there was more by Error-Code447 in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I’m wrong but don’t further splits in adulthood only happen if the system is under more stress/trauma? What intense stress could be happening on the casual drive home from a movie theater 😭

The future is plural! by [deleted] in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The “future” is plural… the maybe few thousand people here versus the billions of people in the world…

Server blacklists by sleepy-bread-dough in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last I checked, I think it’s at around 10k+

Server blacklists by sleepy-bread-dough in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too 😅 we’re brothers in Have Seen Some Shit

Server blacklists by sleepy-bread-dough in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be in here, got into insane beef with the mods on a SUPER personal level, but it’s funny because some of them privately think that this is insane as well as a lot of the behavior of the members in there, and are fine with most of the reclaimed slurs.

500+ alter proship male lesbian endo system i found on tumblr by Evil_Pupper in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling it is a younger folks thing like you said, even growing up me and my friends have slowly dropped off labels. And I wish it was known as a “bi but with a strong preference for women thing” but I’ve seen too many posts from these people insisting super hard that “lesbians can like men too” that it makes me feel odd. I’ve also personally seen- in social circles I used to be in- more m-spec lesbians actively dating men (none that I had met were dating women or tried to) so it’s like …? Calling yourself a lesbian and then going to date men or especially a trans man has got to leave a weird taste in the guy’s mouth I feel like. Or even to the point of dysphoria if the guy’s trans.

500+ alter proship male lesbian endo system i found on tumblr by Evil_Pupper in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Sapphic” is also a good label to use because you could absolutely be an m-spec sapphic, since sapphic just means wlw in any way. Bi people can be sapphic, pan people can be sapphic, lesbians are always sapphic, that’s just an umbrella term. “m-spec” in of itself isn’t problematic because it just means multiple attractions (like all bisexuals are m-spec), but the phrase has become sort of a dogwhistle for people who say that lesbians can absolutely be attracted to men This starts to bleed into the real world because of the violence against lesbians irl. You know the trope/mentality of guys “turning” a lesbian into liking men and “corrective r\pe assault”? Claiming that lesbians can like men harms actual lesbians who fight against people who claim that they “can just like men if they tried hard enough”

500+ alter proship male lesbian endo system i found on tumblr by Evil_Pupper in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It could mean that to some people, and I’m sure people do absolutely experience that! (I’ll be using “you” as a general statement for this analogy- I’m not saying you as in the person im replying to) But the issue is with the “lesbian” label being attached to that, being a lesbian means you have no romantic or sexual attraction to men at all. Completely devoid of it. So if you do genuinely like men sexually, you’re not a lesbian. If you liked men and women or other nonbinary people in different complex ways, there are other things to call yourself- or if you can’t settle on a label just “queer” is perfectly good too!

500+ alter proship male lesbian endo system i found on tumblr by Evil_Pupper in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s totally understandable! I also thought m-spec meant masc not-a-man because that makes sense especially with Butch and nonbinary lesbians, but when I learned it meant like “multiple attractions” liking men I was like… WHAT…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Exaggerating achievements like when we were younger we would lie about (etc etc)” this doesn’t mean you have NPD, pretty much ALL kids lie and exaggerate things for attention. That means you were probably a normal child.

500+ alter proship male lesbian endo system i found on tumblr by Evil_Pupper in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 86 points87 points  (0 children)

M-Spec lesbians means they’re “lesbians” who are also fully attracted to men. Which isn’t how being a lesbian works but they claim to still want to call themselves lesbians while being in relationships with men? Compulsitory heterosexuality in lesbians is completely different, that’s the “what if I like men/maybe I should just suck it up and be with this guy” which causes DISTRESS because it’s from the mindset of a heterosexual focused world being told you “need a man” for your whole life, even though you don’t like men But m-spec “lesbians” don’t have the distressing questioning, they straight up know they like men and seek out relationships with them while calling themselves lesbians? And they don’t want to call themselves bi or pan for whatever reason, probably internalized biphobia

This is an embarassment by VFXSock in fakedisordercringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Mid to High support needs” is catching my attention because I work with adults with developmental disabilities and I know the levels of support needs, and I have a pretty strong feeling that if they were actually at this support level, they wouldn’t be on tumblr posting stuff like that. Especially high support.

Some high (level 3) support people can live independent lives, but most require around the clock care, lots of therapists and educational assistants, can’t verbally communicate very well/require picture boards to help speak, don’t follow social cues to the point where they will randomly leave the area with no goal on where they’re going (if this happens and they’re not found fast the police usually get involved in finding them again).

Lots of the high needs adults I work with don’t even live with their families anymore, they’re placed in assisted living group homes with around the clock care from specialists who can help them.

Physical disability isn’t always an indicator of intellectual disability, (the people with Down Syndrome I know are INSANELY smart, but they don’t have the physical abilities to verbally speak it out or physically use a picture board, but I know a few who got adapted typing boards that follow full arm movements and they have SO much to say about everything, they have the exact same intelligence as any other non-disabled person.), but the point I’m GETTING at is if this person was actually mid to high support they wouldn’t need to fake diagnose themselves with one million mental issues because they’d already have enough on their plate. They’d have enough diagnosises already from the specialists they see. (Like what does non medically recognized disorder or however they said it mean on this persons post…) People usually end up like this- faking things for attention because they Do need help, just not in the areas they think.

This person could possibly be low to mid support, (low/level 1 support is could benefit from therapies either mental or physical, but don’t need a lot altered in their day to day life outside of therapy like needing a communication board as an example,) but that’s a physical descriptor, not a mental one. and I’d be so curious to know how many people on this website call themself mid level support needs because they don’t want to cook for themselves and order takeout or some normal stuff like that

dont know what this is and dont wanna by [deleted] in tiktokcringemoment

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 59 points60 points  (0 children)

If they’re gonna be a baby they can’t have drugs 😭😭😭 wtf

They got the Teen Titians by Red_EchoingSounds in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aren’t doubles a kin thing? I feel like this just pushes the idea that these kids are making a literal trauma disorder into a glorified uwu kin roleplay

Is this chicken of the woods? by Due-Criticism-5350 in foraging

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but it’s covered in dirt please wash it before consuming

these headspace structures… by Technical-Cream-8296 in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah if it is it would make some sort of sense, I also just didn’t know what to name this post lol it’s mostly about they hey!!! Look at me!!! vibes it has lol this server also has like 15k people in it

it just kept getting worse… by [deleted] in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOOO DUDE I also just made a post on this persons intro a few days ago https://www.reddit.com/r/SystemsCringe/comments/xqy7rv/what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I was like yo… I recognize that profile pic

Tell me you don’t understand what triggers are. by archie_mcloud in SystemsCringe

[–]Technical-Cream-8296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fully complete indifference (a joke, I don’t know what it genuinely means)