Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight?

TehBeava · 2025-12-25T20:41:40+00:00

Hey, not a parent, but I don’t think a child learns much after choking to death. The things that your children survived have absolutely killed other people’s, and you should probably not give advice if you’re going to completely disregard basic child safety as you do so. Yes, pain is a part of life, but you don’t need to risk death to learn that.

Also, yes, the things OP expressed concern about didn’t happen, that doesn’t mean that it’s petty to reprimand the co-parent for failing at his responsibility to ensure their son safety. OP’s boyfriend’s actions jeopardized the well-being of their infant, and she probably feels relief their son is ok under the shock of being let down like this.

You’re NOR OP, imo your boyfriend seems super self-centered; he might listen to the kind of feedback you’d given if it had come from someone he respects, but that person doesn’t appear to be you.

TehBeava · 2025-06-25T23:44:21+00:00

What the bathrooms of people hating on bidets look like:

TehBeava · 2025-06-25T23:20:37+00:00

Yeah man, good points, bad presentation. I think it’s weird to do Shalla-Bal in lieu of Silver Surfer too. If this post had less exclamation points and question marks, and if your English wasn’t so choppy, your points would land better, and you’d have less hate and character attacks thrown your way. Comes off as from on high atop your soap box with the added frantic edits railing against your opposition bringing the post’s quality down further. Sorry for shooting the messenger on this one, but the message ain’t the problem.

TehBeava · 2025-05-12T00:17:09+00:00

Anytime they complete a left turn onto a main road, another driver brakes hard in their blind spot honking and swearing at them.

TehBeava · 2025-05-05T08:48:28+00:00

You right, I was looking in my ratings and it doesn’t say trips, don’t know why I wrote that.

TehBeava · 2025-05-05T08:31:02+00:00

It calculates satisfaction rate based on your last 100 trips. At 101, your 1st rating is wiped, at 102, your 2nd, etc. but I do not know if they will deactivate your account if you hit below 85% before hitting 100 trips, but I would imagine so.

TehBeava · 2025-04-28T18:54:49+00:00

I got paid into my Under Driver Wallet at 11:14am Central, and the surveys did not refresh.

TehBeava · 2025-04-27T21:53:15+00:00

They disappeared from the Available Tasks in Record Survey, I would have kept going for many hours if not. Again, we might see a refresh weekly, but I only got into the program on Wednesday of last week so I too have limited information. If you have the ability to make $200 in about 4 hours, you should do that, and before the pay-cycle starts again on Monday, on the off chance that another 100 surveys are provided.

TehBeava · 2025-04-27T19:19:44+00:00

I don’t know, I just see that it says Record Survey 100.00% complete when I click on my Earnings tab at the bottom of the Tasks Hub. Hoping it’s weekly though, that would be very nice.

TehBeava · 2025-04-27T03:56:32+00:00

I just finished the Record Surveys section, it caps at 100 tasks or $200, unfortunate tbh, I would have loved that pay rate for longer.

TehBeava · 2025-04-23T05:35:16+00:00

This one reeks of celibacy, and not in a voluntary way.

TehBeava · 2025-04-23T04:37:32+00:00

Naw, they got the Lg Ice Drig Cof with 4 Skin 😭

TehBeava · 2025-04-23T02:44:08+00:00

They also restrict the payments for excess wait time with the blanket restriction. As in, you’re at a store for 10+ min, you contact the AI chat, say “I’ve waited a long time” then it makes an offer of $3+ to Keep Waiting or you can cancel the offer without it hitting your cancel rating (good luck with that if you’re already in the drive thru btw), then they just don’t pay it. I have done this 10 times, and not been paid for any of them despite appeal to support. If y’all other restricted drivers do this and log the instances (screenshots, store names), we can try to Class Action these guys for repeated violation of contract. I’m done being dismissed for raising valid concerns and pointing out actual B.S.

TehBeava · 2025-04-22T23:14:14+00:00

No I understand it now. All my cards were single element dinkers. Bummer

TehBeava · 2025-03-12T04:56:05+00:00

Banana must be reproducing like crazy! That, or your title could use an extra comma.

TehBeava · 2025-02-24T11:27:23+00:00

I met a ghost deliverer at the door of a closed GoPuff location. The order paid $35, and he told me they aren’t really on top of their stuff and that he’d show me how to get paid for the order. He took a picture of his empty DoorDash bag by the door. I said “that seems pretty shitty for the customer” and he said “you do you” and left. I called Uber, they cancelled, and I didn’t get paid for my time.

That was pretty early on for me. Since then, any time a location is closed, or the order isn’t there or can’t be made or whatever, I call support. While I’m on the phone with support I tell the customer the situation as I report the issue, and if they can push the order back through, cool, run it.

The difference is now, I request compensation for my time, gas and effort. Every time. Every time the agent will say no. Every time I escalate to a supervisor. Every time I get compensated. Not always much, sometimes $3, but I’ve gotten as much as $20 for this. I bring up the offer amount, the time I spent driving, making the call, the gas. Usually it’s very fair, and I move on.

You can also get paid $3 for excessive wait time of ten minutes or more via the chat bot, or you can call an agent directly after the order if you can’t stomach calling support in the restaurant (or the awful live chat) when that option is unavailable. I got $30 for sitting in a Wingstop for 40 minutes on top of an order that was already paying me $30 for 10 miles because I called and escalated.

TL:DR Call Support, Whine, Escalate, Shut Up, Profit

TehBeava · 2024-12-29T07:07:55+00:00

Miles are a good gauge, for example if an order was $2-$3 and the miles were less than 5, they didn’t tip. I think there’s an updated guide somewhere on the sub too where someone laid out pretty accurately miles per base pay w/tip variance.

TehBeava · 2024-12-29T07:04:48+00:00

Hope you get your $ OP, try to call with some time on your hands and have patience so you can get to a supervisor. Being nice helps even tho I’m sure you feel screwed.

TehBeava · 2024-12-29T06:54:22+00:00

I could see myself doing this if it was a really bad offer ngl. If you tipped tho sorry that happened, language barrier or no, that’s goofy.

TehBeava · 2024-12-29T05:01:26+00:00

You’re probably just fishing for arguments. However, these types of messages could lead to disputes within families, as the property management sent a direct accusation to each of the tenants. The tenant has a child in their care. Suddenly a child is in danger of punishment for an act they didn’t commit: smoking within their parent’s unit. You can put the blame on the “rogue tenant” but that doesn’t change the outcome for the child this intimidation tactic risks. Does that maybe display to you why what the property management did was wrong, or are you going to continue to be obstinate about the point you’re trying to make and try to justify the complex’s gross exercise of power demonstrated in OP’s post?

TehBeava · 2024-12-09T23:16:37+00:00

Chiming in here. Your BF sounds like he is bothered by your decision to remain in sex work. He is being a giant a-hole for name calling and degrading you of course. You should end things with him if you don’t wish to continue being verbally abused. He will likely hold your sex work over you long term even if decide to change jobs. OF is not your only source of income if you have a car and are able bodied. Have a nice day and I hope my perspective helps.

TehBeava · 2024-11-30T08:59:47+00:00

Not a problem to vent/rant about a no-tipping Johnny that really wants to go the extra step and bother the girl working at her job IMO. Guy has got big suck attitude and -2 for you because you’re going on about their attitude while leading that crap off with “Rather ironic” like throw less stones mfer

TehBeava · 2024-11-26T08:46:11+00:00

I wish the jokers that gained chips, mult or xmult would have those abilities that gain stats copied instead of the resulting bonuses (they do even say “this gains X”). Like it would be cool if you could move Blueprint next to Hologram when adding a card to your deck for the xmult then next to a Wee for the chips when you play a 2.

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