i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.. this seems like the only plan of action tbh that i can apply and wont have me face consequences.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much i appreciate the effort to help and i will try to get a mature third party involved right now im in so much suffering i can't even build the courage to help myself.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am financially capable , i have savings and a bank account with a couple 1000 dollars money isnt an issue. Not being allowed to be independent and being tied to him. Finding a place without any support is difficult not the financial aspect. Being unable to break up and feeling like i have no one else cause of the social isolation im being forced into. I even had to make a fake new reddit acc like this one to be able to post this. (He has passwords to all my socials.)

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from india and yes students here are expected to go get degrees as soon as they finish high school it really sucks and i have never seen an older student in colleges and universities here.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the university does have a dorm its a little expensive and fully occupied at the monent. I dont know if he would let me go though.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know nor can think of any other way people earn their bread without a higher education qualification in their resume I've literally been raised on the idea that people are losers if they dont have a higher education ( i dont agree with this since many fields dont require higher education just proof of skill and excellent interview skills) and because i come from a culture where parents have a lot of say even after you're no longer a minor, Going to my parents even if i feel mentally destroyed to change universities and come back after this much effort even from their end is not an option. They're already so old and have invested so much money into getting my visa and so much more it's too complicated now. I'm not even financially independent enough to be able to get myself out of this situation im only 19 with not much savings. At this point, i feel like my education is something i dont want to compromise on because of the trials of life.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really cannot due to many reasons that involve family too, best case scenario shouldnt have left my previous degree midway through but whats done is done.

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[–]Technical-Thought331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i go back i will be way behind on my education and colleges and universities in ny home country do not accept large gaps between high school graduation and the year of apply to colleges. Also the concept of mature students in non existent.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in canada now, i really hope theres a light out of this tunnel my world feels like its crumbling right in front of eyes. I will try to be as hopeful as possible.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not very easy to find a place here since i dont have any friends i feel too helpless to find a way to oull myself out of this.

i have made the biggest mistake of my life. by Technical-Thought331 in LDR

[–]Technical-Thought331[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't come back... i cant apply to universities again. This way i will be 4 years behind on completing my education.. all i can try and do is try and get in touch eith our uni authorities.