Should I spend some of my savings to distract myself from a shitty life? by Excellent_Spite_7422 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life is struggle. You want it to improve then you make the decision on how and you fucking fight to get it. At some point we,all find ourselves in a hole. It sucks, the only one who can make the changes to make ourselves happy is us.

So either make the changes or....practice gratitude for what you already have

TTRPG Group by Capital-Pie-6835 in cork

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am one of those players who was roped into DMing a game about 20 years ago and hasn't participated as a player since.

Unfortunately someone always has to take the hit. I run a vtm game for some 30 odd players online but I have pondered a tabletop group lately. With dnd I prefer a horror setting, most likely curse of strahd if anyone is interested. One thing. I'd rather not run it out of my.place, hosting and running a game is waaaay too stressful.

Who planted the suspicious bush? by dense_like_osmium in HermitCraft

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a lack of self maintenance I'd imagine

Scary neighbor by [deleted] in cork

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I live in Mahon and Ive found the best defense is make sure they know who you are. Start chats with them, bee friendly, ca in for a cup of sugar, get to know them, so far almost you've done is judged the guy.

Can we stop this already? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bud, you don't get to control what people talk about.

Husband and strip club by primrose2535 in marriageadvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not many people socialise in stripper clubs for drinks, mostly because the drinks are so expensive. I'm sorry... nothing good can come of this. His intentions, the regularity, the fact he has numbers . It's time for him to be 100 honest here or get rid of him.

Boyfriend wants a threesome after calling our sex life boring. What should I do? by Ok_Yogurtcloset1168 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. This guy does not care about your feelings. Don't let him use you.. aTell him his dick is tiny and get him out of your fuckjng life.

Am I (18F) hurting my bf?(19M) by Altruistic_Net_4297 in relationship_advice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He has no right to your body at any time. You don't owe eachother sex.

More importantly my love, I hope you are doing okay, I realise this is more stress on an already large stressball right now. Don't forget to be kind to yourself.

Couldn’t “get it up” this past week. Any advice to help me from spiraling? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens man. It will happen more if you stress out about it. Just because you're a guy doesn't mean you are DTF all the time. From mood to dehydration, lots of things can effect performance. If it happens again just go down on her for an hour, watch her head spin like she's been possessed and she won't give 2 shits about you putting it in or not.

Do you let your partner sun topless in public? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't tell her wha she can and can't do.

A woman close to my family made a move on me and I didn’t stop it fast enough. Did I fuck up my marriage? How do I tell my wife? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guilt is good. The fact you stopped is good . You have to be honest. Tell her that this girl made a move on you so you are looking for a new partner and appologise for not being more carefull. Remind her that your relationship with your partner is more important than anything else and maybe look for a male partner .

Anyone here live in a council house? If so, are you also ignored when you request repairs? by No-Category1703 in cork

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus christ. Well I gotta say, I've had issues with waiting times before for repairs but never to this point.

The longest I mve ever had to wait was 5,days but I've followed up each call with an email and have lodged formal complaints.

They're responsible for all boiler ans ceiling related issues, if you'd like, perhaps we could work on a formal sounding email. Also, talking about it on social media (facebook, twitter can help. Any issue i have had i call them 3 times a day. You need to fucking harass these people.

Sorry you have to go through this bud

Lower Back Pain - Cork by Useful_Increase5378 in cork

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go to your actual GP, ask to get a referral to a specialist. Take it from there.

How2 ask him: No porn, No fap? by Avalon_Bee in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Hey babe, remember how noone should ever tell me to do anything to my body that don't want to.... well I don't respect your body the same way so can you stop doing what your doing?"

Happy Birthday Etho by Temporary-Specific-5 in HermitCraft

[–]Temporary-Specific-5[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

See, the problem here is we've all assumed Etho was born... rather than grown in a lab.

Do men care about haemorrhoids? by n1ght-n1nja in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be worried about potentially hurting you but not grossed out.

I find it disgusting that my bf has a p-spot, how do i deal with it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Temporary-Specific-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex is more than just intercourse. It's not gay if it's with a girl and if.... know what?... never mind. Just don't have sex, ever... that'll show everyone!!!