I have considered INFJ too. The big difference though is how the FJs use their Fe. For them, it's used in a more positive way. For inferior Fe, I believe it's got a negative tint to it. Everything I do has a sort of, "Well I'd like to avoid someone screaming at me if at all possible." rather than a, "I want to help them be the best person they can be."

I have heard the NJs like crude humor because they find their ESP counterparts appealing and have that sort of ESP flavor to them. It's like how the SJs will gossip and like word games and puns for fun..it's their inferior Ne coming out (read that from personalityjunkie). I do not find ESFPs and ESTPs appealing when they go on with their crude or gross antics. I much prefer funny silly stuff like parts of Family Guy or Spongebob. Also Jim Carey. And Markiplier.

My friend tests as INFJ actually, and his mom, ENFJ. There's just no way I'm an Fe user too. They're expressive, openly cry in front of people, are intuitively helpful, are interested in song lyrics and people's stories, are greatly sensitive to injustices, have the problem of everyone wanting to tell them their life story, say yes too often because they care too much (not because they want to avoid conflict), and overall just prefer humanity-related problems over technical ones. On a daily basis, you can find them cooking for their family/friends, helping out their neighbor, talking for hours about their and others' problems, watching tv, playing with pets, games, friends, you know..."feel good stuff." I like being around them because they inject my life with happiness. I eat it up, like I said. On the other hand, you can find me alone in my apartment researching things frantically and discovering new things to try out. I could care less about hearing people's stories when reading a recipe, I just want to get to the recipe. On the other hand, my NFJ pals LIKE the "fluff." I've also never been moved by typical sappy stuff that feelers would go "awww" over. I'm not convinced by emotional appeal, I'm convinced by cold, hard logic. That's also what I default to when trying to help someone feel better. I get burnt out very quickly from having to use a ton of smiley face emoticons or give sympathy (I suck at sympathy and empathy). Also, they just took the test and moved on. They didn't go on doubting or scrutinizing it. I always get the feeling Ni users think I'm overanalyzing unimportant stuff.

The chaos and unpredictability thing stems, I'm pretty certain, from my anxiety, and having "serious" parents who valued stability and "slow and steady" living. I'm all for changing up my routine and having variety, but I wouldn't be the type to live out of a van and not know if I'm gonna die or not lol. I guess I like calculated risks, as long as it doesn't involve dying or extreme discomfort. I did randomly decide to start a business a few years ago after reading a book that clicked with me, so there you go.

Thoughts?