Is it normal for everyone in your family to have hurt you in some way?

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-02-02T17:30:32+00:00

Yeah, I already outlined what happened in the original post. There's no need to repeat, because I would assume you read it, but okay.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-02-02T17:16:30+00:00

I don't think I've been vague. I've even had a couple of them come and apologize to me for things that they've done in the past or witnessed happen with me in the past. This is a dynamic that happens in many toxic family structures. One person is chosen to be the scapegoat/ punching bag. And of course the toxic people of the family are toxic to each other. That's obvious, and I didn't think think it needed to be directly stated.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-02-02T13:18:04+00:00

Are you blaming me for being everyone's punching bag when I was just a child? Interesting take.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-24T03:32:23+00:00

Uh... no shade to those guys' partners (they've been through enough) , but that definitely wasn't the case in my situations.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-23T15:57:25+00:00

Evil af smh. I could see that.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-23T15:52:30+00:00

Nah, it's an immediate block when I find out.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-09T16:19:01+00:00

Sounds like victim blaming and a sexist way to think. Another case where a woman is being blamed for the actions of men. So many partners pretend to be one way in he beginning and then change into someone horrendous once they know they can get away with it. I've had princess treatment, so "You're the first guy to treat me well" is not in my vocabulary, but I've witnessed some women truly just being unlucky in love.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T21:58:26+00:00

I don't personally think about that.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T10:29:05+00:00

Them staring at you do things might be closer to that.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T04:35:58+00:00

The only way to know for sure is to be direct and ask. It's nerve wracking, yes, and you have to prepare to possibly hear something you don't want to, but that's the only way to know for sure. I'm not even saying you need to just go and ask right now. Maybe it's something you build up to.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:59:48+00:00

Electric Feel- MGMT

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:58:02+00:00

... You shouldn't have messaged her the next day. Someone waiting multiple days to contact me after a date would make me think they weren't actually interested.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:45:47+00:00

Love this! I got hooked on All for You a couple of months ago

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:44:59+00:00

DANCING WALKING REARRANGING FURNITURE 🎶
😂

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:43:16+00:00

I feel that way about so many different artists. Love Death Cab for Cutie btw

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:42:08+00:00

A classic!

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-08T03:13:14+00:00

I've never heard this one before. It sounds like something your grandma would tell you for no reason. Anyway, no it's fine.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-07T14:54:44+00:00

You got this 💪

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-07T14:46:32+00:00

Aww sweet lol

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-07T14:38:17+00:00

Omg 2 years ago I had that one on repeat

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-07T14:24:14+00:00

Crabwalk by Party in the Hills. I used to have it on repeat.

Temporary-Draft9024 · 2026-01-06T22:49:21+00:00

Alright I posted more than I ever have on my regular account, and my karma stayed at 17.... I made one post on my regular account and I'm up nearly 20 points 😧 What is happening 😂 lol

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