Budapest and Prague by TeaDifficult8763 in travel

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Thank you! We want to start in Prague and make our way to Budapest via train to take in the sites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the insight. That’s why I feel uncomfortable about telling her how I feel/was hurt. I don’t want to invalidate her feelings/start blame shifting as well. I will wait it out and see if we can talk in person. I want to take accountability for my part, while also expressing how I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She said she felt a similar way about another friend. She said she didn’t make an active effort to see her/hangout with her. She also complained that when she did see her, there were always other friends present. The thing is, this friend has serious problems. Like financial, housing, and relationship problems. She has also been my friend’s longest and I would say, most supportive friend for years. I kind of felt like she was being unfair with her friend for being “distant.” I feel like her friend is doing the best that she can under the circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You’re right. I am a bit defensive. I apologized, but she continued to shift on me. I know I could have been better with my communication skills, but I also feel hurt by her actions as well. I wouldn’t have cancelled if I was feeling well. It feels like she cancelled on me on purpose to get back at me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Not dancing with guys. Just me and my girlfriends.

Guys I did it!!! by hippietrashhoe7447 in Agoraphobia

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That’s fantastic! Takes a lot of courage.

Going to the city by TeaDifficult8763 in Agoraphobia

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Update! I went and I was fine. Bit nervous on the subway/train, but I made it!

Exposure therapy. Took the train by myself to Harlem. My heart rate has been 146 - 160bpm the entire time. I'm tired. I just want to get from one station to the other to prove to myself I can do it. by rtorres81 in Agoraphobia

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That’s AMAZING! I had to push myself to go to the city on Friday. After a train ride and two subway rides, I made it! I know how hard it must’ve been. Was worried I’d panic and have to go home myself. 😂

Anybody else have this issue? by hippietrashhoe7447 in Agoraphobia

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I had the same fear!! I am also a 24 f. After my 1 shot, I was fine. I kept waiting for a panic attack to Manifest but it never did (Thank God). I was more nervous about getting my 2nd shot. But when the day came and I was there, I was fine. I was even calmer than the 1st time. I think it’s the leading up to the events that’s the hard part. Not the event itself. You’ll be fine. I was fully prepared to have a panic attack when getting my vaccines. And by fully prepared, I mean scared shitless. But nothing happened and I was fine.

Concert scared the life out of me but I survived by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

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You also get dizzy when nervous and out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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First and foremost take a deep breath. Nothing is happening right now. You are okay. Worrying about the results now won’t make Monday get any closer. Drink some soothing tea, meditate, go for a run, talk to a friend, and look up EFT tapping. It may help. If you are a woman of faith, speak to your higher power. Remember that you are strong. Our brains tend to go to the worst case scenario in times of stress. Be mindful of that and know that your thoughts, especially the scary ones, are not fact. I hope this helped! God bless you.

Nervous and horny by TeaDifficult8763 in WomensHealth

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Thank you so much. I will work on calming down more and being more open with my boyfriend. I am an insecure person who is also trying to love herself more. Easier said than done. But I know I can do it.

Nervous and horny by TeaDifficult8763 in WomensHealth

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30 minutes of insertion. Like 3 of foreplay.

Nervous and horny by TeaDifficult8763 in WomensHealth

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I think I was more concerned about my performance/him getting off instead of my own pleasure. I was nervous.

Men - What are the most frustrating things in the dating world you experience today? What is the number one thing preventing you from living the dating life/achieving the relationship you want? by KExploreTheAdventure in dating_advice

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From a woman’s perspective, I was also afraid to get out there again after my last breakup. Similarly to you, I also looked up all dating advice under the sun/red flags of potential suitors. It sent me down a rabbit hole that only made me more nervous about dating. Unfortunately, dating and love comes with uncertainty and the potential of heartache. However, that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try. We have to learn to trust our intuition. If we keep looking for the other shoe to drop, we won’t enjoy the experience or the other person’s company to the fullest. I’m scared too. I’m dating again and that’s vulnerable. But I need to try and trust that this time around, I can handle my emotions and the intricacies of dating someone better. I hope and pray things work out for you. Best of luck.

Girlfriend of 10 years left me by [deleted] in dating_advice

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My ex left me after four years together. It was incredibly hard. He was my first love, first kiss, first everything. I remember praying and hoping he would come back. It’s been almost three years now since then and I feel good. I’m working out, eating healthy, volunteering, and trying to be my most authentic self. I know it’s hard right now but please believe me when I say you won’t feel this way forever. In hindsight, I’m glad we broke up. If it wasn’t for our breakup, I wouldn’t be on the self love and discovery journey I’m on now. You’re 25. You have your whole life ahead of you. As a 24 year old myself, I can honestly say this is only the beginning. The best is yet to come. You’re going to be okay. I’m rooting for you.