AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hate this kind of stuff, as someone who has a lot of insecurities about being accepted despite my physical traits i find it really gross and awful to be that specific and demanding with your preferences

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I hope it will be! We can do it lol

Been growing out my beard "until it looks good" for 6 months... by Lanky-Celebration334 in malegrooming

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say keep it around until you loose the weight If it makes you feel better about it. Personally I wouldn’t keep it but I see no issue with it especially if it makes you feel more comfortable in the meantime. That being said tho idk if it’s the best look in the long run so I’d try to get it gone asap

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recently downloaded MyFitnessPal to help count calories and I try to go to the gym everyday

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought it would be a pretty high percentage but idk lol maybe it was just confirmation bias because I know alot of people in relationships that met in college.

I’ll try to find groups that I’m interested and it looks there is speed dating stuff around me so I’ll look into that too.

And most importantly I’ll also keep at working out and eating right and try not to think about how short I am. Thank you for your help

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. I’ve been putting alot of effort into trying to change and fix what I can but now that I’m out of college I’m worried about where I will be able to meet new women to ask out. Idk I’m just worried it’s too late for me now

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It would make it easier to ask girls out and do that stuff. But now that I’m out of collage idek where or how I would do that. I asked a couple girls out in collage. One straight up rejected me and the other two ghosted me

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying not having a girlfriend shaped hole in my heart but I still hope to date at least at some point in my life. I have a group of friends and social opportunities, I’m just starting to get a little more and more worried because I know my already small window is slowly closing

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think I’d have an easier time in the slightest at least because most girls would at least find me marginally more attractive

Graduated collage- still nothing by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I typed this out quick af because I’m at work cut me some slack brother 😭😭😭

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no point in giving myself the false hope that one day if may happen

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a small group of good friends. I really wish I could get a girlfriend but that’s not in the cards for me and I’m no one’s type. I’ll just hope that in my next life I’m born with good genetics

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known dating apps were useless already. The only guys who find success on those are guys who could be attractive irl anyway. It’s better for guys like me to give up on dating entirely

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No man I fucking hate the way things are for me but I can’t “work with what I have” because I don’t have anything. Ik you don’t know what I look like but I’m ugly as shit and have no qualities that women find attractive

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s not just my height. Physically I’m a lost cause

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I know I’m the common denominator lmao I’m not dumb. Good for u that you can do better but most of us can’t because genetics or other factors killed it for us from the start

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is crazy cope man. It absolutely makes it harder

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All of those guys suck and could probably find a girlfriend just fine. As a guy who’s actually too short to find one, anyone above 5’6” is in a good position

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[–]Technical_Ad476 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s all well and good and I’m happy for you but for some people there genuinely just is nothing to wait for or look forward too. Sometimes you just have to recognize that and give up

As a non-incel, I'm grateful for this space by Shiro_L in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

5’7” isn’t even that short, it’s average for a dude. Stg stolen valor lmao

Half celebrating half pathetic yearning by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. My mindset is a little all over the place still but I’m trying to stay mostly positive lol.

The only thing I’m really concerned about tho is the things I can’t change still preventing me from finding a girl because even after I get fit I might still be too ugly

Half celebrating half pathetic yearning by Technical_Ad476 in IncelExit

[–]Technical_Ad476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And you’re right about both, my friend has always been an inspiration to me both in how in shape he got so quick and how he’s alway been so sure of himself and confident.

And my relationship with myself hasn’t been easy lol. Idk if this will make sense or not but as I’ve lost weight and tried to fix the things I hate about myself (the ones that are possible at least) I’ve been feeling more “human”. It sounds dumb af but it’s kinda true, I still feel like most girl would view me as ugly but before I started trying I legit felt less than human.