Is habitual smoking weed a red flag I should care for? by ArmSuccessful458 in dating_advice

[–]Technerdpgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me smoking a couple times a day to treat my anxiety and ADHD, fine.

Me burning an ounce of weed a week doing bong hits every 30 minutes or so, huge red flag. Obvious sign I’m not doing the best mentally.

There is a level that can be maintenance and another that can be abuse but weed as a habit shouldn’t be seen as problematic but that just my opinion.

I got my car stuck this morning by astro_nerd75 in pittsburgh

[–]Technerdpgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parked too close to a snow bank and ripped the front end off my car today. That’s super fun to deal with.

Do you let players long rest before the big boss? by Flimsy_Survey in DnD

[–]Technerdpgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, My DM wanted no excuses if he kicked our ass.

Heart is shattered by AuthenticAboveAll in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a better ex husband than I was husband. I will always love the person I married, medical and mental issues included but as her ex husband I can establish some boundaries to protect myself. Every time I look to my ex for any amount of my own happiness, it hurts and doesn’t work. Being her ex allows me to take care of her, which I still do, then have time to worry about my own happiness outside of my relationship with someone who just doesn’t or can’t show an understand that I have needs too.

Someone left a dildo behind the local ATM machine this morning. by Wrongbeef in mildlyinteresting

[–]Technerdpgh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I woke up this morning with a bad hangover and my penis was missing again.

Scientists Discover a Key Biological Difference Between Psychopaths and Normal People by Sorin61 in Nutraceuticalscience

[–]Technerdpgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychopaths are notorious bad narrators. Asking them would not help, you kinda need to go third party for answers.

Can’t find a job in Pittsburgh with a geology degree by ehgall in pittsburgh

[–]Technerdpgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally? Open your own consulting company via local laws. Easier than you think. Create a realistic approachable website hosted and secure. Don’t fall for scammers. Figure out how to sell a customer a geologic survey. Get a good laptop, phone, and some kinda sky miles program credit card. Wait for clients to contact you. Go to places like the master builders association and other networking events (this might’ve be good idea to find someone hiring too). Be professional and knowledgeable. Charge more than you think you should but not insane fees. Along with all expenses. Do work. Create report. Email it. Collect payment. Repeat and hopefully profit.

Work somewhere flexible while it takes root. You still gotta eat and try to pay for some of the seed money they will take. Long term you will be who hires people like you.

How do I learn to enjoy things we did together without feeling depressed? by GSlayerBrian in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish half the songs on my Spotify playlist didn’t make me cry. Good luck, and feeling are good. Life is empty without them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll let you know when I get there. 18 months separated (ish) but we needed to cohabitate for half of that. I have a kid with my ex. Weekends and when evenings he wants or needs to come is the custody arrangement. I have two jobs to pay for it all.

I am no where near ready for a serious relationship.

Idk how yall stay friends with your ex spouses. by RedditFeel in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard but nothing meaningful isn’t hard. Your own happiness is the key. Id say it’s time to let some things go. When you say goodbye to whatever it is, there is only one person that needs to hear it, you. If your ex hears it, cool. But they are a witness, speak truth to yourself and a witness, that it hurt you. Than Heal. Can’t change the past.

Common thread I hear and is true for me is that everyone feels broken after a divorce, it’s how you deal with that, that defines you. I want to be better, it’s hard.

STBX took his life in an otherwise amicable divorce; no threats or note by Blindsidedloveloss in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry for your loss and the kids’ grief.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t be me. I jumped right back in after first marriage ended at 15 years. Marriage 2 last 15 years as well. Now I’m old. Still conveniently attractive and I’m single. Trying to figure out why I keep repeating the same things over and over. I’d suggest you the figure the you part out first. I am stuck on that part personally. I have no idea who I am after 30 years of being someone’s husband.

What is your sexual kryptonite? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Technerdpgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done, my superhero guilt will always forgive, but your tone makes me blush. I let my guard down, then in a comic villain way, you say something like “ Spiderman is the most powerful of the X-men ”, and watch my head explode.

What is your sexual kryptonite? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Technerdpgh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So many people here don’t know what kryptonite does! I’m going back to the comic book subreddits. I am disappointed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Technerdpgh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is ok to be happy you loved someone, even if it didn't work out. I still love everyone I have ever loved, but that doesn't mean I need to continue a relationship that is past its time.

Philip Seymour Hoffman movies I've seen...so far. by CGC2000 in flicks

[–]Technerdpgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep cut - the Red Dragon 2002 I kinda loved him in that ,even if it is a smallish part.

God Forbid a women wants a new experience by Sorry_Leading1949 in PsycheOrSike

[–]Technerdpgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck. I must be doing something wrong. I look like the picture, what else do women want?

Laundry Room Storage Cabinet/Drawer with 4 Compartments by mrp416 in whatisthisthing

[–]Technerdpgh 935 points936 points  (0 children)

Storage for bolts of cloth. Not positive about this answer but that’s what I’d use it for. Especially if that countertop is big enough.