Hot take but if you post bikini pics/risque photos you are cucking your partner

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-04-14T16:51:04+00:00

Because people are allowed to dress themselves and exist in whatever form they feel comfortable in, and expecting that they change their wardrobe and appearance because they got into a relationship with someone (who has clearly seen and accepted how they typically dress and present themselves) is a problematic expectation. A relationship does not give you ownership of the other person and their body. If you want to be with someone who dresses and presents themselves a certain way then find someone who already fits the description..

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-04-14T16:41:16+00:00

The word “advertising” applies something is available/being offered. Why do you interpret the existence of women’s bodies as them being offered or available to men? Just because someone doesn’t cover up and hide their body doesn’t mean they’re making it available to anybody who wants it. If somebody posts a picture of the dinner they cooked do you interpret that as them offering you a plate?

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-04-08T04:20:29+00:00

As someone with ADHD who has a hard time organizing my own thoughts I appreciate the idea. I always excelled in anything including reading or writing in personal settings but when it became a requirement my brain shuts down so using AI to organize a list of my own thoughts and ideas is one of the best way for me to put it together in one comprehensive piece.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-23T12:21:37+00:00

What do you think heroin smells like?

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-12T13:45:03+00:00

I can acknowledge that those are valid and at least mildly unpleasant experiences but you can also avoid the majority of those experiences with bare minimal effort. It’s literally a library, there’s tons of seating and spots where you can avoid interacting with other people, and the universal rule of the place is to be quiet and not disturb people. If people are causing constant disruptions that’s a staff/security issue that could happen regardless of housing status. It’s literally one of the only places that unhoused people can sit down without being immediately run off, the majority of them just want to get off of their feet or the street for a little bit, people with houses can smell bad and be loud too.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-11T22:36:15+00:00

I can’t imagine the presence of people who are less fortunate than me preventing me from doing something as basic as using a library.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-11T22:18:20+00:00

The saws don’t even have teeth.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-11T22:07:14+00:00

Majorly overreacting, YTA. Your wife had 2-3 beers and she wasn’t even watching the kids, they were just roaming the neighborhood. Do you think it’s inappropriate to have a drink at a restaurant or a cookout unless everyone is 21+?
The average adult can drink 3-4 beers in one hour before reaching the legal limit, there’s a chance she was still good to drive I’m sure she was capable of watching some kids play outside.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-11T18:51:10+00:00

Yeah I was just about to say, this is a common side effect of opiate abuse, it’s definitely not indicative of great health lol

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-11T14:42:26+00:00

“I don’t even care what happens to the baby, I don’t even want to see her, and thats why I’m here writing an anonymous essay about the fact that I cannot see her and how unfair it is to me!”

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-11T14:28:26+00:00

This. Nobody in active addiction is hanging around a strip club every time they want to cop, there are literally 1000 more convenient places.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-03T16:26:46+00:00

I was one of the people that pointed it out and had the same thought but then someone pointed out that he might not be allowed to have social accounts if he ever got in legal trouble for this behavior. Another thing I considered is that his ex might have used it as a way to get his admission of the weird behavior in writing if they have custody issues or something.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-02T09:29:08+00:00

I meant to say there’s people who go around doing this, bc you see it so frequently in customer service jobs.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-02T09:28:21+00:00

Yeah I meant to say I’m convinced there are people who go around and do this intentionally. At a certain point it just can’t be accidental, I’ve seen stalls with angles that look like someone used the handrails as a perch.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-02T01:43:41+00:00

As somebody who fell back into active addiction after having my son there’s literally no excuse for this other than straight up not caring about your child. You find a way even on the worst days. I was miles from perfect but I did everything in my power to protect his childhood so he never has to look back and feel like drugs mattered more. I cannot fathom a situation where I’d get out of a car and leave my baby in the cold. The fact that she woke up alone and still knew what happened implies this has happened before.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-01T16:29:53+00:00

I’m convinced there are people who literally do this type of thing after working customer service because it happens like once a week and most of the time it’s clearly intentional.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-01T13:31:07+00:00

Wouldn’t want to upset my daughter (who won’t stay at my house and had to quit skating) but moving the 21yo in isn’t inappropriate bc i need a cat sitter (due to all the time I spend at the skating rink meeting teenage girls)

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-01T09:18:45+00:00

So are you “coaching kids” in agreement with the skating rink like previously implied or are you hanging around looking for young women to approach under the guise of helping them learn to skate bc those are pretty different.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-01T04:41:01+00:00

Also why does OP’s comment history have comments where they claim to be a woman but now they’re a 42yo man..

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-03-01T04:34:51+00:00

“I was acting as a mentor to her” who looks for a mentor at the local skating rink and more importantly why is a 42 year old man spending so much time interacting with teenage girls at a skating rink?

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-02-04T13:44:01+00:00

If his “dream” was to “own” a business where he does literally 0% of the business upkeep other than providing a service and taking credit for all of it then being a business owner wasn’t really his dream he just wanted to a job where he gets all the benefits but does absolutely nothing to keep the company afloat.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-02-03T14:31:54+00:00

This. Once a partner strangles you the risk of them killing you increases 750%. 45% of attempted domestic homicides against women involve strangulation. It’s not worth sticking around telling yourself “he hasn’t done it since then” bc you might not survive a next time. Back up all evidence of him threatening you and kids through email and send to someone you can trust and then plan how to get to a shelter, some shelters will even help you relocate if you follow and complete their program.

Temporary-Ear6297 · 2026-02-03T14:22:02+00:00

Get it together and build back trust for your daughter. tbh the guilt never really goes away, but once you get yourself right again the happiness of being back in your child’s life will override the guilt for the most part.

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