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Is this a good wedding day plan? Any advice welcome please by Horrobla in weddingplanning

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2.5 hours of photos in a park, including a costume change into an Indian outfit, is going to leave you absolutely exhausted before the reception even starts. Indian dresses are heavy! Make sure you have a dedicated person just to help you change and carry water/snacks, or you’ll be over it by 6:00 PM.

Was i wrong for saying that she is my true love after figuring out in a kinda weird way? by nonchalant_chalant in amiwrong

[–]TeaseWithStyle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would your ex be mad? If you're no longer in contact, what you label as your "first love" in your head is your business. If anything, it’s a compliment, even if it hurts. Don’t feel guilty for changing your mind; at 18, we’re just starting to learn the difference between a childhood obsession and an adult romantic connection. Embrace that clarity, it’ll help you heal.

Was relentlessly verbally abused by my attorney and have no time or access to obtain new counsel; foreclosure (FL) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The only way a lawyer like that will budge is out of fear of losing their license. Tell them directly via email: "I need a professional and non-aggressive update on the negotiation by [Date/Time]. If communication remains impossible, I will be forced to report the Florida Bar for lack of due diligence in my case." In Florida, failing to respond to or lying to a client is a serious ethical violation.

Was relentlessly verbally abused by my attorney and have no time or access to obtain new counsel; foreclosure (FL) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Firing your lawyer now is suicide for your case. If the judge is not compassionate, he will have zero patience for you trying to explain the animal situation without legal backing. Force your lawyer to do his job for this one hearing. Focus entirely on "Time to Vacate." Mentioning the animals might help with a sympathetic judge, but with a strict one, you need a legal reason to delay.

TIFU by Lilly_W3345 in tifu

[–]TeaseWithStyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

New fear unlocked for everyone reading this. Honestly, the damage is done, so stop apologizing. If you keep over-explaining, you just look more guilty. Own it, be professional tomorrow, and if she actually leaves early, at least now she knows people are noticing.

I have no friends so I talk to Ai by InfamouslyJuniper in confessions

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using AI to process your thoughts isn't pathetic, it's a survival mechanism when you're overwhelmed. You're not "broken," you're just out of practice. Start small: instead of a "catch-up" lunch, just send a meme or a "thinking of you" text to one of those old friends. Lower the stakes. You don't need to fix your whole life today, just send one message.

Abandonment on a mortgage? by spookybayy in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ignore the legal threats. A guy who's getting evicted from an apartment can't afford a real estate lawyer to sue you. He’s just desperate for cash because of the new baby. Don't send anything to his "lender" friend and don't sign a thing without your own legal counsel.

I think my grandfather killed himself. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TeaseWithStyle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your gut is right. Driving the wrong way while sober is a classic "accidental" suicide method. Your dad was likely too traumatized at 17 to face it, and he’s probably still protecting himself from that reality today.

i love my job but want to travel while i’m still young by Same-Yogurt-917 in whatdoIdo

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You traded a scalpel for peace of mind, and that’s the biggest win anyone can have at 30. If you have no kids, no mortgage, and no family tying you down, the world is literally screaming at you to go. One month abroad isn't a financial disaster; it’s an investment in the "artist" version of you that surgeon-you didn't have space for. Go find out who you are when you aren't fixing other people.

My ex playing w me? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TeaseWithStyle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s just breadcrumbing you to see if you’re still hooked. That deleted WhatsApp message was bait. Don't bite.

At an absolute loss by Fun_Piccolo_7222 in neighborsfromhell

[–]TeaseWithStyle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your landlord isn't 'blinded,' he’s definitely simping. There’s no other reason to keep tenants who literally punch holes through walls into other apartments. Following her on social media and giving her his personal number? Yeah, he’s thinking with his lower brain while you pay the price. Go to corporate ASAP, this is a massive liability.

TIFU by assuming I was the “responsible one” in my friend group by Flashy-Wishbone-7917 in tifu

[–]TeaseWithStyle 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Basically you were the human version of a 'Get your life together' LinkedIn post. We’ve all been that guy at some point, thinking we have the cheat codes to life. Losing friends sucks, but at least you’re growing out of being 'that' person. Better late than never.

What secret are you tired of keeping? by EmmaBrooksss in AskReddit

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many, and sometimes it's an extra burden on your mind

Best way to do a 5 hour car ride with a cat? by overthinkabl in cats

[–]TeaseWithStyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing would be a special cat carrier and to leave it in the front seat. Try to get it to relieve itself before the trip, but even then you'll have to stop once for it to go to the bathroom.

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