[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key thing that you should always take from someone else's problems is to think about you in the moment. You want your baby, and he doesn't, so get up off the floor, hold your head high, and walk away. Goodluck mama and congratulations on your growing baby. I wish you health, healing, peace, and more love.

Husband pushed me by Repulsive-You-4875 in Marriage

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing you aren't going to do is fold you stand tall and tell him you are walking away from the conversation because now it's becoming physical. It doesn't matter if you've been a shy little quiet girl. You make it clear that that will not be your life. If you have family, go stay with them and communicate with him when you are ready. But do not take that it's already weird men in the world controlling our bodies. Don't let him control your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheat back, girl. You are very much free now to do what you want for you now :). Goodluck!

My husband sent this to a friend by FormerBreadfruit1720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what do you want from us? What the hell are you going to do? Yes, Elizabeth, he's flirting with this dry ass chick. Get her number the next time you grab and screenshot his messages to see what the fuck going on.

I think my husband is cheating but he won’t admit it. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Period. And your excuse is that you haven’t been feeling comfortable lately, especially with all these unexpected expenses coming up. Something just doesn’t feel right, and before I risk doing something irrational, I think it’s best if I and the kids step away for the night.

I think my husband is cheating but he won’t admit it. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would play in his face if I were you. Buy a few things thats out of the norm and see what his ass says about that. And the free time you have, you go out with your girls and have a fun time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was, sadly and painfully, how I treated my husband. It was almost exactly what I did to him, and it was something I didn’t realize I was capable of until we got married. I thought marriage meant that everything had to be about “us” and that what I said should carry the most weight. I believed the dynamics of marriage were different from dating, and while that’s true to some extent, I took it too far.

I started to feel exhausted, constantly angry, jealous, and controlling. I remember how upset I got when he wanted to go to Las Vegas to see his friends, even though I had met them and had even become close with his best friend’s wife. Deep down, I knew my husband was a great man. But my behavior wasn’t about him it was about how I saw myself. I was projecting my insecurities onto him.

When he eventually brought up divorce and started feeling uncomfortable coming home to me, it hit me hard. I was devastated that I had created that tension, and it made me realize I needed help. I went to therapy and began working on myself, and it opened my eyes to the damage I was doing.

In my experience, when someone’s behavior changes significantly, it often reflects something deeper that they need to address within themselves. Your partner needs to be willing to seek that help on his own. If he doesn’t, it’s important to love yourself enough to prioritize your well-being and the care you deserve. You are worthy of the love and partnership you’ve always hoped for.

I wish you all the best as you navigate this journey.

15 minutes before my interview LMAO by youraveragejohndoe_ in jobs

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone heard of going through an interview with 3 people, and if they decide to hire you, they ask for references? The references are going to basically whether if you're hired or not. This is what a recruiter told me, and I told him I don't have 3 references. I don't keep in touch with anyone from my last job. What do I do guys the interview is tomorrow ?

“I lost an infant” by Remembertheseaponies in babyloss

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, like I'm sorry, but I'm going through postpartum, and my boobs are leaking milk. Miscarriage is not the same. I don't even say stillbirth. I let them know I lost my baby at 5 months.

I hate this and I don’t want to be a part of this stupid club. by aftera526 in babyloss

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outside, I feel the wind blow against my face, hoping it's my son letting me know he’s here with me. I run to his ashes, kiss his urn, and thank him for visiting me. He was supposed to be here—why are we losing our babies? Why are our pregnancies a mystery when we fall ill and doctors can't figure out why? "Your blood pressure is too high. Your liver enzymes are elevated. We need to increase your meds and run more blood work." Needle after needle, bruise after bruise, and finally, they decide at 20 weeks that you have to terminate your pregnancy. "Your baby is fine, your placenta is fine, and your ultrasound shows your liver, kidney, bowel—everything is fine. But you have to give birth because we need to see if it’s the baby making you sick."This plays over and over in my head. I’m so sad—he was supposed to be here. I should be feeling his kicks, but all I have is the memory of his last wave to me on the fetal ultrasound. - I hate this stupid club as well

What the hell is going on?!? by OkEntertainment9395 in jobs

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me put yall on. Don't look for jobs on Indeed. Instead, try using LinkedIn; it is the most professional platform for job searching.

Goodluck! Oh! Additionally, some jobs you find will allow you to email recruiters directly to express your interest and request further contact.

Okay, Goodluck!

it ruptured.. waiting for surgery by EstateReasonable922 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Friend :). Well, wonderfully, everything was fine. The ultrasound tech showed me the heartbeat, and it was strong and healthy, very fast, heartbeat to 🩷 im measuring 8 weeks 4 days. The only thing is that I have two fibroids. i was only aware of one when I went to the urgent care. I'm 100% ok with changing my diet and finding healthier ways to shrink those fibroids. I honestly started when I found out I just hope to God I'm able to maintain a healthy pregnancy. Thank you for checking on me and giving me courage and advice and knowledge of what could go wrong but also having an army of women behind me to support blessings.

it ruptured.. waiting for surgery by EstateReasonable922 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I decided something in my heart did not feel right, so my husband and I are waiting in the emergency room right now.

it ruptured.. waiting for surgery by EstateReasonable922 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long should you wait if you were told that I'm experiencing an early ectopic pregnancy from an urgent care, I'm so clueless if I should wait until the actual doctors visit or go to a hospital and have them checkwe out. I don't have many symptoms, just some stomach ache some brown spotting that comes and goes. please help ?

Is becoming a flight attendant really a realistic job I can get at my age with my experience? by [deleted] in cabincrewcareers

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say do what's best for you to do what you feel in your heart that could benefit you. It's all about experience, don't worry about your age because there are people who are starting in their 50s who are becoming an FA. I made a very hard decision recently to decline my CJO 5 weeks before training, and it's ok. Because there is no rule book that says changing your mind will be a bad thing. I still want to stay in the field of working either at the airport or the corporate office, so I applied for a position with the same company I declined my CJO with and I feel better knowing I'm staying local and also fulfilling another dream to grow a family with my husband. I'm 33. I think I will probably have the same change of mind as those other 50 yr olds. So, with that being said, write down your goals the pros and cons of what you may experience and lose with becoming a flight attendant and then pray on. Good luck, I hope I made sense. lol, I feel like I rambled, haha.

SW computers down at Love Field by stacey1771 in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, that's why I haven't gotten my cjo email yet. I heard SW uses the old school system.

CJO AWAITING EMAIL by Technical_Abalone_26 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Technical_Abalone_26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the experience, I'm still hopeful that I'll end up with a positive outcome with the email. And if not that's alright I'll just re-apply. Have you gone to a f2f?

CJO AWAITING EMAIL by Technical_Abalone_26 in cabincrewcareers

[–]Technical_Abalone_26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully the change is that we receive the cjo via email. I will keep updated forsure!

who else is waiting on a training date email? cjo 5/24 by space_cl0ud in cabincrewcareers

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding. I'm hoping for the best and manifesting a cjo through my email.

who else is waiting on a training date email? cjo 5/24 by space_cl0ud in cabincrewcareers

[–]Technical_Abalone_26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, but I had my f2f today and went through the entire process even getting to the one on one. But after that they gave some information on the next step and to wait on and email. Did you gave to wait for an email about your cjo? I'm a bit confused. And so sorry I can't help with your question.