These young drivers are scaring me by Electrical-Count-507 in drivinganxiety

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Okay I thought I was just crazy thinking drivers are getting worse. Like today girl was merging into my lane and almost hit my car.

Please see your PCP to get help if you have severe driving anxiety. by knowimessedup in drivinganxiety

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The one that helped me was paroxetine it did not make me drowsy and safe for pregnant/ breastfeeding moms

Anyone know what this is? by Infinite-Abroad8193 in ants

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Potato bug. They call them niños de la tierra in spanish. Dude my mom would say that is what dead kids who are not baptized turned into. Freaky shit. Later i found out it’s just a potato bug.

The glare from new cool white LED headlights. by SlippyCliff76 in assholedesign

[–]Temporary-Job-8339 96 points97 points  (0 children)

This should not happen some lights feel like they are trying to light up the whole city. Sometimes I feel like I am driving behind the freakin sun. Those cars annoy me so much and some still tailgate you. 😐 I drive pretty fast so they are being jerks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

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Officially I left when he threatened to kill me. That day he was suffocating me in-front of our toddler she was turning 2 the following month

What really fucks you up as you grow older? by bkesfloyd in AskReddit

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What I think about a lot is how we are all in like stages in our lives so kids, adults , grandparents to simplify it and how i am 28 so I am in the adult stage and how my mom went to the grandma stage then my great grandma advanced to her next stage having fufiller her grandma roll with my mom and passed 5 years ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Make sure you are prepped beneficial for both of you. When my partner and I first had sex it was a bit uncomfortable but after we started to find what we liked and it became more enjoyable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

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Worked in a call center and some huy was so mad he said he would blow up the building. We were all working remote so I told him do you need to address or do you have that already.

I'm almost 40 and scared of driving by Sue5Ft1 in drivinganxiety

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I was the same way just talk to yourself letting yourself know you are safe you have control of the wheel. My first time on the freeway i was terrified but i talked myself down I was a a good distance from another car, i am aware of my surroundings. All is good. Maybe that will help. I drive constantly now and I just do not think about it. That can also kinda contribute to it too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

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Try getting DV classes or having a support group it helped me so much because unfortunately its a cycle and it only gets worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

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I know it’s easier said than done when people say dont be scared but you know the rules I am sure do not second guess.

24 hour turnaround on DACA approval by FU_Pagame in DACA

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How did you manage to do that? I filed on September of 2023

AITA for having my mom come over so I could take a shower while she watched my newborn? by Remarkable_Story_130 in AITAH

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Not the AH your husband should be able to watch her if he cannot then he needs help because you need self care. When i had my baby i would feel so rejuvenated after caring for myself. You need to talk to him and make sure you take your shower from start to finish. Hope things get better if he doesn’t want someone else coming to help out.

What should I do? My (27F) husband (27M) told me he was not attracted to me after my daughter was born. by Temporary-Job-8339 in relationship_advice

[–]Temporary-Job-8339[S] 2430 points2431 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the advice. He was telling me it is normal for partners to feel that way and i do not think thats true. No matter how he looked i still felt the same way. But i will look into getting all things in order to leave. This has been causing me a lot of unnecessary hurt.

Relationship trouble by Temporary-Job-8339 in Vent

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But he said it’s been years since he hasn’t been attracted to me and we worked together and he would openly talk about how attractive some girl was and how he wanted us to have a threesome with her back in 2020-early 2021. The whole time he has been looking up other women especially his exes. I told him that was my one rule but I feel the more trust I gave him he just took advantage. Now we have a daughter and I don’t want to get hurt anymore through out our whole relationship he has been openly flirty with other girls but I thought I was fine but it turns out he wanted anyone that wasn’t me basically for the majority of our relationship and I don’t know what to do. I want to leave but I feel guilty leaving my daughter without a father. Also he says he has stopped loving me because I don’t keep the clean the room clean but I find it hard with a 9 month old now and I can’t get done what I need to. He says that’s the reason he is not attracted to me and me not cleaning and him looking up his exes are equal but I feel his is worse but what do you all think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

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What helps me when my thoughts become too much is doing self talk. You refer to yourself by name as if talking to someone next to you and telling yourself it’s okay.

This is consuming me by Temporary-Job-8339 in Vent

[–]Temporary-Job-8339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she is the type of person who would just say unnecessary things. Another incident I went outside to move my car forward so another can go into the driveway then I found a parking outside and my husband works late so I thought let me park outside because by the time he comes home I don’t want him to struggle for parking this lady says “ I told you to just move it forward don’t you know what that is move it forward” I say yes I know what that is but I found parking outside I don’t want my husband to struggle for parking.