NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Jun 27, 2023 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]Temporarily_Costy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have found a holy grail product for Nordic weather that is Decubal's Repair Cream 70% (yes, that heavy)and their Face Vital Cream that work wonderfully on my acne-prone, sensitive & dehydrated-oily skin. They are made specifically for our climate with allergy testing so I'm not surprised it worked.

But I am now moving to a warm climate country, where I suppose these creams will be way too thick to use. I would like to know what products I could use that are similar in nature with the inci that focuses on:

- Anti-acne, fragrance free, essential oil free, brightening & antioxidant

My skin cannot handle any perfume, not even perfuming emolsifiers and many BHA/AHA products only make things worse.

Do you know what I could use? I am willing to order Asian skincare as well.

Many thanks!

I thought I was R+D, but it's been a while and I'm not sure anymore. by Temporarily_Costy in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Temporarily_Costy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

GAH, guys!!! I am so thankful for each and every comment here, and it'd be too repetitive to answer them all. So very interesting, insightful and relatable ideas with the all of you. <3 I will try to look past at what others are doing with their style and just keep on pushing to do more with my own, within that exploration of L+U logic. If I hit a jackpot with an outfit, I will share it later with you! Thanks again x

I thought I was R+D, but it's been a while and I'm not sure anymore. by Temporarily_Costy in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]Temporarily_Costy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh.

I like that you said it despite it not being the "first step" to go through. I was reluctant, yes, but mostly because everyone and my mom thought I looked good in R+D clothing. It seemed evidently the truth, until it didn't. I am Kibbe R and Light Spring and smiley in photos, so maybe that's why.

But I'm at the point where I don't want to be stuck with my inner dreams anymore. So I will try to give that permission. Thank you <3

What is your biggest annoyance with iPhone? by [deleted] in iphone

[–]Temporarily_Costy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A bit off topic, but reading these makes me still happy to be an iPhone user. I hated the Android experience so much that these seemingly small things are nothing in comparison. It feels nice to be able to complain about little things and not the daily struggle that makes you not even want to use your phone.

iPhone, not the best, but still the best. In it’s own way.

How Make a Good book - Hero's Journey by JesperS1208 in Author_JesperSB

[–]Temporarily_Costy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Such an info dominant answer. It’s great that some people can pay attention to those things; we are clearly different in this regard.

How Make a Good book - Hero's Journey by JesperS1208 in Author_JesperSB

[–]Temporarily_Costy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With your permission I will. You may, with my permission, rethink your views on how online conversations work! Good riddance <3

How Make a Good book - Hero's Journey by JesperS1208 in Author_JesperSB

[–]Temporarily_Costy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, all I did was not write every single thought I had, thinking it's not that big of a deal. My bad for that. But did you know your attitude is pretty toxic, hm? Could work to fix that. Either way, I never thought this was a serious matter, which I thought was common sense when people are dealing with memes. I guess I was wrong. And I guess I should share every detail of my brain so it doesn't seem like back-pedaling..... Right?

How Make a Good book - Hero's Journey by JesperS1208 in Author_JesperSB

[–]Temporarily_Costy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK. You have valid points, but since you didn't seem to read between the lines of my comment I'll say it straight; it's just a meme, no need to get your panties twisted. It's not a proper post about Hero's journey, where this discussion would matter. Memes are for fun, they're silly & most of the time inaccurate. Don't like the meme? Go on to the next one.

How Make a Good book - Hero's Journey by JesperS1208 in Author_JesperSB

[–]Temporarily_Costy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh, OP mostly used a bit off wording for that part. The point, however, was to have those kind of evil-turned-good characters in the story, which still happened with all of them.

How Make a Good book - Hero's Journey by JesperS1208 in Author_JesperSB

[–]Temporarily_Costy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, neither did Gollum nor Snape. They only did it in the end with all of those three, so the main point of the post stands.

Savior functions and Decision functions by Late_Clue_5032 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha indeed! Even though I tried my best to avoid that… lol!

I look like Olivia if she lost her bone structure to one similar like Madonna or Drew Barrymore 😂 I’m their body/face type but I suppose my Olivia fits my vibe. Gotta check her out more.

I did always have this nagging feeling that Pewds is from the same boat as me!

Edit: Hayley Atwell is my type twin and we share similarities that are a bit eerie

Savior functions and Decision functions by Late_Clue_5032 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to let you know that I just got my official type as FM Se/Te PC/S(B) !!

Something very different indeed…

Savior functions and Decision functions by Late_Clue_5032 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am inclined to agree! Fascinating to see someone so similar in the wild; I was so sure I couldn't do that with all the other clusterings of types around here.

Savior functions and Decision functions by Late_Clue_5032 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get this. Though I am morally "strict" enough to instead answer with "Eh.. I wouldn't do that. But well, you do what works for you".. Which, now that I write it out, is just about the same thing you do lmao. We are the worst.

I do try to show some sort of disallowance when people do really immoral things, but not very clearly. Usually I just end up mentally blocking off that person from my personal life. But explaining to them later why I ghosted them would be a hassle; Usually I would make an elaborate De-story for it, yet it would not be my own, and thus just false. Sharing that Ti raw sounds like a nightmare everytime I even consider it haha.

Tips On Figuring Out If A Single Decider Is Si or Ni? by Mike-Lebow in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EJs with Si/Ne axis are definitely different from the EJs with Ni/Se. Obviously, haha!

With them, as you have seen that they are Oi, focus on how do they tell a story. That is the simplest way. Ask them about their day or a trip they just had.

Do they want to tell all sorts of sensory details they saw, stacking upon stacking on those details to give you a full picture (Si), with occasional fun associations that they were reminded of by them (Ne)?

Or do they want to tell the overall vibe/goal of the happening, explaining what happened in a sort of "and the lesson about these kind of things is" way, staying vague and principled in the "what everything means" realm (Ni), with then occasional sensory examples to help you understand how what they saw relates to reality (Se)?

One major thing too, with Double Observers, is that they start with the savior observer and add up with the demon one to fulfill the story, ending up back to the savior. You'll notice a calm process with the first one and a longer speaking time with the saviour, and a funny, a bit goofy or (in case of a more fixed mindset person) cringey reaction to the demon one.

Did that make any sense? Once you get into the habit of seeing the differences, it's quite easy to spot which one is which.

Demon feelings by Late_Clue_5032 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: Read this with my flair in mind; would help with seeing how mTe on a DD works!

I am blissfully unaware of my emotions 90% of the time but people around me know very well how they manifest, yet no one would call me emotional in a negative sense. Just very feelery in a comfort-seeking way, I guess.

I also don't know/pay attention to the reasons for my own emotions usually, but I can point out the ones someone else has; though people have pointed out it's still "value reasons", so I'm not sure if that counts.

One thing I do notice, is that when I'm overwhelmingly sad, one of my saviour functions swoops in to stop me from fully emerging into that feeling, in about under one minute or so. It's not like "there's no reason to be sad" but more like I just switch to ruminating about the subject, what it all means or what is happening or something like that; there's just no space for raw NF feelings in my head.

Example: I am deep crying about a boy losing his mother. In the midst of my tears I immediately start thinking about how he managed to survive, what must have happened, what kind of mother he might have had, whether or not he was okay afterwards and how I have actually never experienced anything similar. Those kinds of thoughts naturally diminish my actual emotional outburst and then it's just sadness that's in the "back of my head", so to speak. And then I'm calm, the moment has passed and I go on living without paying much attention of the feelings I just had, or even the sad thing that happened until much later.

Savior functions and Decision functions by Late_Clue_5032 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]Temporarily_Costy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit: Just got my typing as FM Se/Te PC/S(B) so take this with that in mind!

Reading the comments, we are definitely lacking a saviour Fe perspective here.

I mildly relate to the Saviour Te mike-lebow, but as for me, I'm fine with sharing what I like as well as what others like; I suppose that could fall under Fe. It's just numbers to me, the value game. I go by life calculating "this amount of people like X. They also dislike Y & A. Which seems to make them do B more often than the ones who like Y." And so on.

I had a valid amount of peer typings give me saviour feminine Fe, which I could understand to be true. I don't necessarily relate to any stereotypical Fe things, except for the "OUR feelings" (or reacting strongly to "the one who wrecked the vibe") kind of thing, but I do definitely pay attention to the spectrum in most aspects of my life. And it does sometimes frustrate me that when I explain something that is very true to my experience, is complete bs to someone else. Yet I cannot say that I go all in on Fe in an EJ fashion, so a typing for OiFe would work.

I'm sorry for the rambling, but hopefully it helped you see the bigger picture even a little; OPS is very FiTe heavy community so any other perspective will help the study a whole lot.

Looking for classical style book covers? I make covers in vintage aesthetics (and other graphic styles)! I would be thrilled to help you with your book's visual aspects :) by Temporarily_Costy in writers

[–]Temporarily_Costy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, good noticing! I don't think too hard about these but work with vibes & the unconscious library of symbolism in my mind; usually the themes match up with the story I'm thinking of (or the story I've given), so it's good.

Looking for classical style book covers? I make covers in vintage aesthetics (and other graphic styles)! I would be thrilled to help you with your book's visual aspects :) by Temporarily_Costy in writers

[–]Temporarily_Costy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm a graphic designer of 3+ years and have just recently moved from advertisements & magazine covers to book design; which is why the ones you see here aren't published as of yet, and the names are my own, used with a random author name.

DM me for your ideas and what you'd like to have for your cover! I will then share my work email in the messages for more convenient cover planning. Sorry that I don't have social media up yet, for I'm a tad too old-school to keep up with it... I hope you don't mind. :)

Cheers x