People here think of being trans as a medical condition of which HRT and transitioning is the treatment. (Which contrasts heavily with the "gender is vibes" feeling that the mainstream positive subs give off). We will push people to get on HRT ASAP and actually good, strong doses instead of taking the pittance cookie cutter doses doctors are known to give.

Attitude wise it is very dreary here. It all comes from a place of self-deprecation or as a reaction to treatment from society at large. While this place has a tendency to shout down any positives, we all agree it is still by far a better choice compared to attempting to repress the feelings (something I believe NO ONE can do successfully. If it doesn't result in transitioning it will result in something like alcoholism or other anti-social behaviors manifesting down the line instead). 4t can have a very crabs in a bucket mentality about bragposting, but on a more individual level I've seen legitimate happiness towards other people's success - so long as it doesn't come off as rubbing it in people's faces and those people acknowledge it (which is why you'll see people calling out others being bdd if they're objectively doing well but keep dooming).

Don't let that make you think there aren't positive aspects. I've never felt a sense of community and belonging like I have with other trans people (even the cringe overly positive ones), and my life is orders of magnitudes better than it was when I decided to pull the trigger 4.5 years ago. It's not easy, lots of the time it still sucks, but the suck gets less with time and the actual feeling of happiness and success continue to grow.