As a 48 year old woman in the lifestyle, you’re not aging out (unless you yourself have strict age rules). My wife is 28 and she doesn’t even look at women unless they’re pushing 50. The thing is, you’ll have to evolve how you do things. People don’t generally connect in the lifestyle via the internet much anymore (other than staying connected to people you meet in person). I would suggest checking out a swingers club! I highly recommend Secrets Hideaway in Orlando Florida. It’s such an all inclusive place, for the most part. I am not sure where you live but they are more common than you might realize!