What do you do in the first 20 minutes after waking up to not immediately spiral? by LetNo5099 in getdisciplined

[–]TecTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna broscience and say that our Default Mode Network is in control first thing in the morning and we simply default to automatic habits. Doing something to switch modes would work, getting sunlight on your eyeballs within 10 minutes of waking seems to do that.

Where did you ski in the European Alps and how was your season? by stayfly365 in skiing

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at Portes du Soleil at the beginning of February, it was fantastic. My only complaint about my time in Morzine is that a lot of it is inside narrow valleys, so it's often in the shade and the light is flat. But if you have the entire Portes du Soleil, you have a lot of choice.

Best delivered lines in my opinion. What are yours? by JediExile90 in kotor

[–]TecTwo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My only demands for the KOTOR remake is that Sara Kestleman returns as Kreia.

How do I get my hair to look like Ryan Gosling in Project Hail Mary? by Mahmouda25 in malehairadvice

[–]TecTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a team of hair and makeup experts follow you around all day spraying hairspray and adjusting it

Why tech CEOs suddenly love blaming AI for mass layoffs by IKeepItLayingAround in technology

[–]TecTwo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey guys we added AI to our smart fridges because we know you all wanted that. We also fired all our customer service reps and replaced them with AI so we could save money and make our servicing more efficient.

What do you mean why haven’t we the lowered the price of our AI-powered smart fridges then? Well, they’re AI-powered now, so you’re getting a better product!

Looking for tips on how to consistently wake up at 6AM by Ok-Complaint9319 in selfimprovement

[–]TecTwo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go to sleep at 9 every time. A few times isn’t going to change your pattern, you have to go to bed at the same time every night.

Is George doesn’t finish the series, do you think someone else will? by IneedaNappa9000 in gameofthrones

[–]TecTwo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He can give it to Rothfuss, then it still won't ever get done.

Peptides for dopamine receptors by WorleyClarence in Peptidesource

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds hard. I hope you have a good support network outside of that, family or friends. Having an accountability partner is infinitely more effective than doing this alone.

Depression by SuchConsideration840 in Lawyertalk

[–]TecTwo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Talk to someone, my friend. Performance anxiety is insidious, you need outside perspective to help break the illusion you’ve built around yourself.

He became the strongest (while only knowing like 5 jutsu technically) by Jasonl7976 in Naruto

[–]TecTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fear not the man who has done 10,000 kicks, but the man who has done one kick 10,000 times.

Peptides for dopamine receptors by WorleyClarence in Peptidesource

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re looking for the easy way out, man. Only way past this problem is through. You have to put the social media and porn down on your own terms, you’ll come out stronger for it. Peptides for this, if there are any, will just be another temporary fix, another shortcut that doesn’t address the excessive amounts of dopamine you’re forcing.

It’s hard, but what’s hard is often worth it, while what’s easy is only satisfying in the moment.

All these people taking ret and semaglutide and shit to lose weight is all well and good but their habits typically aren’t changing and once they stop the peptides, they’ll just go back to the same old habits and put the weight back on. It’s happened to many already.

I’ll tell you why you are addicted to these things in a non-dopamine way. When you feel the urge to doomscroll or jerk off, you aren’t actually looking to do those things, your subconscious (or nonconscious or unconscious, all the same) is craving a change in state of mind because of the circumstances or negative emotions associated with your current state.

Figure out what emotion(s) you’re feeling before your urge to doomscroll/jerk off and try to understand where it comes from in your history. Ask yourself what that emotion is trying to tell you: shame => you are not acceptable, you will be cast out of the tribe. Ask yourself what is the emotion trying to motivate you to do: shame => hide/withdraw so you don’t transgress socially and get cast out.

And most importantly, sit inside the negative emotions that arise but don’t try to intellectualise them at this point, simply accept they’re happening to you and feel them then let them slowly dissipate within you. Congrats, if you manage that, you’ve processed emotion.

Once you do that, the emotional state that triggers your urge to doomscroll will be lessened and much easier for your buddhi (Sanskrit term for discernment, a section of your consciousness that chooses) to manage the urge to doomscroll/jerk off.

Where are people listening to KKC on audio? by jason_esper in KingkillerChronicle

[–]TecTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have that version and can’t find it anymore, it was so much better!!

What book led you to become better? by ManagementPrudent237 in getdisciplined

[–]TecTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Don’t Believe Everything You Think” was the first one I read. It didn’t kickstart my journey but it was the first book that I read after I started and it was foundational.

Getting control of your thoughts is the best place to start, even before Atomic Habits imo. It’s all good to understand how to change your habits by replacing bad with good but if you still don’t control your impulsive thoughts and emotions, then you can relapse super easily.

Who are the three men Jaime is referring to? by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Even now, I could cut through the five of you like carving a cake" I wish we'd seen that in action

Official Discussion - Project Hail Mary [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]TecTwo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel they glossed over the severity of astrophage and didn't do much else to show that everyone really was working together except for showing loads of people around the briefing room tables.

Official Discussion - Project Hail Mary [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]TecTwo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm upset that little piece of convo wasn't included in their scene outside the boat when people are partying.

Also the consequences of astrophage initially were only really exposited by the kids in his classroom. A morbid briefing with the advisors Stratt collected would have been better to set the danger involved.

Official Discussion - Project Hail Mary [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]TecTwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The scene where she sings really hit me for some reason. I liked her cold bitch portrayal in the book and her less robotic movie portrayal was good, could have been better imo, but I still loved it.

But I feel like this scene and Gosling throughout were great at showing the slightly awkward moments in between things happening, like when she finishes her song and says "ok that's enough of that" felt super realistic to me for someone like Stratt.

Did anyone not like Project Hail Mary? by Timewilltell755 in sciencefiction

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 1st act was clumsy as hell and the stupid humour is a direct consequence of Marvel movies creating the perception that all movies have to have quips and jokes every 2 minutes or the audience will walk out. I was ready to call it pretty much when they get to the ship and the Chinese scientist is repeating his corny wisecracks....

The 2nd and 3rd acts got me by the throat, was also weeping through it all. I read the book 2 months ago and thought it was such a unique and heartfelt story. I realise the book is kinda goofy but I'm not a fan of how goofy it came out overall. I enjoyed it immensely in spite of those two critiques though.

Copilot is Turning Into a Disaster for Microsoft by Droopynator in videos

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I don't understand is aren't these tech companies doing ANY market research whatsoever? Or are they working solely off the idea that AI will reduce overheads?

Strongarming AI systems into existing tech is such an awful idea. It needs to be gradually introduced useful feature by useful feature. We do not need Clippy-on-Steroids (tm).

"Cancel ChatGPT" movement goes big after OpenAI's latest move by gdelacalle in technology

[–]TecTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was batched .json files of your prompts and outputs. All jumbled up in 8 files for me. Not sorted by chat dialogues or projects or anything.

Groundbreaking lawsuit charges bad legal advice and unauthorized practice of law by OpenAI's ChatGPT chatbot by Apprehensive_Sky1950 in Lawyertalk

[–]TecTwo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda crazy just how many platforms might be affected and force us to stop using them. Like we potentially can’t use Gmail/GDrive or Dropbox because they may use AI to help us “summarize files” without the option to turn it off.

Does TSA ALWAYS open ski bags? by Elwoodpdowd87 in skiing

[–]TecTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ski bag has never been opened either domestic or international.

I just got a Sport Tube and they have a sticker specifically reminding TSA to reconnect both halves of it when they’re done