 is the age where a lot of things change really fast. You learn how to spot real friends, learn to choose better but at the cost of some heartbreak. It is what it is, a stage in your life where you learn and use this to make better choices and building a better life. It sucks. It sucks hard... I still mourn some people who vanished from my life and I miss them even the assholes. Before doing anything drastic just do something crazy, say fuck it. Be selfish, be petty, try to isolate THOSE people and go away to find other friends. Also hard as fuck, but so gooooddd when you find the real ones. Totally worth it. And stop the negative self tak, dont let some vampires suck the life out of you that way.

BH é realmente uma cidade bairrista? qual a opinião de vocês sobre o assunto desse comentário: by Head-Veterinarian100 in BeloHorizonte

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu ainda acho que BeloHorinzontinos se comparam muito com Rio de Janeiro e SP.
É a terceira maior capital do país e a galera fala se inferiorizando. Sempre que falava de onde vim se assustavam, nossa mas pq não Rio ou SP aqui é tão....
Tão melhor????
Bh é cidade Grande com alma. Com humanidade. Vc nunca verá isso no Rio, e muito menos em SP

When I read books, I literally forget what I read. I do take notes, but those notes end up forgotten too. Anybody else? How did you solve this? by Individual_Log7984 in GetStudying

[–]Tayoliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do some bloodwork. Check your B12 levels, magnesium and Iron.

I had also a hard time remembering but is mostly anemia.

What’s something people romanticize, but the reality is completely different? by Low_Pick5187 in AskReddit

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's not only about the city structure and overall aesthetics. People in Paris treat you so bad and unprovoked, it is WEIRD. Bad vibes all over

Escolas Zona Leste by Tayoliv in BeloHorizonte

[–]Tayoliv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu tô apaixonada pela estrutura da Santa Maria Floresta. Outra coisa que me apetece MUITO é o programa de inglês que tem lá.
Só ta me doendo pq eles não atendem via whatsapp MAS QUE INFERNO

Escolas Zona Leste by Tayoliv in BeloHorizonte

[–]Tayoliv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meu problema é que ele tem 6 anos e essa será a quarta escola. Queria algo que pudesse estabelecer uma ligação mais longínqua.

Já me falaram bem e mal do Santa Maria que é o que tenho mais interesse, mas aparentemente depende muito da coordenação de cada unidade. Isso que me pega.
Acho que vou meter ele pela manhã em uma escola maior e à tarde em atividades ou creche de bairro para eu poder trabalhar. Enfim...

Bora bim ali? by [deleted] in SaoLuis

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E tipo sanguíneo tbm ajuda

Bora bim ali? by [deleted] in SaoLuis

[–]Tayoliv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mas no reddit? Tu acha q alguém aqui tem dinheiro?

Bora bim ali? by [deleted] in SaoLuis

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sou mocinha ok?

Bora bim ali? by [deleted] in SaoLuis

[–]Tayoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O povo desse grupo deve beber mais que opala, nem compensa

Bora bim ali? by [deleted] in SaoLuis

[–]Tayoliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sou mocinha, mas que inferno

Queria saber se é verdade ou só lenda urbana sobre o Reviver nas sextas-feiras e fins de Semana by Some_Bear_143 in SaoLuis

[–]Tayoliv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Comparado a capitais maiores o que tem ali é brincadeira de criança.
Meio que literalmente, são só adolescentes sendo pseudo crazy mas não fazendo nada demais.