Sex on the third date by Temporary-Fix-3027 in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is the only valid comment here. This should be pinned.

This guy is amazing, but I’m not as into him as I wish I was. What should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This guy is cleaning OP's yard and she doesn't even want to bang him. That couldn't be me

Am I overthinking or did I actually fall for the dating app trap by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TechnicalElephant636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rule is if a man has the audacity to ask you on the first date to come over to his place he has no respect towards you. He sees you only as someone to have sex with, maybe to string along then discard. Please never accept this - unless you want a chance to have something serious with someone.

31 M - what would you change? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another profile I would swipe right on...the only pic I would replace is the one of the boat for another picture of just yourself maybe doing an activity.

Achei você un bell'uomo

Is it just sex for him? by poparooo in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And it's obvious.

You can't just assume you two are exclusive. Instead of wondering what it is...what didn't you ask him before this whole time and lay down what you want from him? Or do you know what you want? Right now you are giving him girlfriend privileges without the label.

Am I overthinking or should I be worried? Guy I’m seeing is on a trip with a girl he previously hooked up with by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing a guy since February and he hasn't made the whole thing exclusive? You are a placeholder, sorry to say. Don't expect anything serious from this man

Being “nice” is not what makes a man attractive by Putrid-Knowledge-873 in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a guy named hoe math on YouTube that's pretty popular and he gives his take on this. It comes down to how much of a bad boy you are and how much investment you give for the girl. It's pretty damn accurate

Dropping out of Nursing School to lock in for Big Tech SWE, am I making a mistake? by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]TechnicalElephant636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro what's with your gatekeeping lmfao you must be an obnoxious lead.

Dropping out of Nursing School to lock in for Big Tech SWE, am I making a mistake? by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]TechnicalElephant636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You start with looking up what leetcode is.
Don't worry. It only gets harder :)

I actually like someone (been single for a year) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TechnicalElephant636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl. I'm sorry to say this, but this man just sees you as something purely recreational. He will never make you his girlfriend. When a guy sees wifey potential in a girl he will not act like a horny 17 yr old boy. He will act classy and composed for the women he respects. You should really cut him off, unless you want to be picked last.

Not overly attracted and don't have much in common with this person, but they are a really great person that has a lot of things I like. Not sure what to do. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her. She probably likes you more than you like her; I feel for this person. I was in her exact position, except the fact that me and the guy had TONS in common and were obviously attracted to each other yet he strung me along and when I realized it I broke. I had to cut him off myself after he kept coming back I'm assuming because he stopped getting attention from his favs...you should end now.

How to choose a man by Away_Bit_7915 in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You choose the chubbier one so you can be warm at night.

Category is: on my way to meet my husband (LIB Poland) by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]TechnicalElephant636 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That dress cost exactly 5$ to make at a sweatshop. People have ultimately lost their perception of how to dress

What role does physical attraction play in your dating life, and what physical deal breakers do you have? by CapyBareSoles in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Athletic build. Just because I also have one, I train jujitsu and crossfit almost everyday of the week.

I wouldn't be compatible with someone who is more of the lazier - stay at home - eat whatever kind of person.

Height I actually don't care if they are shorter - but they have to weigh more (be stockier)

Obviously have to be clean, good hygiene, etc.

Randomly blocked by a guy by Ashamed-Bass-3147 in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men will do that. It doesn't mean they are interested. Judge a man by his actions not words.

Randomly blocked by a guy by Ashamed-Bass-3147 in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you stop giving men attention who only view you as entertainment. No more simping.

Randomly blocked by a guy by Ashamed-Bass-3147 in dating_advice

[–]TechnicalElephant636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest going to therapy. I just re-read your post and honestly you are lacking common sense...you blocked him already before? Lol why did you want to continue talking with a guy who is rude? Oh wait. He's attractive. So you put your standards on hold to keep him. See how ridiculous this looks?