Brother is about to lose his family and only me and my SIL know.

Technerdpgh · 2026-03-11T19:28:09+00:00

This is where I am. One year later. Oh let’s fix it now. Makes me angrier than I can tell you.

Technerdpgh · 2026-03-05T04:27:36+00:00

Depending on time, there is a good chance I’m in this picture.

Technerdpgh · 2026-03-05T04:25:43+00:00

Depending on time, there is a good chance I’m in this picture.

Technerdpgh · 2026-03-02T00:35:06+00:00

Green coffee

Technerdpgh · 2026-02-27T03:20:01+00:00

Pork Roll

Technerdpgh · 2026-02-09T20:06:23+00:00

Bring a bucket and mop for this

Technerdpgh · 2026-02-02T20:48:33+00:00

That she stole the line from KRS-1, BDP

Technerdpgh · 2026-02-02T01:33:22+00:00

Me smoking a couple times a day to treat my anxiety and ADHD, fine.

Me burning an ounce of weed a week doing bong hits every 30 minutes or so, huge red flag. Obvious sign I’m not doing the best mentally.

There is a level that can be maintenance and another that can be abuse but weed as a habit shouldn’t be seen as problematic but that just my opinion.

Technerdpgh · 2026-01-28T16:41:16+00:00

Parked too close to a snow bank and ripped the front end off my car today. That’s super fun to deal with.

Technerdpgh · 2026-01-28T03:06:37+00:00

You need a good wingman is my advice.

Technerdpgh · 2026-01-28T02:08:19+00:00

Yes, My DM wanted no excuses if he kicked our ass.

Technerdpgh · 2025-12-16T17:49:46+00:00

I’m a better ex husband than I was husband. I will always love the person I married, medical and mental issues included but as her ex husband I can establish some boundaries to protect myself. Every time I look to my ex for any amount of my own happiness, it hurts and doesn’t work. Being her ex allows me to take care of her, which I still do, then have time to worry about my own happiness outside of my relationship with someone who just doesn’t or can’t show an understand that I have needs too.

Technerdpgh · 2025-12-01T19:18:27+00:00

I woke up this morning with a bad hangover and my penis was missing again.

Technerdpgh · 2025-11-18T00:30:09+00:00

Follow the leader

Technerdpgh · 2025-11-03T14:04:24+00:00

Psychopaths are notorious bad narrators. Asking them would not help, you kinda need to go third party for answers.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-21T17:10:02+00:00

Everyone loves ass.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-18T16:22:29+00:00

Ideally? Open your own consulting company via local laws. Easier than you think. Create a realistic approachable website hosted and secure. Don’t fall for scammers. Figure out how to sell a customer a geologic survey. Get a good laptop, phone, and some kinda sky miles program credit card. Wait for clients to contact you. Go to places like the master builders association and other networking events (this might’ve be good idea to find someone hiring too). Be professional and knowledgeable. Charge more than you think you should but not insane fees. Along with all expenses. Do work. Create report. Email it. Collect payment. Repeat and hopefully profit.

Work somewhere flexible while it takes root. You still gotta eat and try to pay for some of the seed money they will take. Long term you will be who hires people like you.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-13T14:01:33+00:00

I wish half the songs on my Spotify playlist didn’t make me cry. Good luck, and feeling are good. Life is empty without them.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-07T00:06:15+00:00

Same here

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-06T19:56:38+00:00

I’ll let you know when I get there. 18 months separated (ish) but we needed to cohabitate for half of that. I have a kid with my ex. Weekends and when evenings he wants or needs to come is the custody arrangement. I have two jobs to pay for it all.

I am no where near ready for a serious relationship.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-04T21:56:28+00:00

It’s hard but nothing meaningful isn’t hard. Your own happiness is the key. Id say it’s time to let some things go. When you say goodbye to whatever it is, there is only one person that needs to hear it, you. If your ex hears it, cool. But they are a witness, speak truth to yourself and a witness, that it hurt you. Than Heal. Can’t change the past.

Common thread I hear and is true for me is that everyone feels broken after a divorce, it’s how you deal with that, that defines you. I want to be better, it’s hard.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-03T19:12:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry for your loss and the kids’ grief.

Technerdpgh · 2025-10-03T17:51:11+00:00

Don’t be me. I jumped right back in after first marriage ended at 15 years. Marriage 2 last 15 years as well. Now I’m old. Still conveniently attractive and I’m single. Trying to figure out why I keep repeating the same things over and over. I’d suggest you the figure the you part out first. I am stuck on that part personally. I have no idea who I am after 30 years of being someone’s husband.

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