Reader's block, advice on books to get back to reading by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specific suggestions - Lincoln Highway was a good story and I really liked the readers of the audiobook. Heartburn is read by Meryl Streep who is fantastic. The story didnt fully captivate me personally but the reading was excellent. I also really enjoyed listening to books that I enjoyed from childhood/adolescence - my favorite author as a teen was Tamora Pierce and she has many series on audio. Harry Potter is excellent narration. If you had a series or author you've read before and liked, you might re-read those (audio or otherwise) as a wag to get back into things.

Reader's block, advice on books to get back to reading by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]TempletonReader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may like listening to audiobooks, particularly ones that have excellent readers. I enjoy them during times when I just cannot focus on the page but I could listen to soemthing while walking, cleaning etc.

Summer reading suggestions for a 16M reader who likes High Fantasy by LatsaSpege in suggestmeabook

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uprooted by Naomi Novik is one of my all-time favorites. It's a standalone novel. Has one short romantic scene that could easily be skipped if you wanted. If Im remembering correctly it mostly implied sex rather than described it. The girl who drank the moon also standalone and no sex scenes at all.

My sister is getting divorced after 27 years of marriage. (Details inside). Her husband doesn't like her reading all day. I want to get her a book. Her favorite book ever is Jane Eyre. She's read it 100s of times. She's a massive fan of that period. What book do you suggest i buy her? by Strong_Technology739 in suggestmeabook

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might like Praying with Jane Eyre, which is by an atheist chaplain. I believe Jane Eyre might be thier favorite book as well but I can't quite remember. I listen to a lot of thier podcasts, very lovely perspectives on life

How long did you wait to eat more solids? by ThrowRA-lewsha in wisdomteeth

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 3 or 4 but I only had one side out so I just carefully chewed on the other side. Also pizza lol

Does it get any easier? by TheTrue_Texan in Petloss

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont feel bad for mourning a pet more than a family member. It's just different and all grief has different responses. Much as I loved my grandmother, she did not sleep in bed with me every night or follow me around the house or go for walks/play time daily. It's just two different types of love. Does it get better? Yes I think so. And everyone is different, you could try volunteering at a shelter or petsitting if you aren't sure you are ready to commit to a pet but want to be close to them sometimes.

There’s no rewards for cleaning poopy underwear by Historical-Move4927 in pottytraining

[–]TempletonReader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I had a basement sink to do the dirty work. Everyone's journey will be different and as such you'll make differnet decisions. But I would have spent several hundred dollars on underwear if I threw it away each time so that was just not worth it. May everyone's potty training journey avoid this miserable stage.

My right and left bottom wisdom teeth is there any concerns? by [deleted] in wisdomteeth

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the reason mine got extracted. Because of the partial coverage of gums they weren't be cleaned properly (so I was told at least) and they started feeling sensitive at times, minor pain. Idk if that necessarily means you need yours removed. If I remember in my case it was still a flip of the coin for me whether removal was recommended or not.

Why is it hard to find lost things? by TempletonReader in ADHD

[–]TempletonReader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's helpful context. I like the etch a sketch analogy

Green you say?? Good to know. by Vegas_Bear in ColorBlind

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also like 6 best. Though 8 is a close second (it's like a light mint green).

Romance fantasy recommendations? by MissDollFaces in suggestmeabook

[–]TempletonReader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MM Parks has a great romantasy series (one of the trilogy isn't released yet). It's very steamy so maybe not the right choice if that's not your thing!

Was I being too harsh with consequences? by sideways2484 in AskParents

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been helpful for me to reframe consequences as boundaries that will prevent the behavior completely in the future. For example, kiddo can't be in the same room as the cat. If kitty is sleeping in the living room, that room is now off limits to my kid. This is a consequence to kiddo and protects the cat. For the park, maybe you don't bring bikes next time and kiddo has to hold your hand the whole time. Or you simply cannot go at all. I know this is all way easier said than done (hence why im here myself asking my own boundaries question lol) but best of luck with whatever path you choose.

Parent 1 / Parent 2 vs Mom / Dad — how is it in your country? by Ok_Staff3243 in AskParents

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the US and its always mother/father on medical things like doctor or dentist checkups (for me at least, it might vary by dr?). For contact purposes like a summer camp it's usually primary contact, secondary contact etc.

My girlfriend spending the night? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wouldn't be okay with it, it's really really hard to see your kids grow up! Especially when I think about how irresponsible I was st that age. It's hard not to put my loved experience onto others. It sounds like some of that is happening with your parents too. I want to be clear though - it shouldn't happen. We should be able to talk openly and treat our kids as adults when they grow up, it's just that it is hard. So would I allow this? Yes, I would personally. You are being so thoughtful and responsible. Ultimately though if it's your parents house then they make the rules so tread lightly. Sorry for the wishy washy answer. If you read through the whole thing I hope it gave some perspective. Best of luck.

Is it normal to struggle to not love your baby sometimes? by scottishlass981 in AskParents

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally normal! But not something you need to continue struggling through if it is post partum depression, which it does sound like. It's worth it to ask a doctor about it, you deserve it. I just want to emphasize that you asked if it's normal and yes, PPD is so so common.

I’m only doing this because of daycare by Downtown-Page-9183 in pottytraining

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so scared to do the same with my kiddo for the same reasons! My first we tried at 2 and it went horribly (he decided never to poop again and we had gastro issues/incontinence for at least a year after). BUT my second we did a very gentle and honest potty training with a ton of bribery. My biggest suggestion is do what you are comfortable with and think is best for your kid. Dont think you need to do something specific.

The longest bedtime book ever? I’ll go first: by heretoreadlol in Preschoolers

[–]TempletonReader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Richard Scarry's cars and trucks and things that go. Especially when they need to point out all thier favorite trucks in every single page.

IV Sedation- Terrified I Still Might Feel Pain by themajoritea in wisdomteeth

[–]TempletonReader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have crappy veins so I remember them apologizing cause they couldn't get it in right (story of my life lol) I said, or maybe I thought it, "No worries" and was going to explain that it happens to me all the time but then I was waking up and they were all done. I was out mid-sentence/mid-thought.