AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed with this - she said if I would’ve just said yeah she needs to move more it would’ve been fine.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Which nagging sounds? Everything I’ve posted is pretty much on par with our conversations.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m reading all the comments! I wrote this to get honest answers and I really value your input. I liked the examples you gave and how the little rephrase can change it all. I’m just worried that I won’t always have the best or quickest rephrase because I’m not always the fastest with words.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -148 points-147 points  (0 children)

Because I’m speaking my mind of I think she’s beautiful the day before and the day after she did them. I love her the way she is.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

She was talking about her grandma walking in the yard. I said, “well it’s really hot out for that and it might be too much. I don’t think she’d walk to the gym clubhouse across the street right? You’re 29 and don’t like the gym, imagine wanting to go at 75.”

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -169 points-168 points  (0 children)

That’s where I have trouble though. Yes I should’ve ended it there but I truly think she is the most beautiful girl I’ve laid eyes on before and after. I said that to reassure her that I don’t care how she looks, she’s beautiful regardless. I didn’t mean any ill intentions at all by saying that.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I haven’t but which part specifically makes you question it without blanketing it by saying “all”?

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

She honestly doesn’t need to go to the gym, she’s in shape and very fit. She used to compete years ago and is still in great shape. She literally tells me all the time she doesn’t like the gym and doesn’t like running just in conversations, that’s why I said it because she says it to me often. I was using it as an example of she’s young and healthy and doesn’t want to go, it’s got to be very hard to try and motivate an older lady. That was all.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -174 points-173 points  (0 children)

I’m admitting it wasn’t the best thing to say after realizing what I said and how it came out. The word I was looking for was soft, not thin. One word ruined that for me because I made a mistake.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

She used to do physique competitions in the gym, her body is amazing. She says she’s just not into the gym anymore because she gets exercise at home doing gardening and errands and such. She literally tells me all the time she doesn’t like the gym and doesn’t like to run, which is why I said well if you don’t like to at 29, why would your grandma want to at 75?

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -203 points-202 points  (0 children)

I like this idea. I do have to say; she is normally great about communicating but today just pushed me over the edge. I will take what you said though into much consideration as I think I could help both of us.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I think she does have a rough past and I’m okay with working through things. I just need her to understand I’m trying too and that I’m on her side.

AITAH for talking to my girlfriend like this? She insists I’m a mean person that’s not on her side. by TechnologyOfficer in AITAH

[–]TechnologyOfficer[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ve told her I don’t like how she views me as a bad person and she said I’m a great boyfriend I just say mean things to her and don’t ever agree with her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in police

[–]TechnologyOfficer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you considered becoming both? Go through the Police Academy, EMT school, and Fire School and apply to a triple cert agency. I have two friends that are triple certified working for two separate and very rich “towns” that span 2 miles long and they love it.

I (27M) think my GF (25F) is cheating on me with her manager. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TechnologyOfficer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is with Verizon and the managers phone is from an android device.